You get home early from work one day and notice your husband’s car in the driveway. Sweet, you’ll get to spend some extra time together! You walk in the house and decide to keep quiet and surprise him. You gently open the door to your study when you catch your husband in a very compromising position.

He’s in front of the computer, pants around his ankles, watching Adult Videos. (And you happen to notice that the women look nothing like you.)

Do you understand that your man needs a little variety or does this make you feel unwanted and insecure?

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One of the greatest things about being single, and something married women sometimes miss, is having the freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want wherever and however you please. Marriage can be wonderful, but it does come with boundaries.

Aside from the can’t-have-sex-with-other-people-anymore stipulations, other (less obvious) adjustments are also needed for smooth sailing. These are a few things you should think twice before doing under the Mrs. title: