Here’s why you meet Mr. Wrong:
1. You haven’t analyzed & written down key patterns
You have a hunch that you’ve seen the same problems before in your dealings with men, but you’ve only mildly articulated that hunch. In order to take a proactive stance and physically change the outcome of dating “the wrong men,” you need to analyze the patterns that you notice in your dating life on a piece of paper, talk out those patterns, and think about why you keep seeing them in the men you encounter. Then, write down in another column how to refrain from those patterns. Those patterns could be stemming from you, your background and your positioning in life, or they could be stemming from the guys you’re dating. Either way, you must recognize them, write them down, and attack them.

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