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‘Girl on Top’ Column: Managing Sex With a New Partner
Ladies, how many of you have had amazing sex with your partner from the first time you got it popping? Good for you if you have, but for many folks, it takes a little bit longer to grow the connection and build up the collective repoire. Even if you are burning with desire for your (wo)man, you still may find a couple of bumps in the road to mutual bliss: he likes it fast, she likes it slow. He says “let there be light!”, but she would rather do it in the dark. So how do you make it work?
The Secrets to “Upping Your ‘Hot’”
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
One of the keys to having great sex is to feel Hot. It doesn’t matter how skillful you are with your hands, how nice your head game is…if you haven’t truly tapped in to your sensual side, it’s all for naught. Here are a few tips to help you feel like a lovemaking goddess:
Introducing Your Mate to Your Vibrator
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
While a vibrator is not actually a “battery-operated boyfriend”, but simply a fun addition to a healthy sex life, the idea of introducing it to your flesh and blood partner may be as daunting as if your toy were a real man. Some years ago, an ex-flame of mine took a look at my vibe and sputtered, “women don’t even need men anymore. You all can just buy one of these and go to the sperm bank and do it all without us!”. ’Ex-flame’, indeed. Read the rest of this entry »
“Girl On Top” Sex Column: Healthy Arousal (Part 1)
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
Let’s talk about lubricant! It’s important and no sex should be going down without it! Adequate (or more than) vaginal moisture makes for better sex for both partners in most cases. Intercourse and vaginal dryness is a big no-no. In addition to being pretty damned uncomfortable, it’s also dangerous: the friction caused can result in cuts and tears to your lady parts. And I know you don’t want that.
How Safe Sex Can Still Be Good
One of my homeboys said to me the other day “I think it’s great you have the sex column…but sis, when are you gonna talk about protection?” While sexual health and wellness was one of the things I thought about when I first decided to take this role on, I have to admit that condoms are so second nature for me, I almost forget sometimes that so many of my peers are out here wildin’ the Fawk out and doing the raw thing. I can’t and I won’t. In the words of Bernie Mac: “MotherFawker, for WHAT?”
Dear Sexpert: We’re Long Distance & Lacking!
I have been dating someone long distance for the last 7 months. We both are looking to be together for the long term and have about 1.5 yrs left of long distance. We have seen each other on 3 different occasions (5 days, 5 days and 16 days) But we are extremely close. Talk everyday and have spent countless hours on the phone. I have met his parents and a few close friends. Before we were intimate, he admitted to me that it’s harder for him to be open sexually with a woman he really likes and cares for. Well, he wasn’t kidding because that’s exactly how he has been with me. I have brought this up to him a few times and he tells me it is because he really likes me and he doesn’t want to do anything to “disrespect” me.
Blow His Mind (Part Deux)
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
Hey guys and dolls! Back with a few more tips to help you ’fellate’ great *giggle*.
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Some Men Don’t Like Being Put In a “Sex Box”
Let’s take a break from the “how-to-give-head” talk for a second. On some happy occasions, I have witnessed mutual desire for a relationship between a man and a woman, i.e. “we’re grown, we have needs, sex is too awesome to wait until you are spoken for to get some!” However, on a handful of occasions I have either experienced or observed the disappointment of women who have found out that a man with whom they craved a relationship, was only looking for a sex partner.
Blow His Mind (Part 1)
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
This past weekend, I had the pleasure of attending a workshop at Babeland, an awesome “sex positive” shop in NYC. Women of all ages filled the store to learn”The Art of the Perfect Blow Job” and the instructors didn’t disappoint!
Just Say “NO” If He’s Already Taken (‘Girl On Top’ Column)
“Girl On Top” is a weekly sex column on Madame Noire. Stay tuned for more topics, comment or write us at editors@madamenoire.com if you have suggestions!
We’ve all met him before: attractive, charming, interested…but in a relationship with someone else. It’s a hard thing to do, but friends, you must learn to say ‘No. No. HELL NO!’ when tempted by someone else’s lover.
