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If your girlfriend or wife is about to get breast implants, you feel like she is bringing you home a new toy (or toys)! But you need to know how to play with them carefully. Here are some things men need to know about sex after a breast augmentation.
When you really, really want something, it’s tempting to overlook the risks. You do it with your dating life (you know a guy isn’t good for you, but he is so hot), you do it with your jobs (you know your boss is a nut, but the pay is satisfying) and you might even do it with something as life changing as plastic surgery. But you can’t overlook the risks of this ever-growing trend. If you are considering altering something about yourself, here are 15 hidden risks of plastic surgery you need to know beforehand.
We’ve all heard the horrific “pumping party” tales of women looking to get a little plump in the rump. They’re often led by unlicensed non-professionals who inject silicone, Krazy Glue, and even cement into bodies that are forever altered. Some women lose limbs as a result of this deplorable and illegal practice. Others, their lives. Just this week we told you about the Maryland woman who died after getting an illegal butt lift procedure done in a basement in Queens.
This is an extreme example, but it helps to exemplify the stigma long associated with cosmetic surgery in the Black community. Not only is it perceived as dangerous (even in the hands of reputable doctors, no cosmetic surgery is 100% safe), but it is also seen as something a lot of Black women and women of color in general just don’t do. That could explain, in small part, the underground pumping party phenomenon.
Whether it be rhinoplasty, breast implants or face-lifts, cosmetic surgery has been thought to be an impossible quest for perfection. A desire to reverse the aging process, and a quick fix confidence booster to remedy a perceived flaw. Depending on the kind of procedure, there’s also the assumption that if you’re a Black woman going under the knife, you’re trying to erase the physical signs of your race and are therefore adhering to Eurocentric standards of beauty. These standards ignore or condemn our features, but laud them on white skin. A little nip here and a little tuck there, especially on the face, is thought to result in an unnatural, stiff look that renders people unrecognizable. Botox and skin bleaching form separate categories of hate and shade altogether, and that’s no pun intended.
In an attempt to demystify all of these assumptions and taboos, Dr. Nia Banks, an African-American board certified plastic surgeon and owner of Beaux Arts Institute of Plastic Surgery in Lanham, Maryland, spoke to Roland Martin in a 2014 NewsOne Now interview. According to Dr. Banks, “Most people get plastic surgery because they’re trying to get back something they already had. They’re not trying to look like somebody else, they’re not trying to never age.” The most common surgeries her office performs are liposuctions, tummy tucks, and breast lifts. These are often done to repair dramatic changes incurred during pregnancy. So while we’re used to seeing surgeries that have gone too far, the healthy way to use plastic surgery, Dr. Banks asserts, is as a means to enhance, not to be completely transformed.
“Most women don’t want a radical change,” Dr. Banks continues. “That’s a red flag…Most women who get plastic surgery actually have a very strong self-esteem, looking to change something very specific. If someone comes in and says, ‘I want to look like so and so,’ that’s usually a red flag, because that’s not achievable.”
But red flags don’t keep all doctors from operating on people who have had one too many procedures done. Like the late Michael Jackson, who was clearly addicted to cosmetic surgery, or Lil Kim, who could very well suffer from body dysmorphic disorder. It’s that willingness to operate on patients, no matter the psychological cost, which helps to keep the plastic surgery taboo alive.
But it seems that things are starting to change. In fact, many celebrities have spoken openly about the work they’ve had done, including NeNe Leakes, Porsha Williams, Wendy Williams, and Kelly Rowland. And the numbers prove it as well. According to the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery, cosmetic surgery is up six-fold since 1997. The biggest spike in plastic surgery in 2014 was butt augmentation, up a whopping 86% from the year before. Even labiaplasty – Yep, they do that too – rose by 49%. Here are some more staggering statistics: 15.1 million Americans had cosmetic procedures done in 2013 alone. From 2005 to 2013, cosmetic surgeries done on African Americans increased by 56%. And with the popularity of reality shows like Botched, Dr. 90210, and The Swan over the years, it’s easy to see why cosmetic surgery has become more commonplace, less secretive, and less taboo, both in the U.S. as a whole and particularly in the Black community.
So while the stigma is waning, the pressures that women face in our youth-driven, beauty-obsessed society are still very real. Some businesses even offer “mommy makeover” packages that promise to lift and tuck women in all the right places.
Ultimately, there are a myriad reasons why women choose to get cosmetic surgery. Should you decide to undergo a procedure, do your research and make sure that you approach it from a sound and mentally stable place. And seek out a doctor who has worked with Black skin, as ours is more prone to keloids and scarring. While there are more questions than answers when it comes to the psychological effects of cosmetic surgery, one thing is certain: there are no easy fixes.
When I think about Tiffany “New York” Pollard, I always think remember the thin, stringy-weaved, cut out, blue dress wearing reality show contestant who mooned Flavor Flav when he sent her home after bringing her back on the show for the second time.
“You brought me back here to open up the same muthf**kin wound Flav?”
But when Tiffany came back for her own show, “I Love New York,” she looked a little bit different. She had fuller hair, she’d put on a bit of weight and her boobs were bigger, a lot bigger. If you were like me, you were so distracted by her words and actions, you might not have noticed the breasts.
But in a new episode of E!’s “Botched,” she explains that they’ve caused her quite a few problems. In a teaser for the show, New York explains why she had the girls done and why she wants them fixed now.
Why she wanted them:
I grew up in upstate New York, being the granddaughter of a minister. Life was very sheltered for me. Just pretty much church, school and home. I just never felt like I fully fit in. So I found my escape watching television and saying ‘Bitch, one day you will be somebody.
One day I was watching Geraldo Rivera and I saw Dolly Parton walk out on stage. And when I saw that White chick come out on the screen with her blonde hair, her tiny waist and her big tits, I said that’s going to be me one day.”
Why she needs them fixed now
My breasts are jacked up. The sagging, the extra skin. My breasts are unhappy…It’s like one tit is in Africa and the other one is in Europe.
From the looks of things, she’s in desperate need. Which is why plastic surgeons Terry Dubrow and Paul Nassif will not only work to correct New York’s breasts, they’ll also be working to fix her deviated septum.
Watch New York explain the extent of her problems in the video below.
New York’s episode of “Botched” will air tonight at 9/8c on E!
Women aren’t the only ones who get a nip and a tuck. These celebrity men who admit to having plastic surgery say they’re not ashamed to say they’ve had some work done.
If you thought that Justin Jedlica, a man who spent $100k and endured 100 surgeries to look like Barbie’s boy toy, was just a unique case — you’re wrong! There’s a new man in town to steal his spotlight: Meet Rodrigo Alves.
Alves, a Brazilian-born Londoner, spent a whopping $250k to rearrange his face to match Ken’s good looks, The Huffington Post reports. The 31-year-old flight attendant flew to Colombia to get the six-in-one surgery, which included eye enlargement and a procedure to snip his mouth to make his smile bigger. Though he admits that it was a lengthy process, this won’t be his last under-the-knife experience:
“It is long-term maintenance. Once you start, it is difficult to stop. Naturally, I’m a perfectionist. It’s like a snowball effect and I’m not going to stop. It doesn’t define the man that I am – I’m much more than silicone and cosmetic surgery – but once you get started it’s difficult to stop,” he told the Daily Mail.
Alves said that he understands that he’s far from being flawless, but he aims to be close to it:
“I’m pretty aware that I’m far from perfection,” he said. “I’m not deluded, and I know that I’m not the most good-looking guy. I’m just aiming to be the best that I can possibly be.” Adding: “I really believe that everything that I’ve done to myself is an investment … It is who I am.”
The air steward appeared on the UK Channel 4 series Bodyshockers, where he sought therapy to treat his with plastic surgery:
“I haven’t yet found an answer to my addiction. It’s just so difficult to control. The fact I nearly died has made me think twice, but on the third time I always think: ‘Just go for it,” he said, according to SWNS.
I have had 31 plastic surgeries not with the intention to look like a doll but to be a better looking person, gym and diet didn't work for me I was terribly bullied for the shape of my nose, Plastic surgery has changed my life and I m the happiest person on earth ! 4x #nosejob #jawrecostruction #cheeksimplant #chinimplant #botox #eyelids #mouth #lips #siliconeimplants in my arms 5x #lipo #calfshaping #abs #sixpack #makeover #rodrigoalves #plasticpositive #happy @aesthetic_clinical_center #enews #eonline #tvynovelas #telemundo #televisa #caracoltv #rcn #ntn24 #channel4 #channel5 #itv #nbc #tlc
Last January he traveled to Brazil where a doctor injected a gel into his arms to make them look buff. The injection, however, left him paralyzed. Doctors even suggested amputating his limbs if the bacteria had spread into his heart. If that had happened, he would have been dead. Luckily for him, he recovered.
Diagnosed with body dysmorphia, Alves added: “I can’t say I won’t have any more surgery, because I probably will.”
Alves has been going under the knife since 2004.
My fascination with lips began around 10-years-old when I met Rachael at summer camp. Rachael had beautiful skin the color of cinnamon and the plumpest, prettiest top lip I had ever seen. Until then, lips were only noticed if they seemed too big for a person’s face, and usually that meant the person was getting teased.
“Damn, Troy, you got some BIG lips!”
But Rachael came along and changed everything. I would find myself just staring at her lips while she talked. Sometimes I even made excuses to have a conversation with her. Dumb shit like, “Hey Rachael, do you like meatloaf?” I convinced myself that if I had Rachael’s top lip, I’d be the most beautiful girl in the world.
Fast-forward some 15 years later when I was modeling and met a drag queen working at the makeup counter of Patricia Field in New York. She had beautiful lips, too, that I suspected weren’t real, and after a few visits to the store and some girly-girl conversation, I walked away with the name and number of her lip “doctor.”
It almost seemed too good to be true–for just $100, I could permanently get the lips of my dreams. Honestly, the permanent part concerned me a bit, but not enough to keep me from taking the train to West 150-something Street in Harlem to see the woman who was plumping lips out of her apartment.
A plain-looking black woman who resembled my aunt greeted me at the door. She wasn’t at all the type of person I expected to be injecting queens for a living. Silly, but on some level I thought I’d be getting a real doctor.
Nonetheless, I told her what I wanted and felt pretty confident that she could deliver. In less than 20 minutes, she had injected my top lip with an unknown solution she pulled off of a tray — there was a silent understanding that questions were not allowed. She never even offered her name — and I was ready to go.
Her only instruction was to lay low for a few days because my lip was going to blow up two to three times its normal size. OK, how bad could that be? I stood in front of my best friend’s mirror in horror while my top lip stared back at me like Daffy Duck. The woman said my lip would swell but this was surreal. It was like something out of a big creature movie and my lips were the star. If it didn’t go down, I’d be f*cked. After all, I had a modeling career to think of and jacked up lips would not fit well into the equation.
My bestie tried to put on a brave face, but she was freaked, too. She kept urging me to call the doctor (correction: the woman), but I didn’t want to. This lady was not the type of person that I wanted to bug with silly questions. It would be a last resort.
After a day and a half of looking like Daffy with no sign of letting up, I phoned her. She reiterated that it was normal and that it would go down in a few more days. Thank God my work was freelance and I didn’t have a regular job to go to, because this required total seclusion. After about a week, I started resembling a normal human being and was able to assess my lip. OK, not bad, but there wasn’t much difference.
A few months later, I was back at the woman’s apartment. She was warmer this time and even sold me a novel she had written about a nurse who was stealing supplies from a doctor’s office to perform surgery out of her apartment. Hmm.
My lip blew up again, went back down, and all was gravy once more. Except that it still could be a little bigger. Just a pinch. But this time, instead of running back Uptown, I discovered that if I blew air out of my mouth really fast and hard my lips would bang together and my top lip would pout a little. So I did this and did it until IT happened. I remember the exact moment as if it were yesterday. I was on my way to meet my bestie for drinks when I decided to do my air-blowing trick to give myself a little added boost. When I stopped something had shifted and there was a lump on one side. Wait a minute. That wasn’t supposed to happen! So I started blowing again, hoping that it would move back, but no such luck. At that point, I just set into prayer mode. If there was a God, he was going to return my lip to normal. When that didn’t happen, I called the woman first thing in the morning. About 10 seconds into my story, she hung up the phone and that was that. Come on, what did I expect? But man, I needed to fix this like yesterday, so I borrowed some money and went legit.
This time, I went to a plastic surgeon on the Upper East Side that I found in the phone book (this was before the Internet). The nurse greeted me looking like she was 110 years old, even though it was clear she lived under the knife. Granny was creepy. So I talked to the doctor, a 50- or 60-something-year-old man, who assured me that I came to the right place, that he could fix it with no problem. After a few injections of a solution that he said would take away whatever that woman put in, because the truth was no one knew, I was told to come back if necessary in a month.
I went back. This time he said that he could pump some stuff into the side with the lump to try to fill it in. Not a bad idea. Might as well pump the other side a bit, too, while you’re at it. Because remember the reason it happened in the first place was because I was trying to get them a little bigger? So he pumped them and they blew up again; by this time the Daffy Duck face didn’t faze me at all, but in the end the lump was still there. Come on now, really? You’re supposed to be a legit doctor who can fix this. So I went back and showed him that the lump was still there and he wasn’t trying to hear me. In fact, he said that he didn’t see the lump, and it was fine. Whatthef*ckareyoucrazy?! There is a lump on my lip and you SAID you could fix it! Come on, look again. But he wasn’t trying to hear me and the more he kept acting like I was crazy, the crazier I became. And just when I was about to reach for his neck, the spooky granny came in asking me nicely to leave. So I tried to explain the situation to her, but she was siding with the doctor, and the next thing I knew I was screaming that there was a lump on my lip — I knew it, I could see it — and then another nurse came in with an armed security guard and I found myself being escorted out of the office while screaming to anyone in the waiting room who would listen that the doctor would throw you under the bus so be afraid, be very afraid of his ass. But he did give me another doctor’s info. before things got out of hand.
He was also on the Upper East Side, but his office was much classier. This guy was the real deal, and I liked him immediately. Who knows, perhaps it was because I hated the other doctor so much. But anyway, he said no problem, he could try some shrinking drops. OMG! Shrinking drops! That’s what I needed all along! Why didn’t that other jerk think of that? I tried it, no dice. So his Plan B was making my lips smaller by cutting out everything the others put in with a device that looked like the thing they use to sear crème brule. It literally sounded and smelled like he was cutting through plastic and perhaps that is what was in my lips in the first place. It seemed to do something, so I went back to have him sear my lips one more time. But overall, the lump was STILL there.
And thus began my descent… It wasn’t long before my modeling work suffered because I hated taking pictures. My lips were always there, staring at me in that weird way. And I could never relax because paranoia was my new best friend. One time I was getting my makeup done for a beauty commercial by renowned makeup artist Sam Fine, and instead of being happy I wanted to hide. I kept imagining him saying, “What the hell did she do to her face?” And I couldn’t speak to anyone about it because, one, I felt stupid, and two, people don’t have a lot of sympathy for those who get plastic surgery, let alone models who do. They feel like you’re being greedy. How good do you need to look?
After a few years of straight depression, I realized that nothing was ever going to bring my lips back. It was time to move on. So I started writing my thoughts down on paper and discovered that I enjoyed writing. And I was good at it. I ended up getting published and landed my own relationship column, Bitches Brew, in Trace magazine. It was the first time that I could see a life for myself that had nothing to do with how I looked. It was liberating.
Today, I think about that plastic surgery gone wrong and I’ve learned to forgive myself because I’m not perfect and sometimes that means doing stupid things. I wish I could say that I absolutely love my lips and that I have no regrets about what happened, but that would be a lie. I have, however, made peace with them. It comes from the fact that I don’t give them much energy. Because when I do, I start thinking about fixing them again and I’m right back where I started. So like an addict, it’s one day at a time.
Of all the things to spend $150,000 on, a 23-year-old British make-up artist has gone to great lengths to look just like Kim Kardashian. Jordan James Parke has gone through a long list of cosmetic procedures in order to look like the reality star, whom he said he came to admire after watching “Keeping Up With The Kardashians.” He told the Sun that she is perfection:
“I love everything about Kim. She’s the most gorgeous woman ever. Her skin is perfect, her hair, everything about her.”
He has had just about everything done, including 50 cosmetic procedures ranging from Botox, lip and cheek fillers, laser hair removal and as you can probably tell, some intense eyebrow tattoos.
And when you make decisions like this in an attempt to look like someone else, you’re going to get a great deal of detractors. But the makeup artist says he’s not worried about it.
“I laugh when people try to insult me by telling me I look plastic or fake. Do they think I’m going for the natural look? If I was, I’d ask for my money back.”
And on his Instagram page, in between the pictures of his designer bags and clothing and the pictures of Kardashian, he often uses the hashtag #plasticpositive to remind folks that he doesn’t care.
Hey, people are free to spend their money how they like, but I’m stuck on the amount of filler in these lips, Lord have mercy…
Does he look any closer to Kim?
“Same People Saying This ‘She Was Prettier Before’ Crap Are The People That Said I Was A Tranny”: Dawn Richard Addresses Plastic Surgery Rumors
For more than a year now, people have been saying that something looks a bit different about former Danity Kane member, Dawn Richard. Even we’ve said it before. And while she looks amazing, it has become clear as time has passed and her Instagram pictures have multiplied that either she has the best makeup artist ever, or Richard’s had some work done. It’s hard to pinpoint what exactly she changed (some people say she did something to her nose, but there is something else different about her that we can’t put our finger on…), but it’s something her fans have repeatedly questioned her about on her own social media page after seeing pics like this:
“Does anyone actually know what dawn really looks like? I’m confused as hell.” “Wtf she do to herself??!?” Smh” “Smh. This is a dope image, but this is not you.” “Literally looks different in every picture.” Despite what people have said or noticed, Richard didn’t respond or share anything about her changing look. But after more than a year of people wondering and going on every picture she posts to give her grief about her appearance, Richard decided to finally say something. She didn’t confirm that she had anything done, nor did she deny it. She just said this:
I personally thought that she looked good before, and she looks good now. But I will say that it’s interesting when people in the public eye change their look and then act like nobody is supposed to notice. Just saying! But at the end of the day, she looks great, and musically, she’s killing it. The singer’s new album, Blackheart, is dropping on January 15.
As America goes selfie crazy, people are taking a second — and third — look at themselves and deciding they need more than a little Photoshopping. There has been an increase in plastic surgery as people look to improve their image in selfies. Others are hiring specialized make-up artists for selfie makeovers. All of this personal appearance approval is creating a selfie economy.
“Plastic surgeons in United States have seen a surge in demand for procedures ranging from eye-lid lifts to rhinoplasty, popularly known as a nose job, from patients seeking to improve their image in selfies and on social media,” reports The Chicago Tribune.
According to a poll by the American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery (AAFPRS) of 2,700 of its members, one in three had seen a boost in requests for procedures due to patients being more aware of their image in social media. There has been a 10 percent rise in rhinoplasty in 2013 over 2012, a seven percent increase in hair transplants and six percent jump in eyelid surgery.
“There has been a 25 percent increase over the past year and a half to two years. That is very significant,” Dr. Sam Rizk, a plastic surgeon, said about his Manhattan practice.
“They come in with their iPhones and show me pictures,” Rizk added. “Selfies are just getting to be so crazy.”