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Once you reach a certain age, parents can get a little out of hand with the “Where are my grandbabies?” questions, and friends and family start talking about “expanding your family.” Lucky for you, these childless celebrities have the perfect comeback for such pesky questions.
Remember when you were small and thought that you had the world all figured out? From Santa Claus to living dolls, these are some of the things we all believed when we were kids.
Should family always stick together no matter what? These celebrity parents and kids who just don’t get along say that sometimes family ties just have to be broken.
Do you remember these hang out spots from back in the day? Whether you’re from the east coast, west coast, or third coast, these are the places where you really grew up.
When I first heard a parent billing a child for missing her kid’s birthday party, I thought it was a joke. Are folks really that petty?
I guess so.
As a new parent, my husband and I both made the decision not to overdo it when it comes to our child’s birthday. Will a one-year-old remember the bouncy castle and elaborate setup you had in their honor? Granted this child was older, it proves my point that parents need to chill out when it comes to these kiddie birthday parties. Yes it is a special day to you, and yes people who RSVP should come–but does that mean you flip out and threaten small claims court if something comes up in their schedule?
Perhaps this parent shot herself in the foot. There wasn’t any contact information listed for the parents of the no-show child to use. Regardless, you shouldn’t expect a guest to compensate you for money spent on your child. What if they purchased a gift that in your eyes wasn’t worthy of the price you spent on their plate? Would you still send a bill?
I have been to numerous birthday festivities for small children that were sometimes way extravagant. One of my friends in particular began throwing huge parties for her child when she was a year old and found it difficult to top the following years. As her child grew older, she expected bigger and better things with each birthday that put more of a focus on who did what for her instead of what really matters. At one of her birthdays she rejected a gift because “it didn’t go with the theme!”
Some parents have no problem going the extra mile for their kid’s birthday and that’s totally fine. It’s your child and you have the right to do whatever you want. I personally enjoy more intimate gatherings during the early years that focus on family and close friends. This is not to say I don’t use my Pinterest skills and make a room look nice, but it’s on a budget. My husband and I put most of our money towards our son’s college savings plan.
We’ll do a little more with his parties when he gets older and can comprehend the idea of a birthday party. Hopefully we can teach him to have his cake and eat it too without setting crazy expectations about what should and shouldn’t be done. And if a parent has to cancel last minute–or even no-show–I can only hope they give us a heads up with the contact information we provide. Heck we had a couple family members not show up to our wedding (and it was nice!). Rather than try to recoup the money, we focused on our special day and the ones there to celebrate it with us.
Our little ones are watching us and pay close attention to the things we do and say. There’s nothing wrong with a large birthday party so long as you set your sights on what’s important.
These celebrities have lots of kids.
We all met DMX’s estranged son on his infamous episode of Iyanla: Fix My Life. But did you know that DMX has a total of eight kids? And if you ask some of DMX’s former lovers, the number is closer to 13…
In this episode of One Bold Move, we show a few series extras that didn't make the final cut. Curly Nikki gives tips on maintaining natural hair for kids, YouTuber Missy Lynn gives advice for makeup newcomers, The Curvy Fashionista addresses plus-size fashion misconceptions, Mother/Daughter fitness duo Ellen and Lana Ector share their fitness inspiration and the co-founders of Black Girls Run! discuss whether you have to workout to stay in a relationship. What do you think? Let us know in the comments section below.
From Your Tango
By: Paula Mooney
When I was a silly little 22-year-old, freshly graduated from college in 1991, I eloped on the shores of Panama City Beach, Florida. High from too much weed, giggly all giddy-like while serious marital vows were being spoken over me, I didn’t think about the months and years to come – and how distance would affect my new marriage. With that marriage, I didn’t have to pursue the man who would become my ex-husband. He chose me. Thank the good Lord above and inside that union ended in divorce, as it should have ended.
Before long, I’d be remarried – but I wouldn’t say outright that I had to chase after that man to land him, either. In fact, I believe in just the opposite. Those Facebook viral photos of a woman on her knees proposing marriage to her boyfriend kind of make me cringe inside. I’ve always believed that a woman should wait for a man to show interest in her, but that doesn’t mean she shouldn’t let him know – in subtle yet obvious and ladylike ways – that she likes him.
Therefore, when the dating site Millionaire Match asked, “Is it a turn-off to men when a lady pursues them?” they received interesting answers on both sides.
This writer would land squarely on the side of yes – even though I’m not a man. However, as a female, I’ve learned that it helps to wait for a man to make the first move. If he’s shy, throwing on a nice dress and pretty make-up doesn’t hurt to get his attention, but as far as pressuring him for a date – that just seems desperate to me. Men know what they want and if they are really into us, they’ll find a way to make it happen.
Of course, us Christians like to point to the fact that the Bible says that “he who finds a wife finds a good thing,” a verse that insinuates that it’s the man who does the looking, not the female that’s on a major hunt for a husband. (Even if she is, she doesn’t need to look like a Needful Nelly all the time.)
Are acting dynasties the next big thing to take over Hollywood? You’ll never guess which of your favorite celebrities are chips right off of the A-list block.
Recognize that smile? Alex Martin is the daughter of comedienne and The View host Whoopi Goldberg. Where have you seen her before? In Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit, Strange as Angels and behind the scenes producing the groundbreaking short Sensitive Men.
Let me start this post off by saying that there will never be a “perfect time” for anything. No matter what you want to do, there will always be at least one wrinkle in the fabric of life that you can’t iron out. With that as well, I know that you’re not perfect, and life is all about trying to do better.
So, with that, if you’re contemplating having a child, self-reflection is a good thing to do. Now we all know the material things that we should have together before having a child (like a job, a place to stay and the such). I want to discuss mental and emotional well-being.
We all have our rough edges. Trying to make sure that they’re as smooth as possible before having kids is a good thing to do. So if you see these rough edges in your life, try to smooth them out before you throw a kid in the mix.