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To Go HAM Or Not To Go HAM: What Would You Do If These Headlines Happened To You?

February 4th, 2016 - By Meg Butler
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These days, it seems like the news is full of headlines worthy of exclamation marks: Cheaters getting caught in the act, restaurants with surprises (rodents, fingers, etc.) in the food, and even teachers behaving badly with students just as bad. But what would you do if these headlines happened to you? Go HAM (hard as a mother…) or keep your cool?

We’ve compiled a few crazy stories of customers getting revenge, cheaters putting their exes in their place and parents standing up for their kids. Do you think they were right to take matters into their own hands or was there another route that would have been better to choose?

When the tables are turned, would you follow in their footsteps? Read on and just be glad that these moments didn’t happen to you. But if you’ve got stories that are just as crazy to tell, feel free to include them in the comment section down below.

Celebrities Your Man Can’t Stand

January 4th, 2016 - By Meg Butler
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Men and women don’t always appreciate the same things, especially when it comes to the celebrities you follow and admire, and why you do. If you like the following stars, and the man in your life doesn’t, here are some possible reasons. These are the celebrities some men love to hate.

Who You Gonna Call? 9 People Every Woman Should Have On Their “Team”

December 30th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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Want to get the most out of life in 2016? Make sure you have the following people on your “team.”

From Fixing Glasses To Shoes: 15 Ways Your Hair Dryer Can Save The Day

December 3rd, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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From volumizing your lashes to breaking in your favorite shoes, you just might be amazed at the things your hair dryer can do.

The Game’s Thirst Traps And More Things To Be Thankful For This Season

November 26th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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We’ve all got something to be thankful for this Thanksgiving, and these things definitely belong on the list!

When You’re Too Old For A Roommate

October 21st, 2015 - By Deja Jones
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If you want to get technical, I’ve had roommates all of my life. I went from living with my parents, then off to college where I had roommates. I’ve lived with my boyfriend, and as a single woman, I have lived in shared apartments with other women. There are some upsides to having a roommate, like splitting the cost of utilities, cable, Internet, and most importantly, rent. There’s an abundance of shared food unless you buy your absolute favorite things and make them off limits to others. There’s never a lonely moment because you always have someone to talk to, and it makes for a more lively environment. All these things sound good, but now that I’m in my mid-20s and not far from 30, I feel I am too old for roommates. Why? For the simple reason that there’s never a moment where I am truly alone. I am sharing space, which means that I have to compromise. I can’t decorate how I want, and I always have to consider someone else before I make household decisions. I’ve realized that there are a plethora of reasons why I am too old for flatmates, roomies, and/or bedfellows. Here’s why I need to ride solo.

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

I’m young, and I am on the market for dating, as is my roommate. Still, I respect my space enough not to bring men back with me. If things don’t work out, I don’t want them to know where I live. However, some people are a bit more free than others. Imagine waking up early in the morning to make a cup of coffee or tea. You still have crust in your eyes and last night’s makeup is smeared all over your face because you were either too lazy or too tired to wash it off. You only have a T-shirt on, and as you’re making your way down the stairs to the kitchen, you see a strange man sitting on the couch staring at you. He doesn’t speak or anything, and it is the most awkward five seconds of silence ever. You hurry up and make your tea, running back in your room where you stay for the remainder of the day.

Yes, this really happened.

I mean, we’re grown, we date, it’s a part of life. But it’s also common courtesy to let your roommate know when you will have a guest over who will be occupying public spaces. It would also help so you’ll know whether to wear headphones to prevent yourself from hearing the morning delights taking place in the adjacent room. Having a roommate, you have to consider these things. It’s liberating living away from your parents, but when you have a roommate, there are still a few restrictions. Same goes for walking around in your birthday suit. Even in terms of dating and getting serious with someone, you want to be able to navigate those intimate spaces with that person, but you have to keep in mind that you aren’t the only person occupying your place of residence.

The Weakest Link

We joke about how we always have that one broke friend who always want to go out and do stuff. Well, it’s funny until they become that broke roommate who can never pay their expenses on time. And depending on whose name these bills are in, it could mean some pretty hostile situations. Again, the upside to having a roommate is supposed to be the splitting of utilities, cable, Internet and most importantly, rent. But the downside is splitting these expenses with people who are struggling financially. My landlord once told me that if for some reason you feel like you can’t afford something then you shouldn’t get it. And I know that it’s time for me to go after having to continuously get utilities and other apartment expenses put in my name. I figure if I can afford to pay my rent and pick up someone else’s slack then why not just live alone?

Pet Peeves

When having a roommate, there are just shared responsibilities that people need to be aware of. For example, washing the dishes or taking out the garbage and cleaning the public spaces are just things you should both do. I’ve learned that everyone has a different cleaning style. Some clean as they go, some pick a day or time to devote to cleaning and some just don’t clean at all. I realized I was too old for a roommate when I started to clash with one because of our different cleaning styles.

I also like having and entertaining guests, but I also love my alone time, which involves peace and quiet. I can’t always get that, and I can’t really get too mad about it because that’s what happens when you live with someone. And just as I have the freedom and choice to be quiet, my former roommate had the choice and freedom to be loud.

All in all, I could go on for days sharing nightmare stories about living with people, but these are the things that helped me realize I am too old for this s–t and better off living on my own. What did it take for you to get proactive and move out on your own? Do you have any nightmare roommate stories?

 

 

The Top 15 Cities For Newlyweds To Live And Work

October 12th, 2015 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers
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October wedding season is in full swing, and one of the biggest questions on the minds of many newlyweds is “Where will we live?” There are many factors that should be taken into consideration by newlyweds trying to find a place to call home, including:

– Married couples population
– Median household income
– Median rent
– % Of the population comprised of millennials
– Crime rates

Thankfully, the folks at Rent.com have already done most of that footwork for you with some help from tech company Onboard Informatics. Check out which cities are considered to be the top 15 for newlyweds.

Underwear Mistakes We All Make (And How They Harm Your Health)

October 7th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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Did you know that there was a wrong way to wear underwear, or that those underwear mistakes could be causing you serious health problems? Let us help you get your panties out of a bunch.

How To Improve Your Emotional Hygiene

August 14th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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Everyone sets aside time to brush their teeth or put a bandage on a wound. But when’s the last time you spent time maintaining your emotional hygiene? Adopt these emotionally healthy practices and there’s no storm you can’t weather.

What Did I Come In Here For? Things Everyone Forgets

July 24th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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Spent 20 minutes looking for your keys this morning? It may feel like you’re going crazy, but these are the things that everyone forgets and misplaces.