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There is one major similarity between real life, non-cyber interactions and online dating: there are no coincidences regarding who you attract, who you repel, and who you keep in. What you’re getting back has to do with what you’re putting out there. But because there are infinitely more suitors online, and things seem to move so fast, it can be a little less obvious when and why it’s time to change how we’re presenting ourselves. But here are the signs.
By now you know the obvious turn-off’s when it comes to online dating: shirtless photos, five pictures of your dog, leaving half of your profile empty and creating usernames that make you sound like the star of an adult film. But, like in real, non-cyber life, women are also analyzing you far more than you imagined in your online profile. Here’s what they look for.
Six months ago, most of us had no idea what it meant to be “Catfished;” but in light of the hit MTV show and the recent scandal with Notre Dame’s Manti Te’o, it’s become a household term. Though it would seem that by now, people would be aware of when they’re being duped, all of these recent occurrences prove otherwise. So in the instance that you find yourself in an online relationship or long distance relationship and you’ve never seen this individual in person, here are some signs that you might be the latest victim in a Catfish scandal.
Over half of all singles in the United States have used an online dating site before. Their use accounts for one out of every five relationships and one out of every six marriages. Given this compelling data, you would think most people would be singing praises of online dating websites, but this isn’t the case. I hear daily complaints, jokes, and even lawsuits about the crappiness of the “online dating experience.” I find most disgruntled users don’t have a plan. They simply get online and hope. But hope is not a strategy. If you want to make online dating work for you, you need a plan. Here are 10 tips to help:
Think Beyond “Dating Sites”
Don’t limit yourself to only online dating sites. There are many other sites that focus on building friendship through social discovery and networking. Sites like Facebook, Tagged and Meetup have all been used to broker relationships.
Check out the rest of the tips on Essence.com.
So you’re talking to a guy online, things are going well and then suddenly, those little satisfying “New message!” icons stop popping up. He’s pulled a disappearing act on you. It’s possible he met someone else. It’s possible his subscription expired. But, if you want a shot at finding love online, you need to be open to the possibility that you said or did something wrong. Like this:
When online dating, you are bombarded with potential matches every day. The human is a visual creature so, admit it: you don’t read a guy’s profile if you don’t like his photo. You don’t have to love it, but pretty close or else he gets the ax. And for once in life, you are right to judge a book by its cover when it comes to online dating. But not necessarily in the way you would expect. It’s not all about a handsome face, a well put together outfit and a fit body. Because a man may have those in his profile photo, but if you disregard his other dozen photos, you could be in for a disappointing date, or even relationship.
You think you’re embarrassed to have people know you tried online dating? Well these celebs have the world knowing about it! But, if stars are now studding the world of Internet love, then maybe that world is finally losing its stigma.
Let’s see what celebrities have dabbled in a bit of cyber love…
Online dating sites can be a great resource for women who are tired of guessing the motives of every man that approaches her in a bar, or who’d rather get the important info over in a few quick emails than in a few long dates that could result in realizing things are going nowhere. However, because of the nature of the Internet—it’s quick and anonymous—a lot of curious characters swarm to it. And you end up experiencing things like this:
Think about this: people put time into how they represent themselves online. Those ten shirtless photos he posted of himself were no mistake. And, spellcheck does exist. He just didn’t choose to use it. Don’t ignore the signs. Take note of some of the men you should run from when dating online.