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From yourtango.com

By Lisa L.  Payne, Ashley Seeger, Dr. Kevin Dobrzynski

Even the most rock-solid couples feel insecure about their relationships sometimes. As part of our Irresistible You survey, we asked readers to fill in the blank: “I have the most confidence in my relationship when my partner/spouse ___________.”

The top two most popular answers were “compliments me/tells me how he or she feels about me” and “really listens to me/gives me his or her full attention.”

So, how do you build confidence in your relationship? We asked our experts to weigh in with their best suggestions, and

Hear what they had to say at yourtango.com

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By The Luv Coach, Rebecca Brody

Have you ever cheated or been cheated on? Have you been lied to by your significant other or broke into their e-mail to catch them in a lie? Do you have problems satisfying your man, or do you both struggle to communicate? Have you ever been punched repeatedly by the person you thought loved you? Have you ever been bamboozled in love and had no idea what to do? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, you will need my services.

I’m The Luv Coach, Rebecca Brody and I’ve been advising and guiding men and women on love for over ten years. Issues spanning from dating to cheating, boundaries and power struggles, sex and marriage, long distance relationships or low libidos; I have taken to task numerous problems. If you have a question or need help figuring out your love life, shoot me a note at:

editors@madamenoire.com

You’re probably asking yourself, “Why The Luv Coach? Why should I trust her advice?” The honest answer to that is, I practice tough love. That means you may get an answer that is not comfortable to hear, but it will be the truth, and in times of relationship turmoil, the truth is the best medicine. I can be gentle, when I feel a gentle hand is needed, but underneath that will be the push to make sure you are choosing wisely in love, while taking the risks to love deeply and completely.

Want a sample? You got it! Click below for more.

Men and women think differently. We are bound to conflict in romantic relationships. Thus, it has to be understood that disagreements and non-violent arguments will happen and you will have to get over it. Anger takes energy, and it’s easier to just let it go. So, if he’s not cheating with your best friend, try these ideas to show you’re still in love with him:

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