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When it comes to foreplay, not every person is created equal. Some like candles and slow jams, others don’t need much at all. And celebrities aren’t any different. These stars have opened up to let fans into their bedroom. And they have some surprising things to say about what they like in terms of foreplay.
From intellectual stimulation, to a hot bath, to dressing up in costumes on set, you’ll be surprised to hear what these celebrities get into behind closed doors. Whether they shared too much information on social media or gave a few too many details with these confessions, we’ve got all the foreplay tea right here. Get your mugs ready, it’s time for a long sip.
And if you know someone who’s dropping the ball in the foreplay department (side-eye at several ex-boyfriends), maybe slide this list their way and highlight your favorite tips to give them a few pointers.
Men, you may have heard that for women, foreplay is about 25 percent physical and 75 percent mental. What that means is that you can’t just come home after not speaking to your lady for hours and then try to jump her bones. Odds are, she just won’t be in the mood and probably won’t get in the mood that fast. If you try to initiate sex but she’s just not having it, you’re probably failing in the mental foreplay game. Here is a guide.
Having better sex doesn’t have to be as complicated as purchasing D batteries, something called a bullet and a pricey adult film (that neither of you can decide on). If you’ve been struggling to be in the moment during sex, or to get aroused in the first place, these simple tricks can enhance sex.
As you get older, you might move away from hand-stuff. You probably just send your man’s face down there the moment you get aroused. But, a guy’s fingers can detect a lot more than his tongue can, if he knows how to use them right! Here are tips for the art of fingering.
Men: you may think you have the easiest equipment to navigate, but women disagree! Even though we might make going down on you look effortless and natural to us, it’s not. In fact, there are a million things buzzing through our heads. Like this.
What is 4play anyway? Well to start off, it’s a noun, but it is so much more than that, and if you pay attention and learn the art of epic 4play you might not even make it to the bedroom. (The backseat or the broom closet might just have to do)!
According to the Urban Dictionary, 4play is touching, kissing or licking each other in a stimulating manner, in order to become “turned on” before having actual sex. However, in most public places this kind of 4play isn’t too acceptable, especially the licking part.
But that doesn’t mean you need to wait until after your date to put 4play skills into action. Non-physical 4play is a bigger turn-on than twerking to Justin Timberlake’s latest in the club. Trust me on this ladies, subtlety is Hot. Keep the twerking for your alone time. He’ll think it’s much sexier if you only twerk for him.
There are just a few simple steps for 4play that starts before the bedroom, and they start with you getting in touch with yourself.
1. Get in tune with your sensual side.
You can do this by getting in touch with your six senses. Oh… you thought there were five? There is one that many people don’t talk about, and we’ll get to that later. Clueless in how to connect with with your sensual energy? Learn more 4 more subtle seductive communication tips. There are the five senses that we all know: taste, touch, smell, hearing and seeing — and using all of these is a big part of 4play. You’ve got to be tapped in to be turned on.
Try this exercise: next time you are eating your Caesar salad with grilled chicken, really pay attention to what is going on around you. Notice the heat of the chicken as opposed to the coldness of the fork, and the crispy, crunchy sounds of the romaine and croutons. Notice the textures too.
Whenever you do anything, be really aware of the way things look and feel around you while you have. See the sun shining and be aware of the shimmery ice cubes in your drink, what the condensation feels like on your fingers. Licking the condensation off of your glass is not quite what you want to go for hwew. (Remember subtle is Hot, at least in public).
When you tune into your body and live in the moment, you can get more in touch with your sixth sense. When you are in tune with what is going on with you and your body, you can tap into your intuition, and trusting that part will allow you to be more open with you man. Trusting your instincts will turn both of you on.
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I got a call from a client earlier today that really annoyed me. She’d been out the night before on a first date. The guy asked her if she’d have sex with him, and when she said, “Not until I know you better,” he started getting annoyed and told he she was a tease.
I’ve been in the relationship business for nearly 20 years, and I can’t believe there are still men that behave like that. It’s one of the reasons I’m so determined to teach guys how to behave with, and communicate better with women.
You see here’s the truth…
Real men who are used to having sex, and men who understand women properly will NEVER attack a women for not having sex with him; especially only after one date!
Men who get angry when a woman won’t sleep with them are the ones who don’t have sex on a regular basis. They’re so hungry for sex, when they get an opportunity they become aggressive. Think of a dog that hasn’t eaten for days being thrown a steak.
A guy who reacts badly when you hold off from sex is telling you what sort of person he is. He’s pretty much saying, “I’m a very insecure guy who hasn’t had sex in ages. I’m so desperate for this opportunity because if I don’t sleep with you now, I may not get another shot for ages.”
Seriously, you need to keep away from this kind of “man.” They’re not emotionally mature enough for a relationship. Even if you like them, I guarantee it’ll end badly for you.
If a guy accuses you of teasing or leading him on, get rid of him as soon as you can. You can do so much better.
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When it comes to sex, it goes without saying that men and women have very different expectations as well as likes and dislikes. None of us are exactly the same when it comes to what turns us on or off, but there are some things that most women agree on when it comes to determining if we allow him back in our bed or not.
Guys, if you’ve managed to have sex with her once, but you now find that she’s MIA after your encounter, chances are you did or said something wrong in the sack and she’s not eager for a repeat. If you get your cues from adult videos or your boys, you might’ve been led astray…and here are 9 things that you might be doing that SOME women hate in bed.
Learning how to touch your man is essential to your relationship’s success, growth and development. Many women do not know how to touch a man, and learning this skill is needed for a healthy intimate connection. Touching is a skill that, for the most part, has been forgotten and replaced with other activities, like shopping at the mall.
Most women just assume that because they are beautiful and smart, have a great body, know how to dress and have a great job that they have the full package men are looking for. But some of these “perfect” women have no clue how to properly touch a man. You can only be good at what you spend your time practicing. What men truly desire is as simple as being touched the right way.
Check out the five right ways on YourTango.com.
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You’re watching TV with your man. You’ve had a laid back night with not a lot of talking. And then suddenly, out of nowhere he says, “Let’s have sex.” And even though you love him, and even though he usually turns you on just by laying one finger on you, this doesn’t do it for you. In fact, it’s kind of killed the mood for the whole evening. Here’s why: