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Nothing went wrong, per-say. The night was enjoyable enough and you’re hot enough. So, how come he didn’t call you back after the first date? Unless you did something crazy you can probably chalk it up to nerves–men sense insecurities and a lack of sense of self. While you may not be insecure in general, everyone’s prone to freezing up on a first date and acting awkward, strange and even desperate when they’re just trying to impress someone. You just might not be aware how you’re coming off. Here are 7 common things women do on a first date to influence the non-second date.
When you’re young, you let a lot of things slide when getting to know a guy. You see behaviors as “incidental.” You don’t pick up on patterns. You don’t realize that A leads to B. But, as you date more men, you start to realize that the following behaviors all correlate with one thing: possible bad boyfriend material.
In your early twenties, when a guy tells you he’s starting his own business you see ambition, passion, money (let’s be real here), intelligence, curiosity about the world and so much more. Later in life, when a man tells you he’s starting over and thinking about starting a new business, you see a guy who is too busy to see you and even in the few hours a week he can, his brain is on the loan he just took out to start that business. A new entrepreneur sells his heart to his business until it is established and might not be the best person to try and pursue a relationship with right now.