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A friend of mine recently revealed to me that, at age 30, she had never had an orgasm. Poor thing! I was shocked, but more interested in how her partners (read: egos) were able to deal with “failing” to bring her to the Promise Land. “Simple,” she replied. “I fake it!”
No one woman should ever have to fake her sexual pleasure at her own expense, or the expense of a man and his ego. If you’ve never been able to climax, even on your own, then there may be some serious issues that require healthy examination as to why you can’t “get there.” If you’ve been faking it, here are some reasons you may not be able to have the “Big O.”
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For most women, a night of great sex is unforgettable. For a 54-year-old woman being studied by researchers at Georgetown University Hospital, one night of passion literally blew her mind, causing her to experience memory loss after having sex with her husband.
The woman went to Georgetown’s emergency department complaining that she couldn’t remember anything that happened 24 hours before climaxing. Doctors diagnosed her with transient global amnesia, a rare and sudden episode of memory loss.
Carol Lippa, MD, a Professor of Neurology at Drexel University Medical School, said “Transient global amnesia is caused by a scrambling of the memory circuits in the brain, often brought on by physical or emotional triggers.
“In post-coital cases, transient global amnesia may be related to changes in blood flow in the vessels that feed the brain’s memory formation areas — sort of a remote consequence of the altered blood flow that occurs during sex.”
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Faking an orgasm, otherwise known as “using the emergency escape button,” does not necessarily mean your man is a wack lover or you’re not getting satisfied. Sometimes a sista is just ready to be done, right?
At least that’s what Telisha Ng of Hello Beautiful says. The writer says that sometimes a woman has an off day: she’s exhausted, has her mind on other things–you pretty much don’t have your mind right. And while your body might be ready to do the “do,” if your mind isn’t ready, it’s a wrap. Add to that the pressures of a guy whose own sexual experience and ego is based on you reaching your climax and doing so quickly, and well…Ng says you have to pull out that emergency button. However, she doesn’t recommend faking it often whatsoever. Steps should be taken to let your man know what works for you in the bedroom if you’re rarely reaching your peak, and let him know what gets you to that point. If communication isn’t clear, then expect every night of lovin’ to be a long one. And not in a good way…
To read Telisha’s thoughts on why faking it shouldn’t really be looked at as a bad thing, check out Hellobeautiful.com.
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