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Mara Brock Akil Reveals That She Wants A ‘Girlfriends’ Movie To Happen, But It’s Ultimately Not Her Call

October 16th, 2014 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers
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For quite some time now, there have been discussions of a “Girlfriends” movie. At one point, there were even rumors that the show’s executive producer Mara Brock Akil confirmed that one was in the works; however, that turned out to be untrue. The writer and producer recently opened up to Essence about the project and the rumors saying:

“I did not confirm it. I did say this: I want it too.”

She quickly added that ultimately, the decision to move forward with this film is not really her call.

“The thing is, whether the public cares or understands, there is a business component to all of this. I remain diligent with CBS Paramount, who owns the rights to ‘Girlfriends.’ “

Mara also shifted some of the responsibility to fans who want to see this project come to fruition.

“I think if the fans want something to do, they can contact CBS Paramount and let them know that they want that movie, because I want to do it. They know I want to do it; I’m very open to it, but there is a business component so I still stay diligent in convincing them that this is a property that is worth thinking about giving the rights to.”

Apparently, CBS Paramount has not formally rejected the idea and Mara has already been doing some of the footwork to pull it all together.

“Let me be very clear, I haven’t been told no. So I guess the real answer is, I remain diligent in trying to get it done. I’m very happy that I did meet with the actors, and all the actors want to do it, last we spoke, so I think if the stars align, we’ll get the business component. Then the second part is you’ve got to go find the money and a studio who believes in that project, and then of course, writing that script, and getting it done. I think it would be great.”

I guess fans will just have to keep their fingers crossed and wait to see how this all pans out.


Golden Brooks Discusses “Girlfriends” Movie

September 18th, 2014 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers
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It’s been about six years since “Girlfriends” was taken off of the air, but that may not mean that it’s over for Joan, Maya, Toni and Lynn. According to Golden Brooks, there has actually been talk of a full-length movie based off of the popular series.

“Maya would be a Pulitzer Prize winner,” Golden told Sister 2 Sister. “She’d be the female Steve Harvey; her books get made into a movie and all the girls are trying to get tickets to go to the premiere.”

“Mara [Brock Akil] would put her spin on it,” she continued.

Apparently there have been discussions about the movie with the show’s creator Mara Brock Akil, but there was no definitive outcome.

“We talked about a movie with Mara Brock Akil,” she said. “We talked of a movie, but that’s something that’s a Mara question.”

“I think it could happen,” she added.

While I absolutely loved “Girlfriends” when it was on the air, I’m not sure how good a reunion movie would be. But hey, maybe Mara can work her magic and make it worthwhile.

Would you be interested in seeing a “Girlfriends” movie?

Our Favorite Interracial TV Couples

June 6th, 2014 - By Iva Anthony
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Moguldom Films’ documentary, “The Swirl,” which looks at interracial relationships in America is now available for purchase on iTunes, Google Play, and VHX.

Since the U.S. Census Bureau has been keeping record, interracial marriages have been on the rise. While there are more than 2.4 million mixed marriages in the U.S., Hollywood has been a bit slow in keeping up with times and portraying more interracial couples, but low and behold we’ve managed to find a few favorites over the years. Take a look.

Interracial TV Couples

“I Love Lucy’s” Ricky and Lucy Ricardo

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz were one of, if not the first, interracial couple on television. Debuting in 1951, “ I Love Lucy” made groundbreaking history when it aired with the real-life husband and wife stars. The show followed the antics played out by comedian Lucille Ball while her husband looked helplessly on. The show lasted for six seasons and more than 60 years later, “I Love Lucy” remains popular with over 40 million Americans still tuning in.

Who’s That Girl? 3 Facts You Didn’t Know About ‘Being Mary Jane’ Creator Mara Brock Akil

May 7th, 2014 - By Lauren R.D. Fox
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Writer and producer executive Mara Brock Akil rocked television networks’ boat with her story of black successful female friends, Girlfriends. The show became a favorite of black women who loved seeing their narratives play out on national television. After the CW network canceled Girlfriends, Akil moved onto her iconic show The Game. Modeled after the lives of professional football players, the show became an immediate success with fans. So much so that fans petitioned networks to bring it back after it, too, was canceled. Since returning to television The Game is still on a winning streak.

But Akil has a new baby on her hands and it’s the coolest kid on the television playground. Being Mary Jane starring Gabrielle Union, reaches on average of over 2.5 million viewers (more than the HBO hit show Girls).

BloombergBusinessWeek profiled Akil about her life and work. And here are three things you may not know about the woman who has created some of your favorite television shows.

She sees herself in the ladies of Girlfriends

Raised in Kansas City, Mo., and educated at Northwestern University, Brock Akil began her career in the writers’ rooms of UPN’s Moesha and WB’s The Jamie Foxx Show

Girlfriends ran for eight seasons; when the CW canceled it, Brock Akil and her infuriated fans were powerless. Girlfriends was my first expression in the medium, my full voice, and it allowed me to document myself,” she says. “It was: I’m here, I deserve to be here, and I’m entitled to it.”

She orchestrated a social media campaign to “Save the Game”

“Whenever a new network starts, they typically start with a black audience, then dump them once they get ratings and bring the other programming on,” Brock Akil says. But this was 2009, and the black fans who’d clogged phone lines in 2006 had grown into a powerful force on social media. So Brock Akil savvily coordinated a massive social media campaign. A “Save The Game” YouTube (GOOG) video featuring all her show’s stars implored fans to complain on their Facebook and Twitter accounts and CW’s message boards.“Before, the studio held the narrative,” Brock Akil says. “I heard that when Girlfriends got canceled, the fans broke the phone system. The mail was overwhelming. UPN or the CW didn’t have to report that the fans broke the phones! With social media, it was all out there.”

Mary Jane is purposely flawed

An earlier generation of black television writers felt a responsibility to provide Cosby-style role models. But realistic imperfection, more often afforded to white male characters than minority women, has become Brock Akil’s signature.“The thing about writing for African American characters is, people think you have to right all the wrongs that were done in the past, and I can’t do that,” she says. “I believe if we keep trying to fix something that’s over, we’re missing out on what is in the moment. If I do that, my art is stale. I’m chasing a ghost.”

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‘Think Again Flip Flopper:’ NeNe Accuses Cynthia Of Ending Their Friendship To Secure A Storyline For Season 7

April 28th, 2014 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers
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Well, it looks like NeNe Leakes and Cynthia Bailey’s relationship may be a thing of the past. Last night, NeNe took to social media to discuss the ending of their friendship and she basically accused Cynthia of sacrificing their friendship to secure a storyline and spot on season seven of “Real Housewives of Atlanta”.

“As hopeful as I was for us to be friends for life, I’m not surprised that our friendship has ended and it truly saddens me!” the “Dancing With The Stars” contender announced in an Instagram post. “Reality friendships never last anyway. So how foolish was I to think I had something special?”

NeNe went on to say that with Cynthia’s lukewarm personality, their broken friendship was more than likely inevitable.

“It’s amazing what people are willing to do for the love of money, relevancy, and to stay on TV. With Cynthia’s sell-out personality and blow-in-the-wind persona, I knew it was only a matter of time! It’s always the ones that are closest to you that will turn on you! I was totally blindsided by all this!”

Her post continues:

“Yes, I said Peter was a b***h early October of last year and I have apologized numerous times for it! Cynthia & Peter accepted my apology and we simply moved on! Yes! moved on to talking, traveling and texting several times a day as we always did!”

In addition to hosting events with one another and spending Thanksgiving together since the “b***h” comment, NeNe says she also spent New Years Eve with Cynthia.

“When the episode aired for all to see and Twitterverse had their say, I guess she changed her mind and decided she needed to be mad nearly six months later! I know you trying to pull the sympathy card, but if you were such a good friend, why didn’t you pull me aside and talk to me about how you were feeling instead of dicing our friendship up in front of a bunch of people who don’t care! Surely I am worthy of that considering that I carried you on my back!”

“I can admit something hurts the same way I can apologize when something I am wrong.  But hey, who cares about a stupid friendship when you need to secure another season on the show […] P.S. If you or anyone else thinks the demise of our friendship is your storyline for season seven, think again flip flopper.”

Interestingly, NeNe also released text messages that seem to imply that the “b***h” scene was planned.

“Change of plans for the scene. Not going to do the b***h thing with Gregg,” a text message believed to be from Cynthia reads. “I thought it would be funny, but I really don’t want to call him out of his name—even as a joke. Think we should have a real grown conversation, address our concerns as friends, apologize, hug it out and have cocktails.”

She captioned the screenshot:

“Did you forget you sent me this text after Mexico? The morning before Gregg & I shot the scene with you & Peter. Don’t play dumb friend! I know you innocent.”

The posts were later removed.

Have NeNe’s words changed how you look at their situation? Do you think their better off ending their relationship?

The Surprise Reason Why You Still Stalk Your Ex

April 16th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From YourTango 

Let’s be honest: when it comes to stalking your ex, your detective level is on expert. From creeping his latest pictures with his new girlfriend to going through his statuses just because they’re readily available, you hardly notice when your digital stalking becomes a full-blown habit. Why is that? Even though you swear that you’ve moved on, there’s a small part of you that can’t help but wonder how he’s coping without you.

Is it possible that there’s more to this than curiosity or jealousy?

Intrigued by human behavior, University of Missouri School of Journalism’s Kevin Wise set forth to crack this code through the use of facial EMG sensors which, when connected to the eye muscles, detect the levels of positive reaction stemming from visual stimuli. In his study, the assisstant professor of strategic communication closely documented the facebook activity of over 30 subjects.

In the results of his social experiment, he found that most of the participants used facebook to search through the pages of both friends and former partners; he believes that his findings show that people often experience an instant “emotional gratification” from connecting to fellow users through their personal pages. While Wise sees facebook “social searching” as a form of emotional bonding, other critics aren’t as ready to accept this conclusion.

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Why Mean Girls Finish First When Dating

April 15th, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From Hello Beautiful

We all know the cliche, “Nice guys finish last,” but what about us? Nice girls finish after way after nice guys. Think about it. There’s books dedicated to men loving witches with a capital B. When women are apathetic, no-nonsense and could care less about what people think often serves as a challenge for men and we all know that men love challenges.

Nice women who are loyal, supportive and just want honesty and respect in return usually get the short end of the stick. I know because I’ve been all of these things to men and have seen my stick get shorter and shorter.

Somewhere along the way, romantic and genuinely sweet gestures have become annoyances and expected, so they are never truly appreciated. Love cannot be bought or earned. The receiver of the nice treatment does not always feel love for the giver. In fact, they may feel manipulated, burdened or just ungrateful.

A few years ago, I met this adorable guy named Gavin. He was tall, smart, funny, ridiculously sweet and attentive. I thought I’d hit the jackpot. One night, Gavin wanted to hang out, but I explained to him that I was going to be celebrating my friend’s birthday at a local restaurant.

Gain sighed heavily, “And after?”

His desperation was adorable in the first couple of weeks. He loved spending time with me and was never shy to vocalize that. But after the hearts and stars in my eyes began to fade, I became increasingly irritated by his urgency. “After, I don’t know. It’s Lisa’s birthday, so we’ll probably be out,” I rolled my eyes. “I have to go babe. I’ll call you when I’m done.” I hung up, ready to complain to my girlfriends about how thirsty Gavin was becoming.

“I can’t believe you’re complaining about your boyfriend wanting to spend time with you. Why are you even with him?” One of my girlfriends challenged my disdain.

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“I Said, ‘Ok, You Can Have My Underwear!'” Oprah Dishes On The Early Days Of Her Friendship With BFF Gayle King

March 13th, 2014 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers
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Good friends are extremely tough to come by and some could only hope that they’re lucky enough to form a bond like the one Oprah Winfrey and Gayle King share someday. But their bond is certainly not one that developed overnight. According to the media maven, she met Gayle back in the 70s during her days working as a news anchor.

“Back a lifetime ago, 1976, Baltimore. We were both on a local TV station. She was a production assistant,” Winfrey told Page Six. “I was an anchor.”

It turns out that an extreme snow storm assisted their relationship in progressing from co-workers to friends.

“We became friends, especially after a big snow storm.”

“When she couldn’t go out, get home and didn’t have enough clothes, I said, ‘OK, you can have my underwear.’ But then I added, ‘And don’t return it.’”

Their friendship grew beyond the time they spent at that Baltimore news network and when Oprah made it to the big leagues, she was sure to bring Gayle along for the ride.

“When time came and things happened to me, I asked her to quit her job and come to my new Oprah magazine to help me. But the truth is, the whole time I felt guilty taking her away from TV because I know how much she loved it.”

Now that Gayle is back working in the television industry, the 60-year-old entrepreneur says she couldn’t be more happy for her friend.

“I want to say officially how proud I am of my friend Gayle King,” she gushed. “And now she’s doing so well, and I’m thrilled for her. Mostly because at least she can have her own underwear.”

We absolutely love their friendship.

What Men Should Not Do In Front Of Their Girlfriends

November 1st, 2013 - By Madame Noire
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From Single Black Male 


1. Commenting on our friends, sisters, cousins, or co-workers looks:This can either go horribly wrong or kind of right. For example, “Your mom is so beautiful you look just like her.” And then there is, “Yeah … your sister’s boobs are bigger than yours, but all I need is a handful.” (No this is not a made up example either, but I digress.) Look, it’s not like we expect you to not look at, desire, or feel attracted to anyone else, but hearing how fine/hot/beautiful/pretty you think our best friend/sister/co-worker is, is not on our list of things we want to hear. Why? They are too close to home and too close to you. This is a scenario we see constantly played out in movies, television dramas, and the “Maury Show,” so the last thing we want to equate with you is getting a phone call from Maury’s producer. Thinking someone is beautiful does not mean you are going to cheat on us with them either, but would you want us telling you how Hot we think your brother is? Didn’t think so.


2. Trying to solve all of our problems for us: Guys, we understand you are natural problem solvers, but sometimes we just want to vent about our co-worker Tanya. (Listen, I don’t care how mature you are, we all have that one co-worker that just irks the hell out of us). For example, ‘Tanya flirts with everyone and it pisses me off! I’m sure she’s sleeping with our boss because she wouldn’t have gotten that raise otherwise!” Pause right here. What are you supposed to say to that? Should you try and solve this dilemma for your woman? Are you supposed to agree that Tanya is a Slore? Do you tell your girl she may be reacting a bit over-the-top? No to everything! Just listen and please don’t try and come up with a plan of action, unless we ask. We have been dealing with Tanya for a long time now and know what we need to do, but we can’t talk about her with anyone at work so we at times need to vent about it to you. Please put the whiteboard, markers, and note cards away — we got this.

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MN Exclusive: Our “Girlfriends” Reminisce On Our Fav Sitcom At Black Girls Rock!

October 31st, 2013 - By Brande Victorian
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It’s a reunion!

This past Saturday night, every fabulous black women in the entertainment industry gathered together to celebrate something we all already know, “Black Girls Rock!” On top of our good fortune of just being in the presence of these exceptional ladies at the award ceremony, we also got to chat with a few on the red carpet — including our favorite “Girlfriends.”

Yup, Joan, Maya, Toni, and Lynn were all there; or should we say Tracee Ellis Ross, Golden Brooks, Jill Marie Jones, and Persia White? We had the chance to catch up with each woman and ask them about one of our favorite shows in television history, and we even caught Tracee and Mara Brock Akil, creator of “Girlfriends,” reunite on the carpet. Check out the video below as we chat with the girls about their favorite “Girlfriends” episodes and why the sitcom was the best thing ever in the early 2000s.