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Honestly, I’m still waiting to see what’s going to happen with this Erica Mena and Bow Wow engagement. There is quite a bit of skepticism surrounding these two. One minute Erica, (Whenever I say Erica Mena’s name, I always hear Cyn’s whiny voice in my ear.), was with Rich Dollaz, then Cyn Santana and then, seemingly overnight, she was not only dating Bow Wow, the two were engaged to be married.
Life comes at you fast, huh?
We never know how the cookie will crumble in Hollywood relationships, so I’m not going to damn them or their love, I’ll just say it’s interesting.
In this day of social media proclamation, Erica and Bow Wow are forever making their love known all over each other’s social media pages. There are photos of the two in bed together, cute videos with sexual innuendos and gushing comments about who and what they are to each other. And in a recent interview with Rolling Out, the “Love and Hip Hop New York” star opened up about her relationship, talking about how Bow Wow tamed her, what real men like in a woman and what she wants her legacy to be as a woman, wife and mother.
Check out the highlights.
How can she be ready to get married when she was just with Cyn?
People have misconceptions about everyone I’ve dated. Last year, it’s like “oh, all of sudden, she’s gay.” No, I’ve been bisexual. In the past, I’ve been very open and affectionate towards females. It’s definitely no secret. At that point, I was dating a woman and brought her on the show.
How she and Bow fell in love
When that whole “106 & Park” kiss happened, we were both seeing other people and that kiss put us in the doghouse. So we were kind of confiding in each other. I realized that he is a man who really knows me and I’ve never had someone to fully accept me for who I am, flaws and all. I think it just happened naturally with us. We were at that point of really wanting to settle down, but the people that we were with at the time just weren’t fitting us. So it just happened and I discovered that this was the person that I was really supposed to be with.
What does she say to people who think this is a publicity stunt?
I think people are trying to put pieces together in other people’s lives so much that they are not living their own life. Cyn and I have been broken up for a while, I just hadn’t publicly come out about it because I’m on reality television. So to keep you tuned in, I had to keep things under wraps. So in this season of “Love & Hip Hop,” there’s a lot of catching up for the fans to do. And I think they will see how everything transpired and will get a better understanding.
Bow Wow’s sex game
Being with Bow [Wow], he’s so dominating and that just turns me on because I’m usually the dominating one. I’m a Scorpio, so I call the shots. It’s different to have someone that you can finally be submissive to. So dealing with a woman like me, it’s kind of like, ‘can she be tamed?’ It’s all a matter of, are you man enough to tame the woman. And there’s a way to be assertive, but still give that embraceable nature that makes a woman kind of be submissive to you, that’s very powerful. But in order for a man to feel like a man, a woman has to give him the most respect. But in order for the woman to give you that respect, you kind of have to demand it and make her embrace you for what you are doing to her for her to respect you. So it’s a catch-22. I think men are scared of being men these days.
A little Rich Dollaz jab
From my last relationship with ‘B—- Dollaz’ [Rich Dollaz], he was just one of those dudes who would always run home to his mama. You know, it just shows that you’re a punk at that point. And that also goes for respect. You can still be a man and have authority and get your point across without being disrespectful. I think a man should “think like a man.
What do men respect about women?
Men love women who aren’t babies, who don’t nag and you don’t have to stroke their egos. You just kind of have to be sure of yourself. If you feel good, I’m telling you every man in America will know you’re feeling good.
How she wants to be remembered
In my career, I want to be known as the girl who was crazy enough to go for it and brave enough to get it done. In my personal life, I want to be the one who takes care of everybody. And in my marriage, I want to be that wife that my husband can really rely on for everything. I don’t want it to ever get to a point where my husband can’t be honest with me, or that he isn’t sexually into me. As a mom, I want to be that mother that steers her children to be whatever they want to be, but also lets them know that the world will never give them anything. So when they grow up, they can come back and say, “mom, you were right.”
In yet another installment of ‘Things That Make You Go Hmm…,” it seems that two “Love and Hip Hop” stars, from different installments, are getting pretty close. Either that, or someone is hoping for a come-up and is going to desperate measures to get it.
The rumors started flying when Moniece, who is the mother of Lil Fizz’s son, Kameron, went on a couples vacation and tagged Rich Dollaz in one of her photos. Then there was the time when someone congratulated her on Rich allegedly being her man, and she sent back a kiss emoji. And now, there’s actual evidence on Twitter and IG of Moniece pretty much telling anyone who will listen that she’s in like with Rich:
As for Rich, he hasn’t gone to the same lengths to confirm that they are involved. But the pair have been seen out together recently, promoting his drink, 79 Gold, and hanging out:
Definitely an interesting pair if this is all true. But if Rich thought that Erica Mena was a handful, one season of “Love and Hip Hop Hollywood” definitely taught us that Moniece isn’t necessarily cool, calm and collected either. Nevertheless, good luck to them…
A couple of months ago, Bow Wow informed fans that he’s very serious about his engagement to Erica Mena. So much so, that the two have already set a wedding date. Yes, according to the former “106 and Park” host, he will be taking the reality star as his bride in April 2015.
Of course, that’s just around the corner, so it’s no surprise Erica is discussing wedding plans.
According to the VH1 star, she wants an intimate ceremony that reflects the personalities of both herself and her fiancé.
“We’ve definitely set a date and it’s around the corner,” Erica explained to Hip Hollywood. “It’s a lot of work to do, actually. My publicists are dreading me right now.”
As for her vision, Erica had this to say:
“I want it to be strictly friends and family. More importantly, I want us to enjoy the moment so much. I think with every single detail and everything we decide, it’s definitely going to be an us thing. This is a big step in our lives.”
If her previous comments lead you to believe that there’s still a lot she hasn’t done, your guess is correct.
“We don’t really have anything in mind right now, but as we sit down, it’s coming together. It’s going to be an intimate affair.”
From the sounds of it, she’s hoping it will be a star-studded event, but we’re not really sure how that’s going to coincide with her vision for an intimate ceremony.
“Thankfully, he has a lot of celebrity friends stuff so I’m sure my wedding party will be quite interesting.”
Oh yeah, she made it clear that her ex-bae Rich Dollaz is not on the invite list, which is probably a good thing.
You know how some reality stars, after they’ve been on a show for a few seasons, all of a sudden they feel like they’re above it all? Well you can add Erica Mena’s name to the #OverIt bunch, as she just confirmed her plans to leave the “Love & Hip Hop New York” franchise, basically slamming one of the storylines this season.
When we asked Erica how she decided it was time to leave LHHNY, she, hypocritically so, pointed out “the desperation is so real” right now with producers putting anyone on the show these days. Erica, of course, has an issue with Chrissy Monroe who popped up this season claiming the newly-engaged model used to work for her as a prostitute, but we can’t help but recall how Miss Mena got a permanent spot on the show after she made her debut beefing with Kimbella and throwing drinks at her. Guess she’s outgrown that stuff now huh?
Check out Erica’s full interview above as well as Amina Buddafly explaining why she’s nervous about this next season of the show. What do you think?
Just when you think one “Love and Hip Hop” franchise has outdone the other one, VH1 drops a trailer for the new show and makes us all reconsider. And today, “Love And Hip Hop New York” is getting their moment in the sun. In the supertrailer we get to catch up and learn all the answers to our questions.
There’s all the relationship drama. Yandy and Mendeecees are reunited and she announces that she’s expecting a baby girl. Peter and Amina prepare for the arrival of their daughter and we watch the rapid dissolution of Erica Mena and Cyn’s relationship and the beginning of a new one with Bow Wow.
It’s going to be turnt.
And of course there are some new characters. There’s this older Amazonian looking White woman who comes in starting all types of drama saying Erica Mena used to work for her as an escort.
Former baseball player, Darryl Strawberry’s daughter is on the show and Rich Dollaz’ old girlfriend comes back with a vengeance. Apparently, this is the same girl who claimed Drake put a hit out on her.
And lastly, Peter and Tara have a nasty discussion about his actions last season and how he put Amina before her [Tara]. It seems like neither one of them is over the other.
Get into the trailer in the video below.
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The things people do for love…
While we haven’t had the chance to see it as of yet, while relaxing with family, friends, and his fiancée this past weekend, Bow Wow (or Shad Moss, whichever you prefer) revealed that Erica Mena got a tattoo with his name on her body. He had this to say about it on Facebook:
“Love this woman so much! She You know its real when the ink dry. Tatted my name so i know its real! Saturday’s w/ the misses!”
Interesting enough though, this isn’t the first time that Mena has gone the ink route to let a man know how she feels about him. If you’ll recall, she revealed on a “Love and Hip Hop New York” reunion that she tattooed Rich Dollaz’s name on her hand. When things went left between them, she did get that ‘R’ covered up with a massive scorpion. She told the folks on “Black Ink Crew” (where she got the tat covered) that, “I did a sucka move. I got it to prove my loyalty and it worked against me.”
Hopefully things will work out better this time around. Hey, at least she’s doing it for her fiance this time…
The ladies of MadameNoire discuss Mary J and Naya Rivera banning their husbands from having female friends, Bill Cosby’s latest sexual assault allegations and comedian Tony Rock calling Bow Wow’s fiancee, Erica Mena, a whore. Watch and weigh in in the comments section and be sure to tune in for more Did Y’all See? on Cafe Mocha Radio.
“Maybe I Shouldn’t Have Said That, But I’m Not Taking It Back”: Tony Rock Kind Of Regrets Calling Erica Mena A “Whore”…
We told you earlier this week that comedian Tony Rock (brother of Chris) made some very disrespectful comments about Erica Mena earlier this week. In case you missed it:
Of course, Bow Wow didn’t appreciate such statements about his lady, and went on to not only bash black folks in general for not supporting his relationship, but threw threats Rock’s way.
“@TONYROCK ill have a talk w/ you when i see you. Face to face cuz”
“The homies just dropped the dime on Tony Rock. I just got the call. I toldem press go. Don’t f*** w/a man’s family homie.”
Tony Rock now realizes that his comments were pretty out-of-pocket, so he finally addressed them while hosting at a recent All Def Digital Comedy Live event. But he made it clear that he’s not going to apologize for his sentiments. Addressing what he said:
“Every ni**a falls in love with a whore at least once in their life. Fifty muthahf**kers were like, ‘Yo! That’s crazy funny! Mad funny! Mad funny!’ F**king Bow Wow responded. Okay? And he was like, ‘Yo, I’m a see you. We’ll talk when I see you face to face cuz,’ which made all my ni**as fall on the floor laughing. But then everybody kept retweeting it and kept retweeting it…if he was to walk in right now and he wants to turn it into something else, we can do that. But I’m not fighting Bow Wow. I will fight one of his dudes, but I’m not fighting Bow Wow. AT ALL! That’s not going to happen. But I will say this, he proposed to her, she accepted the proposal. She’s going to be his wife. This is a man marrying a woman, I should’ve respected that, so I’ll say, maybe I shouldn’t have said that, but I’m not taking it back. I’m not one of those comics who says sh*t and then takes it back. I said it. It’s out there. It is what it is.”
Not going to lie, I’m reading this whole situation as a possible push for attention by all parties. Clearly they’ve succeeded because I’m talking about it! Ha! Ah well…
But what do you think about Rock’s response to Bow Wow and his thoughts on his past statements? You can check out Rock chatting about the situation in full through Baller Alert.
“It’s Only 1 Race That Hates Most On My Relationship”: Bow Wow Disses “Black Folks” For Trashing Him And Engagement To Erica Mena
We told you yesterday that comedian Tony Rock (brother of Chris) made an out-of-pocket joke of sorts about Erica Mena on Twitter:
Bow Wow obviously didn’t appreciate such comments about his fiancée, and let Rock know that they would have a talk soon enough about such foolishness:
Bow Wow went on to say “The homies just dropped the dime on Tony Rock. I just got the call. I toldem press go. Don’t f*** w/a man’s family homie.” He would later delete the comment, what with it sounding like a threat and all, and Bow Weezy wanting to keep his new gig with “CSI: Cyber.”
He also professed his love for Mena on Facebook, saying “I love my wife so much! No words no opinions WILL EVER CHANGE HOW I FEEL. We locked in! Soul mates. This for life! So beyond in love w/ each other its crazy! Unbreakable.”
And Erica Mena also defended herself. There was a rumor going around after Rock’s comments came out that she had admitted to sleeping with 300 different people. Don’t know where all that came from, but she had this to say about everything:
From there, you would think any further comments by Bow Wow about disrespect towards his relationship with Erica Mena would be directed at Rock or at specific detractors, but no, Bow Wow took to Facebook again to actually criticize black people as a whole. According to the actor/rapper, black people are the only ones who he feels don’t support his relationship and say negative things about him in general.
“Funny how its only 1 race that hates the most on my relationship or anything i do. BLACK FOLKS. Says a lot about us. Exactly why folks think we can never elevate because we stay holding each other back with the bullsh*t and ignorance. Maybe we are just that. IGNORANT. FOH”
Well then…I’ll let you be the ones to share your opinions on all that. Does he have a point? Or is he directing his anger at the wrong people?
Tony Rock recently made some not-so-nice jokes about Bow Wow’s relationship with his fiancée, “Love & Hip Hop New York” star Erica Mena. The jokes came in the form of tweets, which Tony sent out after he learned that “106 And Park” was being taken off of the air.
106 and Park cancelled. Is the Bow Wow/Erica Mena wedding still on?
— Tony Rock (@TONYROCK) November 19, 2014
I ain’t even hatin on Bow Wow. Every nigga falls in love with a full blown whore once in his life. — Tony Rock (@TONYROCK) November 19, 2014
So far, neither Bow Wow nor Erica have addressed Tony’s jab. It’s not really clear why he decided to go after the couple, either. What I can say is that he’s wrong about the wedding being off. Yesterday on Instagram, Bow Wow announced that he and his lady love will be tying the knot in April of 2015.
While Erica isn’t necessarily my favorite person in the world, it was pretty mean of Tony to attack her and call her a “whore” to his 82,000 Twitter followers.
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