How to get a man and furthermore how to keep him are often topics of heavy discussion amongst single women. But in the midst of studying what to do to be found by Mr. Right, we sometimes neglect to change some of the behaviors that may have actually landed us in ‘single- land’ for so long.

A complaining attitude, soliciting advice from confused single friends, and expecting too much when in actuality some of us don’t have much to give ourselves, are some of the damaging behaviors that prevent some of us from walking down the aisle.

Of course, it could be that it’s just not your time to be in a relationship; but you surely don’t want to extend your single status as a fault of your own behavior. So how do you know if you are the cause of your long-term ‘single-dom’?

As a preliminary measure of self-evaluation, make sure that you are staying away from these 8 relationship sabotaging behaviors. If you’re single and don’t want to remain that way forever, delete these behaviors from your life.