living.msn.com

As humans, we always forget the big picture: life is short. We forget that we don’t have all the time in the world to enjoy ourselves, just as soon as we’re done fixating over this stupid, insignificant thing. But, we should strive to pause as often as we can and ask ourselves, “Is it worth it?” Is getting upset, saying something mean, debating or nit-picking about this particular thing worth it? We’d avoid so much headache (and even breakups!) if we did.

madamenoire.com

I’m not talking about a multi-month break, (that usually is indicative of seriously deep issues) but sometimes a few days of no contact, and minimal communication is just the remedy you and your partner need to feel in sync again. Unfortunately, we often fear that needing a few days apart is a sign of trouble, so we don’t take that time apart. And then fights escalate, or tensions grow to a place where you’re wondering, “How did we get here?” Don’t be stubborn. Walk away for a few days when these things are happening…

eurweb.com

For the most part, if you get to the point in your relationship when you feel unwilling or unable to fix things then breaking up may be good for both parties. However, some couples break up over a miscommunication (or a lack of communication) and a good talk could actually salvage things.

Here’s how you know whether or not getting back with your ex is worth your time…

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