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“#NoWeave”: Demetria Lucas Ditches Extensions To Show Off Her Natural Hair And Laura Govan Chops Off Her Locks

April 15th, 2014 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
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As I said before, spring is a big time time for folks, famous and not-famous, to try something new with their hair, and quite a few women are already switching it up and showing off their fresh new looks.

Laura Govan, formerly of Basketball Wives LA, showed off a chic short cut on Instagram recently after wearing the same long locks for quite some time. The back of the cut is short, but the sides are medium length, framing her face. She debuted the cut with the following photo, saying, “And then This happened …. @hairs_mr_rahmlee”

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Don’t ask me why she had to be naked in order to show off this haircut, but yeah…She has since jazzed it up, flipping the long pieces all to one side, and she looks great!

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Also showing off some healthy and luscious hair is Demetria Lucas. The Blood Sweat and Heels star and writer sometimes wear a weave, and she did for most of her time on the Bravo reality series.

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But Lucas showed off her natural hair on Instagram recently, setting her hair free for spring. She captioned the following photo with:

“Me. #noweave #nomakeup #getfree #ordietrying”

As you can see, her hair is quite full and fabulous. She told a follower that she went natural for a second time in 2011 and has been growing her locks out ever since. I’m digging the results (and missing my ‘fro at the same time)!

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What big changes have you made to your hair for spring? And what do you think of these lovely ladies and their locks?

Black Congresswomen Chime In On Army’s New Hair Regulations

April 12th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From Essence.com

This week, female members of the Congressional Black Caucus (CBC) sent a letter to U.S. Department of Defense Secretary Chuck Hagel, asking him to revise the recently released Army Regulation 670-1, which featured updated standards for female grooming. AR 670-1 went into effect on March 31, and included a ban on certain hairstyles, such as two-strand twists and dreadlocks. Other styles, like cornrows and braids are permitted if they’re under 1/4-inch in diameter.

In their letter, the 16 congresswomen say that the regulations are “discriminatory” and “[target] soldiers who are women of color with little regard to what is needed to maintain their natural hair.” The letter comes at the tail end of a wave of criticism by soldiers and civilians who’ve voiced concern about the new standards. A petition on the White House’s wethepeople.org has garnered more than 15,000 signatures from people who want the regulations retracted. Sgt. Jasmine Jacobs, a Black woman who wears her hair in twists, created the petition on March 20 in order to protest the changes. She told the Army Times that she’s “kind of at a loss now with what to do with [her] hair.”

You can read the rest of the story at Essence.com.

RIP: Natural Hair Community Comes Together To Remember Hair Guru And Vlogger, Domineque Banks

April 12th, 2014 - By La Truly
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After a long battle with Lupus, natural hair guru and YouTube vlogger, Domineque Banks, aka, “Long Hair Don’t Care2011” passed away on April 9, 2014. Banks suffered a heart attack and was placed on life support, not being able to breathe on her own. She passed away with her partner by her side.

There is no doubt that Domineque Banks has touched the lives of so many with her inspiring natural hair journey that she so thoroughly documented on YouTube, spanning more than ten years. Her words of wisdom about appreciating one’s own hair and style, as well as her tutorial videos, have garnered millions of hits on YouTube and inspired many women of color to consider going natural. She is considered by some to be one of the first natural hair vloggers to do their thing (and do it well) on YouTube.

The loss of such a beautiful cornerstone to the natural hair movement has greatly impacted the natural hair community – to the point that the GiveForward online fundraiser, started by Banks’s partner and friend to cover funeral costs, surpassed its original goal of $10,000 in a day.

Natural hair and health vloggers including HeyFranHey, Jouelzy, Afrobella, KimmayTube, and CoachPCare eulogized Banks on social networks like Twitter, recalling her beautiful spirit and how incredibly young and vibrant she was. This outpouring of love and remembrance has shown, yet again, how much bigger the natural hair community is than just a focus on hair. It is so much larger than aesthetics. Where there is hurt, the spirit of the community rushes to heal. Where there is need, the community rushes to aid. The silly, would-be rifts and rivalries between hair textures and curl patterns fall by the wayside when it comes down to what is most important. Domineque’s legacy lends itself to that spirit of care and sisterhood in a very big way.

That in itself is a huge lesson, today, when women of color are constantly being thrown curveballs, constantly pushed to seek division. We can learn a huge lesson from these women in their fervent support of Banks and her family. At the end of the day, all we have is each other. At the end of the day, sisterhood is a large part of what sustains us. And at the end of the day, honoring one another in word and in deed is what will continue to strengthen us for the road ahead and the life left to live.

May Domineque rest in peace and know that her mission to encourage women to embrace their own natural beauty will not fade, but has been taken up by those she impacted and will continue on, held high as our banner and the tie that binds us, in sisterhood.

La Truly is a writer, college professor and young women’s empowerment enthusiast. She mixes her interest in social and cultural issues with her life experiences  to encourage thought, discussion and positive change among young Women of Color. Follow her on Twitter: @AshleyLaTruly and check out her site: www.hersoulinc.com.

Turn Down For What? 10 Ways To Keep Your Hair In Tact While Working Out

April 9th, 2014 - By LaKrishia Armour
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It’s officially “get that body tight” season. With swimsuits and vacations quickly approaching, hitting the gym is a priority for many women. Straight styles, especially on unrelaxed hair, usually succumb to the power of going hard on the elliptical while rocking out to a workout playlist, and can also have a big impact and big curls. Here are ways to keep your hair as smooth and fabulous as possible while getting your workout on.

I Get Why Natural Hair Can Be Challenging to Accept

April 9th, 2014 - By Ezinne Ukoha
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So, I have been rocking my natural do off and on for about five years now. Before then, I was devoted to relaxers and even tried wave nouveau. (Huge mistake!) Despite being devoted to perms for most of my life, I always harbored the need to embrace my natural roots. I just didn’t know how to make it work. It’s sounds crazy to admit that you don’t know how to handle the hair texture you were born with, but it’s the absolute truth.

I remember how hard I struggled back in the day, before the Internet was inundated with hair blogs and before we had a multitude of products to choose from. I was literally flailing, and I didn’t have a support system to lean on. It was frustrating to be in a position where I couldn’t control the temperament of my tresses, and I eventually developed self-esteem issues.

How dare my Caucasian roommate jump out of the shower with wet hair and after a quick blow-drying session, look like she just stepped out of a Pantene ad! Especially since I had to clock in a handful of hours, twisting my locks, and praying to God that the next morning, I would miraculously achieve a pattern that would at least showcase all my efforts. It’s safe to say that I had some good days and a bunch of bad ones. And to make matters worse, I had to deal with my disapproving family members and friends.

I was constantly berated about my hair, and of course every time I stepped out of the subway at the 125th Street Station in Harlem, over-zealous African braiders would immediately accost me. I had to beg them to back off and I will never forget the startled look on their faces. They were most likely trying to figure out how and why I was walking around the city, looking like I had just escaped from a mental asylum.

But when I check out the pictures from that period, I honestly didn’t look as bad as I imagined. It was really the stress of managing my thick mane – trying to get it to yield on those feverish days when it preferred to riot against me. Of course practice makes perfect and eventually, I came up with a regimen that proved to be endearingly successful, but it took quite a bit of work and dedication on my part. I wanted to make this turbulent relationship work, despite the mornings that left me riddled with embarrassment at the thought of stepping out with a less than perfect coif. I was determined to prove that I didn’t need to spend $100 every two weeks to keep myself appropriately groomed.

Eventually, I did grow weary and with the natural hair movement making waves, I decided that it was time to take advantage of the changing times. I succumbed to the hype surrounding keratin treatments, and that proved to be a disaster. My hair reacted violently to the “treatments” and I ended up having to undergo the big chop.

Now, I am growing my hair out and I have reverted back to my natural style. Thankfully the market is saturated with products that actually do get the job done; so half the battle is won. But I can’t help but acknowledge why natural hair may not be a route for everyone to take. As much as we love to hype the idea of accepting our varied textures, depending on your hair type, going natural can be a tedious process. A lot of women overdose on products because they are searching for that magic potion that will transform their tight curls to a looser more manageable version. That might end up being your reality, but for a lot of us, it’s a complicated climb to the top. I truly believe that not all of us are able to make the transition effortlessly and if that’s your story – it’s okay! My motto is: Do what works for you!

 

 

Smoothies and Sun Salutations: Is Natural Hair Intimidating?

April 6th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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I guess technically you can say I’ve been natural for over a year. I haven’t had my hair relaxed since last spring, but for the most part I’ve kept it protected under weaves. What I have done is witness all the challenges and triumphs of actually committing to wearing natural hair through my sister’s journey. She made the decision to go natural early last summer. Since then it’s been interesting to see how much women attribute their beauty to what’s going on above their eyebrows.

After her first trip to the natural hair salon she returned with a short curly do that made her resemble an early 90’s Lauryn Hill. I can honestly say it was cute. It was different than anything I had ever seen her in, but she pulled it off. Despite, the compliments from family and friends for about two months it was no secret that she was clearly uncomfortable.  She struggled between covering up the style in beanies and wondering if it ever really looked “done”.  She had me laughing for a whole night when she appeared in my room and simply said, “I feel like I look like D.L. Hughley.”

What was most interesting was the way men reacted to her.  Most men would compliment her and tell her hair was beautiful, but not after telling her how “different” she looked.  But it was as if other men assumed the decision to go natural was a complete lifestyle choice instead of just a beauty one. It was like having kinky twists meant she had committed to a life of kale smoothies, meditation and starting every morning with sun salutations. One day she decided to ask a co-worker how men really felt about natural hair, and here’s what he said:

“Many men are intimidated by natural hair. Women who rock natural hair are empowered and confident and you have to step at them a different kind of way. It’s almost as if they don’t need us and you have to be very clear about what you have to offer before approaching them. The typical, ‘Hey, sweetheart.  Let me holla at you for a minute,’ is not going to get their attention, so you have to come correct. But men don’t always want a challenge. Sometimes we just want a woman who we can make smile without having to try so damn hard.”

So let me get this straight: Because a woman wears a weave or a relaxer, suddenly that makes her more approachable because obviously deep inside she dislikes herself? Yeah…ok. As silly as it sounded, I must say brother had a point on some level. Women aren’t the only ones intimidated by our own hair, it sometimes make men just as uncomfortable. There are so many stereotypes that accompany wearing natural hair. “Naturalistas” are seen as militant and unapproachable, almost as if you’re not talking about uplifting the black community and standing up to “the man” you have nothing to discuss with them. But like India Arie once said, “I am not my hair.”  Wearing a weave doesn’t mean I giggle and smile at every man that approaches me, just like every sista wearing some two strand twists doesn’t want you to come at her with an essay on civil rights.

My sister has the same issues with men before she started styling her hair differently, and it has more to do with her attitude than any process she’s putting that dead protein through. She also drinks grape sodas (not smoothies), watches “Big  Bang Theory” to relax and starts every morning by hitting the snooze button at least twice. It just goes to prove how much we assume based on appearance and how many great people we miss out on because of what we already made up in our minds before actually meeting them.

Do you notice people treat you differently since you went natural?

Toya Sharee is a community health educator and parenting education coordinator who has a  passion for helping  young women build their self-esteem and make well-informed choices about their sexual health.  She also advocates for women’s reproductive rights and blogs about  everything from beauty to love and relationships. Follow her on Twitter @TheTrueTSharee or visit her blog, Bullets and Blessings.

“Don’t Say A Damn Thing” Curly Nikki & Steve Harvey Offer Advice To Husband Who Hates Wife’s Natural Hair

April 4th, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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This is certainly a topic we’ve discussed before: women deciding to go natural, only to find that their husbands find the look less than appealing. It’s a sad topic and hot button issue but one Steve Harvey wasn’t scared to tackle on his talk show. He interviewed newlyweds, McClea and Love. Love said that once she decided to get rid of her long, silky weave her husband didn’t find her natural hair attractive. McClea agreed that his wife is a beautiful woman but that didn’t stop his extreme reaction.

Love on her husband’s initial reaction to her natural hair

“We’ve been together nine years. About two, three years ago I decided to go natural. Not on purpose but I had this weave in my hair and the weave went bad. After I cut it all off I had not choice but to wear this. The first time he saw it, he ran out the house and then he came back in and asked if it was a wig, and if so to take it off. He wasn’t very supportive of it actually.”

McClea defends himself.

“My wife’s a very beautiful woman as you can see, but when I first met her she had the Brazilian weave down her booty and that’s all she ever wore. When she first took it out it was just shocking to me. I was surprised she looked like a different person…

Well I’m over the shock. I understand that natural hair takes time. It takes time to grow out. And like I said, it’s not something that I’m used to, but I just wish there was more styles she could do with it so it could be more appealing. Something different because there’s not many styles she can with her hair like this so I just tell her that.”

Then Steve finally decided to step in.

“Let me move this stuff out the way. You’re about to get your skull opened up. McClea, what’s wrong with this whole thing is you can’t be any more wrong with your approach. You cannot at no point, in the relationship with a woman, say or make them feel unattractive. You’ve got to find another way to express yourself because the idea behind staying happy, the big thing behind it, a lot of times is support. You’ve got to find another way to say what you’re saying. You can’t run out the house. You can’t sit on the edge of the bed and look at her like she stay down the street somewhere. You can’t have that much gap between y’all on the couch. You’ve got to be a little bit more understanding that this is who you married and at the bottom line, they have a choice. It’s theirs. It ain’t your damn head. All you did is put a ring on that finger. This ain’t yours. You don’t get her head. And plus I want you to be able to get out of here safely. Because right now, the way they’re (the audience) looking at you, I’m assuming there are at least 4-5 attempts on your life.”

Check out the video to see what advice Curly Nikki had to offer and the style options she presented to Love and McClea.

What do you think about Steve and Nikki’s advice to McClea?

Have You Ever Let Your Self-Esteem Sabotage Your Natural Hair?

April 1st, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From Hello Beautiful 

Hello Beautiful: When did you first fall in love with your hair?

Tamara of Natural Hair Rules: It was a Sunday afternoon…just joking! I don’t know the exact day and time. But I do remember feeling this sense of accomplishment because I had a natural hair breakthrough. I had just discovered the Denman Brush and Giovanni Direct Leave-In Conditioner. With that duo I had achieved my first perfect wash and go. “This is what I went natural for…”, I thought to myself. I probably even screamed it out loud.

HB: What’s some hair advice you’d give to your 14-year-old self?

Tamara: My 14-year-old self had a professional stylist that she called mom. So I don’t really have any hair advice for 14-year old me but I do have self-esteem advice. “It’s ok to be…” At that time I believe my ‘be’ was to be unique. I tried so hard to fit in but I still stood out. Tried to be what I thought everyone else wanted me to be. I was the girl with long, pretty hair. I put a lot of pressure on myself and began to identify with my hair. It wasn’t until I decide to go natural, did I shred everyone’s perception of me. I also found myself delivered from other people’s opinions. (Or so I thought. You know, it’s a daily battle I believe all women fight.)

Read more about natural hair at HelloBeautiful.com 

PhD In Hairology: When People Become Way Too Obsessed With Black Hair

March 27th, 2014 - By LaKrishia Armour
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Learning about the wonders of the human body is great. Many people don’t know why or even how their bodies function, and the wonders of hair growth aren’t exempt. There is, however, a small sect of gurus who upon a sacred beauty awakening learned all they could absorb to the point of obsession about black hair care. These women aren’t dermatologists, estheticians or even cosmetology school graduates. They are regular, everyday women who have self-inducted themselves into the circle of the hair care elite.

When did hair care and the knowledge thereof get so serious for the everyday woman? I always thought most people didn’t care what happened to their hair chemically or biologically, as long as their wrap had that “swang n’ bang” and their follicles continued to sprout out fresh stands of hair on a regular schedule. Now, there are blogs and message board forums dedicated to product ingredient scrutiny, pH balance explanation and the dangers of formaldehyde, which I learned from a message board dedicated to home keratin treatments, is actually kind of dangerous. And yes, people care to know.

The information is all on the Internet, both factual and fabled. It’s all made possible by the hair care community on the web, via all social sites. In whatever social media you choose to participate in, there are the gurus commanding that space, and they’re giving out facts, figures and advice about hair. It’s amazing the info one can gain in a six-second video clip on a phone or tablet (or, you know, phablet). There are websites, blogs and forums dedicated to the explosion of cult-like knowledge of black hair care. But is it too much information? Perhaps knowing, or aspiring to know everything isn’t the best approach for certain subjects. This is especially true when the results are hours spent scrolling through information that probably won’t change a hair regimen at the least, and at the most, likely will either bore you or over complicate your current hair routine with hard-to-find products and expensive services, in both time and money.

You can always tell those that have been covered in the golden light of the hair care elite. They’ve recently turned their hair routines upside down and none of their peers can relate. They’ve converted to the ritual of the day-long wash day in addition to sourcing hair care products from Whole Foods and local farmers’ markets. Beauty products that are safe to eat, and not just non-toxic, are the new name of the game. The information overload has some of these new inductees ordering products that are handmade in the depths of the rainforest and enhanced with the chlorophyll of freshly fallen leaves from Amazonian trees, and all at some outrageous price like $57 an ounce. These new converts are also shunning more fun things like eating hearty dinners, because there are certain foods, like potatoes (that they’ve learned from a blog), that will accelerate their hair growth. So, in addition to skipping happy hour in favor of paging through thick chemistry books until 3 a.m., they’re slathering their scalps in Monistat-7 (another scalp-care tip learned from a message board) while eating their way out of a pot full of boiled potatoes sans the Lawry’s seasoning salt.

Having loads of information available, especially for black hair care and a forum in which to express and share this knowledge is invaluable. Don’t think that fact is being downplayed here. But, what is troublesome is when something that probably shouldn’t be a big part of a person’s day takes over to the point of obsession, interrupting daily routines. Know about how to best care for your hair, and know what works, but if you’re not a trained cosmetologist, please do so without the obsession.

Black Hair Care Companies Set Their Sights On Markets Abroad

March 24th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From Styleblazer

Black women are big business when it comes to hair care. According to the Mintel report, African Americans spent a whopping $684 million dollars on hair products in 2013, a number that doesn’t include the billions dropped on weaves, tools, appliances, and at beauty supply stores. It’s a lucrative market, one that until recently was controlled by multinational conglomerates who acquired many of the formerly Black owned hair care companies such as SoftSheen-Carson laboratories. The trend of Black women embracing textured hair changed that game. Sensing the shift, independent African American manufacturers were quick to create and market products designed to nourish textured tresses.

Now that the natural hair movement is a full-blown revolution, mainstream companies have turned their attention to the changing preferences of Black women.

For more on this story, click through to our sister site, Styleblazer.

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