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“All I Wanted To Do Was Hump Her” About The Time Rosie Perez Had A Girlfriend

June 17th, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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If you’ve ever taken a psychology class, you know they teach you that sexuality is fluid, meaning very few people identify as 100 percent heterosexual throughout every period of their life, 100 percent of the time.

As we become more honest and progressive in society, people, particularly celebrities, feel more and more comfortable admitting to their own period of questioning or exploration.

“The View” co-host Rosie Perez is the latest celeb to admit to her same-sex attraction when she was in middle school.

According to The Hollywood Reporter, Perez revealed this little tidbit during a speech at the TrevorLIVE event in New York City. The Trevor Project, the organization who hosted the event, is a national LGBT youth organization. Perez was there to speak to the importance of teens having someone to talk to about their sexuality.

She said:

“Every human being, whether they want to admit it or not, went through a period of questioning. I know I did.”

Perez then told a story about the feelings she had for and the relationship she had with another girl during junior high.

“All I wanted to do was hump her. And I suppressed the urge and suppressed the urge and suppressed the urge until Michelle one day started humping on me.”

Perez said that when she and Michelle broke up, they also lost their friendship. And after the relationship, she felt that she couldn’t speak to anyone about the questions she had regarding her sexuality.

“I’m not the only one that went through this questioning period. I’m not the only one that suppressed those feelings, who hid their story. I know I’m not lesbian, gay or whatever–I’m a quasi-straight person- I still went through that period. And I thought I was all alone.” 

Perez praised The Trevor project, specifically their crisis hotline fro providing that outlet for people who may be struggling to define or embrace their sexuality.

“If I had other people, specifically adults, if I was just able to call up and they said, ‘Oh, I humped the Michelle-type person, too. You’re normal, don’t worry. You’re either gonna go here, there or in the middle. Don’t worry about it. It’ll pass. You’re just figuring it out,’ even that simple statement, … that would have made all the difference in the world.”

“I Always Felt Like I Was Never Truly Being Myself”: One Transgender Man Shares His Story

June 10th, 2015 - By Cynthia L. Dorsey
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The release of Caitlyn Jenner’s 22-page cover story in the July 2015 issue of Vanity Fair broke the Internet last week and remains the paramount topic of many conversations.

Although Jenner brings celebrity to the word transgender, the trans community is filled with everyday men and women who seek to live their lives comfortably, happily and unapologetically. But they also strive to be open about their journey at the same time. Quite often we hear, see and encounter stories of males transitioning into females, but the stories of women who transition into men are few and far between. Not because they don’t exist, but because their stories aren’t being told.

Allex Knight, 27, is a preacher’s kid. He remembers being very unhappy when he was growing up and equates that unhappiness with being forced into femininity.

“I was born the child of a Baptist Reverend and a beautiful mother, both of whom obviously had preconceived notions of what being a ‘daughter’ meant to them,” Knight said. “I grew up having to wear feminine clothing, and it truly made me miserable. When it came to getting dressed, I used to throw tantrums, play sick and refused to go places, and I didn’t understand why I was always so angry. I just knew I would prefer to wear some pants and a button up to ‘dress up.’”

Knight also recalls being attracted to girls at an early age but not being able to completely identify with the lesbian label. “I had my first girlfriend at 14, but I never felt comfortable being labeled as a ‘lesbian.’ I always felt like I was never truly being myself.”

After graduating high school, Knight went on to obtain a Bachelor’s of Science Degree from Syracuse University and is now a freelance associate producer for a prominent television network. Today, he lives as a man and has committed himself to openly speaking about his journey with others to help inspire change.

“Just as a cisgendered boy grows into a man or a cisgendered girl into a woman, I’m a trans person who is growing into adulthood. So there never was a point where I started living as a man. I’m simply living as who I am. Gender is a beautiful spectrum of different types of genders and people, just like race is not just Black and white. I think once people start to understand that gender is much like race it won’t be such a fascination, just a discourse on how to make trans persons feel more included within our society.”

One way to make this happen is to respect the way a trans man or woman chooses to be identified. Knight expects people, no matter how long they’ve known him, to address him using pronouns that are applied to men.

“I told myself that this year I wanted to be completely happy and that I was going to start living my life more authentically, so that means discussing my transition and pronoun preferences with people. Indeed, it’s tough, especially for people who have known me as she/her all of my life to switch to he/him or my preferred pronouns. I don’t expect everyone to get them right 100 percent of the time, but I do want them to try to respect who I am today and what makes me comfortable.”

One of Knight’s other goals this year is to undergo breast augmentation surgery, also know as top surgery. This is one of the most common FTM (female to male) surgical procedures.

“I have always had an issue with my breasts. From the moment they started growing, I was terrified,” Knight said. “I wasn’t sure how big they would get and how else my body would change because I was born biologically female. I did anything possible to keep my chest flat, from applying duct tape on my bare skin, to ace bandages. That is until I found out that most trans men use what is called a binder to keep a smooth, flat-looking chest. This, too, I found was rather uncomfortable but way less painful than ripping the duct tape off my bare skin or cutting off my breathing by wrapping ace bandages around them. These days I just work out daily, including doing more than 100 push ups to keep my chest rather flat. But ultimately, having top surgery would enable me the freedom to know what it would be like to have my desired chest and finally be able to look in the mirror and be happy. Most importantly, this surgery would considerably reduce my anxiety in terms of passing as male.”

Top surgery usually requires an incision extending from underneath the existing breast fold to the outside of the chest. The nipple and areola are removed, resized and replaced. “Free nipple grafts” are then placed in a new position to give a male appearance to the chest. These procedures range in price from $6,000 to $15,000. According to the Top Surgery FTM Network, U.S. insurance companies are beginning to cover this procedure for transgender men. Also, a few states are now legally requiring these insurance companies to provide coverage for the trans community.

Not being able to get the insurance coverage he needs, Knight has sought out donations from his family, friends and those willing to support the fulfillment of his journey.

“I am fortunate as most of my friends and family have been super supportive of this journey. I think it’s because those who know me are aware of how uncomfortable I am with my breasts. I’m willing to have conversations to help anyone understand why this is part of my journey and why I deem it necessary to my survival and my happiness. I’m sure there are going to be some people who will have trouble understanding what this process means in terms of their relation to me and how they will address me. But I think most people are more so just scared for me to undergo such a serious irreversible procedure, so they want to make sure that I am certain about this decision. I’ve spent a lot of time self-reflecting regarding my transition, and I just know in my heart that this decision is what is right for me and that everything will be okay.”

Knight believes that there must be more dialogue about the transgender community and what it means to be a trans man. The lack of knowledge breeds misconceptions and open discussion is the remedy to dispel stereotypes and confusion.

“A common misconception about trans men is that we have to have a complete physical transition in order to be a man. This is primarily thought to include top surgery, the removal of breasts; bottom surgery, creating a penis; and the usage of testosterone. Not all trans men have the financial means and some don’t even feel the need to get surgery or to take hormones, so that is not at all accurate. Gender is not always a physicality and I think it’s important for people to understand that. Society is so stuck on people fitting inside of one box, male or female, and that’s a major issue that I think needs to be addressed and discussed. I think the beautiful thing about being a trans man is that through my visibility, I challenge people into a discourse about the truth regarding the complexities of gender.”

The quest for happiness, fulfillment, and respect while being your authentic self knows no gender. This is not only Knight’s desire, but the desire of all in the transgender community, and all individuals. Our journey getting there may differ, but our aspirations are the same. Still, this journey could be much easier if the human community supported one another.

To support Allex Knight’s top surgery endeavor, visit his GoFundMe site here.

Follow Knight on Instagram @SirKnight_

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The Case Of Caitlyn Jenner: Where Do You And Your Faith Stand?

June 3rd, 2015 - By Niki McGloster
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In a time where the fear of being politically incorrect stifles the honest opinions of many, I brace myself for verbal crucifixion when I admit to not fully understanding the transition from hypermasculine Olympic champion, Bruce Jenner, to the newly revealed all-American beauty (and Vanity Fair cover star), Caitlyn. I pause even before asking certain questions aloud, confining the inquiries strictly to the safety of my home’s four walls or the privacy of my iMessages.

However, despite grappling with how to now categorize her sexuality, and immediately sweeping up my slip-ups of incorrect pronouns, I still have an unshakable tolerance for her more than 60-year journey to find herself while struggling to sustain a certain image in the public eye. I mean, there are many things to unpack in this one person’s story, but I’m proud of her and taken aback by how stunning Caitlyn Jenner looks as a woman. Yes, I feel for her ex-wives and her kids, but I’m also happy for her happiness.

But as an imperfect person whose spirituality and connection with Christ has been one of the few fulfilling constants in my life, I’m somewhat conflicted about this story. Should I feel so happy about it? It’s human nature to fear what the mind can’t grasp, and, more commonly, to fear the unknown of the future. If Bruce can become Caitlyn, will the world slide into a 2015 Sodom and Gomorrah? Not likely. But from what I gathered in conversations since Caitlyn splashed gender identity in the world’s face back in April with the help of Diane Sawyer, the fear of limitless tolerance for all behaviors and acts––sexual or otherwise––puts the fear of God in folks. This is especially true for those who interpret the Bible in a strict manner.

Months after her exclusive sit-down interview, Caitlyn’s PR-perfect rollout and coming out party still prompts a flood of ignorance exchanged along timelines. Though I celebrate Caitlyn’s strength to put such a heavily guarded burden on front street, I realize that opposing opinions also have a space in this conversation, especially if I myself can’t fully reconcile my spirit to a definitive comprehension about a man becoming a woman. However, it’s the use of religion to justify distasteful commentary and hatred that conjures my feelings of doubt and confusion in organized religion. I’ve never in my life felt in my heart a reason to be disgusted by anyone in the LGBT community. What happened to all the biblical lessons of acceptance, compassion, tolerance and love? Sure, my Christian upbringing––the cornerstone of most black folks’ rearing––defined what behaviors were deemed inappropriate or ungodly. But I gravitated toward the teachings that required us not to pass judgment, that taught us no sin outweighed another, and that love was to be shown just as Christ loved us, regardless of understanding. Cherry-picking the sins of others to condemn while ignoring our own is deplorable at best and doesn’t lend itself to assisting the Christian agenda. It’s supposed to be all about love, right?

So yes, for some, older generations especially, Bruce becoming Caitlyn is simply an action outside of their mental wheelhouse. It’s going to take time for some to fully accept this metamorphosis. And, again, my Millenial mind doesn’t completely compute the breadth of it all either. But in light of such public fanfare, there should be several conversations and some healing that takes shape without the desire to eradicate whole groups of people, shame them, or throw around despicable adjectives in comment sections.

I know for sure that I’m a believer in people being able to fully self-actualize––as long as they’re not harming themselves or others––and live as they feel God intended them to live. And I have no say in how that evolves. My only obligation is to share how I feel honestly and with respect while allowing others to do the same. I can’t nail others to the wall for their thoughts and choices, just as I don’t want to have to bite my own tongue.

I don’t always know whether my beliefs are blindly leading me to accept what’s wrong or what’s right, but I’m happy that Jenner now feels “free” and others like her are afforded that same opportunity. And for now, I can safely rest my faith on that.

On Brittney Griner, AzMarie, And Girl Crushes: Are We Moving Away From A Dependency On Sexual Labels?

April 22nd, 2015 - By Cynthia L. Dorsey
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I was recently listening to one of my favorite podcasts, The Read, and they were playing the game F**k, Marry, Kill. This lighthearted social icebreaker game, usually played over a few spirited beverages, asks players to choose whom they would f**k, marry, and kill out of three people. Usually, players are given a list of celebrities, but with added alcohol consumption, over time the names listed can shift from celebrity eye candy to people everyone in the group knows.

Crissle, The Read’s female co-host, was made to choose between Brittney Griner, AzMarie Livingston, and Queen Latifah. Of those three names I was only familiar with Queen Latifah, so I did what any inquisitive mind should do: I turned to my trusty friend Google. I searched for Brittney Griner first and was directed to her Facebook page. Griner, 24, is the 2014 WNBA Defensive Player of Year, stands 6’8” tall with an 88-inch wingspan, and a wears a men’s size 17 shoe. She is the author of the memoir In My Skin: My Life On and Off The Basketball Court.

I went on to search for AzMarie Livingston. Born Ashley Marie Livingston (she has fused her first and middle name together), she is a model and actress standing 5’10” tall. She appeared on America’s Next Top Model: British Invasion and was known for her elaborate tattoos and androgynous style. She recently appeared on the hit Fox show Empire as Chicken, one of Hakeem Lyons’s homies and his designated driver.

Both women are openly gay. Griner is engaged to fellow WNBA player Glory Johnson, and Livingston has been rumored to be in a relationship with actress Raven-Symoné.

Reading about these two women, their accomplishments thus far, and their fearlessness to be who they are while standing firm in their beliefs, was inspiring. What baffled me most, however, were comments that alleged heterosexual women posted under their pictures:

“I would go completely gay for this woman!”

“Laaawd have mercy.”

“#WCW hell #WCE” which means “Woman Crush Wednesday” and “Woman Crush Every Day.”

“She is so fine she’s making me sexually confused.”

“You are so hot, my boyfriend would kill me if he saw this.”

“I would date you and I’m not even gay.”

“Big crush on you.”

“porqué eres tan hermosa?” which translates to, “Why are you so beautiful?”

“These women looking like men will have you all messed up mentally. Mmmm.”

“Only if I was a lesbian…she’s sooooo…”

“Just give me one gay night!”

Reading such comments had me thinking, have society’s sexual labels officially been broken? If women are openly fawning over other women, do such labels really matter? Religious author Michael W. Hannon discusses this concept in his article Against Heterosexuality, which gives an in-depth overview of the historical construction of sexual orientation. Hannon writes:

Such thinkers echo Gore Vidal’s LGBT-heretical line: “Actually, there is no such thing as a homosexual person, any more than there is such a thing as a heterosexual person.” True, the firm natural division between the two identities has proven useful to the “gay rights” activists on the ground, and not least of all for the civil-rights-era ethos such power dynamics conjure up. But most queer theorists—and, for that matter, most academics throughout the humanities and the social/behavioral disciplines today—will readily concede that such distinctions are fledgling constructs and not much more.

Writer Rebecca Vipond Brink counters Hannon’s argument in her article, Why Labels for Sexual Identities Are Useful For Everyone. In it she discusses the importance of accuracy when labeling sexual identities. Brink says, “It is accuracy we are looking for when we decide to label ourselves with increasingly complex and specific terms. My feeling is that having a word for our sexual feelings helps us to feel less weird and alone.”

I have no way of knowing if the women who commented under Griner and Livingston’s photos would act on their desires or if their comments were all smoke and mirrors shared anonymously behind a keyboard. Still, these “girl crushes” seem to blur the lines when it comes to how stringent people have been when it comes to sexual labels and orientation.

However, I will say that there were far more disrespectful comments towards these young women than positive ones filled with swoons and lust. Women complimenting and uplifting each other should be the norm. No matter one’s choice of sexual identification, or the choice to be labeled by one’s sexuality, being respected regardless of choice is an inherent right.

 

 

“When Black People Tell Me They Don’t Believe In Gay Marriage…” Kerry Washington On Uniting With LGBT Community

March 23rd, 2015 - By Veronica Wells
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Kerry Washington On Uniting With LGBT Community

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During her acceptance speech from the GLAAD Media Awards for her work as an ally, Kerry said that although her speech may be preaching to the choir, she knew that on Monday morning people were going to “click a link to see what that woman from ‘Scandal’ said at that award show.”

And here you are this morning. Kerry be knowing.

In the opening moments of her speech, Washington explained why the title of ally is one she’s proud to hold.

There are people in this world who have full rights and citizenship – in our communities, our countries – around the world. And then there are those of us who to varying degrees do not. We don’t have equal access to education and healthcare, and some other basic liberties like marriage, a fair voting process, fair hiring practices. Now you would think that those kept from our full rights of citizenship would band together and fight the good fight. But history tells us that no, often we don’t. Women, poor people, people of color, people with disabilities, immigrants, gay men, bisexuals, trans people, intersex people. We have been pitted against each other and made to feel there are limited seats at the table for those of us who fall into the category of ‘other.'”

And there’s a problem with that.

Washington continued, speaking about the ways in which we have become afraid of one another and engage in unnecessary competition and even betrayal. Then she said telling the stories of underrepresented groups is still, sadly, seen as a radical act. Which is why people constantly complain about all the “gay scenes” in Shonda’s shows. So, she called for more LGBT people in front of and behind the camera, telling and sharing those real stories, until they no longer seem odd.

But lastly, and perhaps most pertinent to this audience, Washington told the audience how Black people fighting against gay rights is counterproductive to our collective struggle for justice and equality.

“In 1997 when Ellen made her famous declaration, it took place in an America where the Defense of Marriage Act had just passed months earlier and civil unions were not yet legal in any state. But also remember, just 30 years before that, the Supreme Court was deciding that the ban against interracial marriage was unconstitutional. Up until then, heterosexual people of different races couldn’t marry who they wanted to marry either. So when Black people, today, tell me that they don’t believe in gay marriage… *gives a fierce side eye* …the first thing that I say is ‘Please don’t let anybody try to get you to vote against your own best interests by feeding you messages of hate.’ And then I say, ‘You know people used to say stuff like that about you and your love. And if we let the government start to legislate love in our lifetime, who do you think is next?’ We can’t say that we believe in each other’s fundamental humanity and then turn a blind eye to the reality of each other’s existence and the truth of each other’s hearts. We must be allies. And we must be allies in this business because to be represented is to be humanized. And as long as anyone, any where is being made to feel less human, our very definition of humanity is at stake and we are all vulnerable. 

Amen Minister Kerry! Preach that good word! This message was and is so needed and I’m happy she was the one to give it.

You can watch her entire speech in the video below.

Did You Know? Celebrities With Gay Parents

March 10th, 2015 - By Meg Butler
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We thought we knew all about these A-list stars. We bet you can’t name all of the celebrities with gay parents either!

“I Was Not Fun For 3 Years” Terry McMillan Talks About Forgiving Her Gay Ex Husband

July 3rd, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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You don’t even have to have read Terry McMillan’s How Stella Got Her Groove Back to know her story. The art inspired by her life that was in a book, on the big screen and then all over television for the world to see when things went left. Most of us remember the episode of Oprah where McMillan confronted her gay ex husband Jonathan Plummer for the deception and betrayal of marrying her when he knew–or at least had an inkling–that he was gay.

The encounter was not exactly comfortable. You may remember that McMillan’s head was on lean the entire interview and there were more eye rolls than a little bit.

Obviously, the dissolution of a marriage is not easy on anyone but the circumstances behind the ending of this one and the way it played out in the public presumably made it even harder to get over.

But in this Sunday’s upcoming episode of OWN’s “Oprah: Where Are They Now,” McMillan seems to have gotten to that place.

In the video below she talks about the process of forgiving her ex husband.

“People do a lot of things to hurt each other but it takes a different kind of energy, positive energy to forgive someone. And I think mostly, It’s forgiving yourself because being angry is stupid. It really is stupid and it weighs you down and everybody around you feels it. I was not fun for three years.”

 

 

McMillan’s episode of “Oprah: Where Are They Now” airs this Sunday, July 6 at 9pm.

Digital Diversity: ‘Queer Women Who Tech’ Summit Opens Doors To Tech

June 24th, 2014 - By Janel Martinez
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lesbians who techFor many women, the technology world can be both a rewarding and cutthroat terrain. It’s no secret that the high-growth industry is run by white, straight males (many hailing from Ivy League institutions), which makes it challenging—if not impossible—to thrive in today’s ecosystem.

However, there’s been an immense movement to change the current stats and fill the tech-talent pipeline with more women. One organization is working to do that and create an inclusive environment for queer women in tech. Founded in December 2002 by Leanne Pittsford, Lesbians Who Tech works to build visibility and the number of queer women in tech and tech-related fields, as well as connect women to socially aware organizations.

Several months after the inaugural Lesbians Who Tech Summit, which gathered 800 queer women and allies, took place in San Francisco, it arrived in New York. More than 140 Indiegogo contributors and the leadership Pittsford helped bring the summit to the Big Apple last weekend. Taking place from June 20-22, attendees gathered at NYU Law School’s Tishman Auditorium to hear speakers such as digitalundivided’s Kathryn Finney, Girls Who Code founder Reshma Saujani and Politini co-hosts and power couple Aisha and Danielle Moodie-Mills address gender inequality in the tech industry.

“I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to live in a world run by men, “ said Saujani, during her “Social Good Pitch.” That sentiment was reflected among attendees and speakers, and why Lesbians Who Tech’s mission is crucial to changing the way women in tech are perceived.

The diversity data from big tech firms like Google, LinkedIn and Yahoo reveal the lack of African American, Latino and women across the board, but there’s no official reporting of discrimination or numbers acknowledging the LGBTQ community within these firms. But it’s that very reason the Queer Women Who Tech Summit is in existence and working to shift the paradigm.

Guests and speakers both received major takeaways from Queer Women Who Tech.

“This is really essential, and I’m glad that this conference is happening,” says Cheyenne Cook, audio visual content manager at Politini. “We really need to focus on the intersectionality of everyone’s identities and how they shape everything that we do… I’m glad this conference exists because it opens up conversations to talk about women, queer women, to create change and innovation in technology.”

Maureen Erokwu, founder and CEO of Vosmap, who pitched her company that is bringing Google’s Street View technology to businesses across the country, echoed the summit’s value. “I’d like to see more women of color in tech,” says Erokwu. “To increase the level of involvement, we’d simply have to get involved and support these very initiatives that promote the influence of women in tech.” The entrepreneur made sure to connect with attendees, speakers and sponsors, and walked away with meaningful connections, and even secured a meeting with a leading NYC-based tech organization.

Techies also had time to connect during the summit’s after party, sponsored by Gawker, brunch on Saturday, a day-long hackathon held at Etsy’s headquarters in Brooklyn and a sailing excursion on the Hudson River.

You can follow the movement on Facebook or Twitter (@lesbiantech) or peruse through the hashtag, #lwtsummit. For more, check out the Lesbians Who Tech website.

Going Both Ways: Celebrities You Didn’t Know Are Bisexual

June 18th, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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Check out this list of celebrities you didn't know are Bisexual

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Y’all seemed to love the gay or bisexual celebs who play straight roles story so much we had to do another one to let you know about the other bisexual celebrities out here, some of which are our favorites and some of which might just shock you. Check out the list and let us know who shocked you. 

Beyoncé’s Pastor Says Her Music Doesn’t Conflict With Christianity

June 3rd, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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Beyoncé comes under fire from just about everybody. Parents think she’s too sexy. One feminist thinker likened her to a terrorist and conservative news pundits think she and she alone is the reason for teen pregnancy. And then there are the some Christians who’ve accused her of being everything from a hypocrite to a devil worshipper.

But Beyoncé’s pastor is defending her against all of that. In an interview with theGrio, Rudy Rasmus a humanitarian, cultural architect and author of the new book Love.Period.: When All Else Fails thinks that as an entertainer Beyoncé should have the artistic freedom to do what she feels.

The Knowles family and Kelly Rowland have been long-time members of the St. John’s United Methodist Church in downtown Houston where Resmus is co-pastor. He’s also the man who officiated Beyoncé and Jay Z’s wedding ceremony back in 2008.

In a sit down with theGrio, Rasmus shared everything from his thoughts on gay marriage and the black church (Hint: He believes couples of the same gender should be able to get married.), submission between man and wife, the state of Jay and Bey’s marriage, why he doesn’t take issue with the way Beyoncé presents herself in her music and the importance of love over everything else.

 

What are the ingredients for a successful marriage with a power couple like Jay Z and Beyoncé

Trust, love… And love is, in the marital relationship, it’s the same for any friendship. The text says that the wife should respect the husband. The text also says the husband should love the wife as unto the church. Now, a casual reading of that you could miss the fact that for that husband to love that wife as unto the church really means that that husband is willing to die for that wife. But that wife is prepared or capable or willing to respect the husband.

 

The marriage advice he’s given the Carters

I haven’t given them any advice. They are friends. Their relationship is healthy and life has been good.

 

Do Beyoncé’s lyrics and message contradict the purity of Christianity?

“I’ve been asked that question many times over the past 22 years, many times. And the answers is always the same. Beyoncé is a consummate entertainer, and an entertainer entertains. Is the entertainer’s entertainment an expression of that person’s life and reality? I don’t know. But I know when Arnold Schwarzenegger straps on a 30 caliber cannon and blows planes out of the sky, nobody asks the question, ‘Arnold why are you walking around for those 90 minutes in that suit with that 30 caliber cannon? What kind of person are you?’ I don’t think I’ve heard that question. But at the end of the day, Arnold Schwarzenegger is an entertainer. I think a person has the right to earn a living in the way that they are gifted, and I think that she is tremendously gifted and I think she expresses that gift in some amazing ways. I think the world would be void an extreme talent if we silenced her or censored her. I wouldn’t want my art censored.”

 

Will the LGBT community be embraced in the black church?

It’s gonna happen. As a matter fact, it’s an idea whose time has already come. It’s just taken the church a while to catch up. About 30 percent of my crowd is LGBT. And what I’ve realized is that there is one basic, common human need that every human being has, regardless to their sexual orientation, and that is acceptance.

 

Would you marry a same sex couple?

My denomination actually has a prohibition against doing so. It does, in the ordinances. But do I feel that same gendered people should be able to choose for themselves who they want to spend their lives with? I believe every human being deserves the opportunity to make that choice.

 

Love and what he wants readers to take away from his book

I want readers to understand that love never fails. The ancient text, we can call it the Bible says that you can know everything, you can even give everything, you can have everything but if you don’t have love, you have nothing.

 

You can watch Pastor Rasmus’ full interview in the video below.