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As discussions surrounding Ray Rice’s indefinite suspension from the NFL due to a domestic dispute with his wife continue to bring more awareness to domestic violence, more public figures, including Queen Latifah, are also voicing their opinions on the issue.
During an upcoming episode of “The Queen Latifah Show,” the 44-year-old media maven opened up how domestic abuse has affected her family and inspired therecording to her 1993 hit single, “U.N.I.T.Y.”
“It’s sad to me that this problem is headline news because some football players are involved, because this is something that’s always around,” Latifah said during the segment. “It’s a problem in every part of society. It doesn’t matter if you’re rich, or whether you’re poor. It doesn’t matter what your race is. Where you come from, what language you speak. This is a problem for all of us. And it is not a new problem.”
Read more about Queen Latifah’s response at BlackVoices.com
According to ESPN, Ray Rice’s legal team hopes to go after his indefinite suspension by pointing out that the NFL extended his suspension based on an edited videotape.
NFL Insider and analyst Adam Schefter said he was informed by legal sources close to Rice’s appeal that his team will scrutinize the videotape that made national, if not international news (I got wind of the whole story while in Greece) because it was an edited, “cleaned-up, whittled down and condensed version” of the actual events in that elevator in Atlantic City back in February.
Former director of the FBI, Robert Mueller, was brought on by the NFL to investigate how the league as a whole and the Baltimore Ravens handled Rice’s case, as well as who saw the elevator video and when they originally saw it. TMZ has since responded to the news that their video will be criticized as part of his appeal:
Ray Rice will reportedly argue that TMZ Sports edited the “inside the elevator” video … thereby altering what really happened that night.
He’s right. We did edit the video … and we made that point crystal clear in our original post — the same post where we also INCLUDED the raw unedited version showing Rice KOing Janay Palmer.
As we initially reported, the original raw video was jerky — in that it would move forward and then in reverse every couple of frames … so we removed the reverse frames.
Again, TMZ Sports included the raw video in our original post.
It seems that Rice and his team are going to great lengths to get his indefinite suspension overturned, including citing double jeopardy in the league’s decision to harshly punish him after they had already suspended him for two games, and after Rice claimed (and sources back up) that he told the Ravens up-front that he punched then-fiancée Janay Palmer. Through the unedited version, Rice hopes to show that his story lined up exactly with what he told the Ravens so that the league will be held accountable for trying to flip-flop on suspensions.
But at the end of the day, indefinite suspension taken off or not, it doesn’t change the fact that he knocked his then-fiancée out cold and treated her body like that of a rag doll…
— SB Nation (@SBNation) September 19, 2014
The NFL, in its continuing efforts to quell the outrage over its treatment of violent offenses among members of its league, has announced that it has partnered with two organizations — the National Domestic Violence Hotline and the National Sexual Violence Resource Center.
In the past week, according to Roger Goodell, the NFL’s commissioner, the domestic violence hotline has received 80 percent more calls, but it doesn’t have the resources to handle all of those calls. In a memo that was sent to the league’s 32 teams, the NFL’s support will provide for 25 full-time advocates in the next five weeks, giving it the ability to take 750 more calls.
In addition, the memo, which the Los Angeles Times got its hands on, says the teams will participate in education sessions and training programs over the next month. And the league is going to beef up its current programs.
Goodell then held a press conference this afternoon at 3pm ET in which he repeated a good chunk of this information. He added that there are experts that will look at player and employee conduct policies “including his role in the process,” and the league will implement new policies. The goal is to have the committee in place by the Super Bowl. Which seems like a really long time to hire people to sit around and talk about an issue that is happening now and requires some urgency, but OK.
Then it was time for Goodell to take questions from the reporters in the room and that’s when the presser devolved into a rambling, mumbling mess. When asked whether he ever considered stepping down from his job, Goodell said he “never considered resigning,” then said something about all the work he has to to do and all the changes they’re going to make.
When asked why there are no women of color among the domestic violence experts that have been brought on board to consult with the league, he said that wasn’t true, then went on about people of color being on staff and working on the changes.
He repeatedly deflected questions about the independent investigation that’s being conducted about the way the recent incidents were handled.
Then TMZ lowered the boom and asked why Goodell or anyone else didn’t take some initiative to get the surveillance video from the elevator. Goodell stands by the league’s efforts, saying they’re going through law enforcement.
“We found that (video) by one phone call. You guys have a whole legal department,” the TMZ reporter said. Ouch.
The fall out from the press conference is pretty huge and it doesn’t look like it’s going to get any better for Goodell or the league anytime soon. It was announced today (prior to the presser) that Procter & Gamble’s Crest toothpaste brand has pulled out of plans to partner with the league on its on-field breast cancer awareness promotion planned for next month. It hasn’t pulled anything else, but is watching the situation, it says. The company still plans to donate $100,000 to the American Cancer Society.
And Sen. Cory Booker says the league should have its nonprofit status snatched. Wait… the NFL is a nonprofit? The league brought in $9 billion last year. “This common sense update to our tax laws would save more than $100 million over 10 years — money that can instead be used to pay for vital support programs that have seen their funding slashed in recent years due to sequestration and gridlock,” the Senator said in a statement. A number of other politicians agree with him.
Says The Huffington Post:
According to the organization, the league falls under nonprofit status because its administrative office acts as a trade organization, handling responsibilities like overseeing game rules and employing referees — not contributing to profitable efforts by the league’s 32 teams, which pay taxes on tickets, jersey sales and television rights — ABC News reported.
Goodell’s terrible press conference shows that while he sees the league needs to do something — that people are angry and they want to see the NFL respond — he and the league are completely and totally clueless about both what to do and, in a way, why people are so mad in the first place. There’s this palpable sense that they’re being pushed to action grudgingly by fans and sponsors every step of the way.
‘When You Whip Those You Love, It’s Not About Abuse:’ Adrian Peterson’s Mom Defends Him In The Wake Of Child Abuse Allegations
Adrian Peterson has been a headline favorite since he was brought up on child abuse charges for beating and injuring his 4-year-old son with a switch. After receiving much backlash, the Minnesota Vikings decided to deactivate the 29-year-old pending the outcome of the investigation. The Houston Chronicle recently spoke with Peterson’s mother, Bonita Jackson, who defended her son.
“I don’t care what anybody says, most of us disciplined our kids a little more than we meant sometimes,” explained Jackson. “But we were only trying to prepare them for the real world. When you whip those you love, it’s not about abuse, it’s about love. You want to make them understand that they did wrong.”
Jackson went on to confirm previous statements that both she and Adrian’s father, Nelson Peterson, were “big disciplinarians” when their children were small. She adds that she used her hands, belts and switches to discipline her children, but that she never injured them.
Jackson says that her son is now getting counseling to learn alternative methods to discipline his children, for example, having the child stand in the corner for five minutes. The mother of six argues that she would be “so angry with anybody who willfully hurt her grandbabies,” and that she does not believe this is what her son intended to do.
“It’s been a heartbreaking experience,” she expressed. “Words can’t explain it. I just stay prayerful and God will get the glory.”
“He is trying hard to be a good parent. He’s working at it. People are judging him for this one incident, but they don’t know his heart. It was never his intent to hurt his son.”
The saddest part of it all, Jackson says, is that both she and her son have been barred from all contact with the 4-year-old child, who currently lives with his mother in Minnesota.
“I feel nothing but love for her [the boy's mother]. She’s so sweet,” Jackson said. “At the end of the day, we want to protect our children. It happened and so now we as a family need to work things out and move forward.”
“But when we talk to her, we can hear him laughing and playing in the background. He sounds happy,” she said. “I know his mother has much respect for Adrian. She knows he’s a good father, no matter how much people attack his character, only God can judge us.”
Before concluding the interview, she quickly added: “But Adrian is good and does a good job. We live with the choices we make.”
Relatives of Ray Rice and his wife Janay Rice recently revealed that the couple plans to take legal action against the NFL for his league suspension. The couple will cite “double jeopardy” for the repercussions placed upon Rice for his domestic violence assault. Earlier this spring, a video surfaced of Rice dragging his then-fiancee, Janay out of an Atlantic City casino elevator. In May, the ex-Baltimore Ravens running back pleaded guilty to third-degree aggravated assault.
Although Rice pleaded guilty, another video surfaced of him punching Janay unconscious in the elevator before dragging her out. Once the second video surfaced, the Ravens terminated him and his $35 million contract. The NFL followed suit and served Rice a lifetime suspension. The second round of much more severe punishment is what Rice could be questioning.
The Daily News reports, Rice’s appeal may spark congressional action. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand says of the controversy: “If the NFL doesn’t police themselves, then we will be looking more into it. I wouldn’t be surprised if we had hearings.” She also noted the NFL poorly responded to Rice assaulting his wife. Most people would likely agree with her.
Senator Gillibrand stated if NFL’s Commissioner Goodell lied to the public about not seeing the full video coverage, he should step down from his position. Gillibrand was one of the 16 female senators who sent a letter demanding there is a “zero-tolerance policy” for domestic violence occurring in the NFL players personal lives.
We all watched (and laughed) as Momma Dee’s tooth came out during the middle of one of her performances.
Momma Dee took it all in stride, making light of the whole thing, completely unashamed.
But I’m sure she realized if she’s going to do this singing thing, she’ll have to take care of that flipper situation, with something a little bit more permanent. Luckily, Dr. Heavenly, from “Married To Medicine,” was there to step in and help her fellow reality star sister out.
She installed a veneer.
But first, Momma Dee shared the story of how she lost the tooth in the first place.
“I was married to Scrappy’s daddy. We got into it. I remember that night before he went to revival. I told him when I get up, I want the diapers there because I had to put Scrappy on the nursery van. And I woke up and said, ‘Where is the diapers?’ He gon’ say, ‘Well, I didn’t get none.’ So we got into it. He cut off the light, I cut it on. He pushed me, I pushed him. He hit me in my mouth and he did this. (Pulls tooth out of her mouth.) I’m known, I’m a fighter. People were like, ‘Why you ain’t whoop his ass?” I said, ‘Bitch, I was on the floor trying to find my damn teeth.”
Not to make light of a very serious domestic violence situation but Momma Dee is seriously a great storyteller and I watched and re-watched that the video of her tooth transformation, just to hear her say that last line.
Remember how we were all so surprised to learn that Scrappy’s daddy was a pastor? Apparently, he wasn’t always the upstanding kind.
Anyway, now that I know the full backstory, I’m really glad to hear that these women were able to come together and replace her missing tooth. Considering Scrappy was in diapers when her husband knocked it out of her mouth, it’s been a long time coming.
You can watch Momma Dee’s transformation in the video below.
Yesterday, we told you that yet another NFL player had been arrested for domestic violence. Now, details about the disturbing allegations are being revealed.
According to the New York Daily News, Arizona Cardinals star Jonathan Dwyer is accused of terrorizing his wife for nearly two days in July after she brushed off his sexual advances. Dwyer’s wife said that when he tried kissing and undressing her, she responded by biting him on the lip, which resulted in a physical altercation. The following day, she alleges that he punched her on the left side of her face with a closed fist. She adds that he also allegedly began beating on the walls in their home and tossed a shoe at their 18-month-old son. Thankfully, police say that the child was not injured during the rampage, but according to ABC News, Dwyer’s wife alleges that she sustained a broken nose when he headbutted her.
After the second alleged assault, police say that Dwyer’s wife left Arizona; however, she returned one week later after receiving suicidal text messages from her husband. Investigators say that he even sent over a photo of a knife. It’s also alleged that he threatened to take his life in front of their son. As previously reported, although the incidents are said to have occurred in July, they were not reported until September 11.
Dwyer was arrested Wednesday and was released from jail by Thursday on $25,000 bond. The 25-year-old was also ordered to wear an electronic monitoring device and is prohibited from traveling outside of Arizona. He has been deactivated from all team activities due to “the serious nature of these allegations,” but will continue to collect a weekly check of $730,000 under his contract. He continues to deny allegations that he assaulted his wife.
By now you have probably heard about the domestic violence situations in the NFL with former Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice and now Minnesota Vikings star Adrian Peterson–with more allegations coming to the surface. And now we have word that the Arizona Cardinals’ Jonathan Dwyer has been “deactivated” from the team over abuse allegations.
As much as we love to put athletes on pedestals not a single one is perfect, or given a pass because they’re a celebrity to act a certain way. Here’s a look at 10 controversial and disgraced sports figures. This list in many ways could be endless.
The NFL, in its efforts to get a handle on its response to the various abuse scandals and allegations, has created a group to seek out answers, led by Anna Isaacson, a community affairs vice president. And they’ve enlisted the help of three domestic violence experts: Lisa Friel, former head of sex-crimes prosecution for the Manhattan district attorney; and Jane Randel, co-founder of NO MORE, an advocacy group focusing on domestic violence and sexual assault; and Rita Smith, the former executive director of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
But the Black Women’s Roundtable, an organization comprised of a variety of female leaders, has an issue with the exclusion of Black women from that group.
“[Y]our lack of inclusion of women of color, especially black women who are disproportionately impacted by domestic violence and sexual assault; and the fact that over 66% of the NFL players are made up of African-Americans, is unacceptable,” the group said in a statement.
Rev. Jesse Jackson has also taken issue with the lack of diversity among the group.
“Where is the jury of your peers?” he said.
The Institute for Diversity and Ethics in Sport at the University of Central Florida says that two-thirds of the league is African American.
In its response, NFL spokesman Brian McCarthy agreed that there is a need for diverse thinking to address the issue, and gave assurances that the effort to better handle this issue is a collaborative one.
“To be successful and make a real difference, the entire NFL will be responsible for the development and implementation of education, training and support programs,” he continued.
It’s clear that the NFL is well behind the times on a variety of issues, and it has finally caught up with them. But on women’s issues in particular this could be a huge setback for the league and for the goals of Commissioner Roger Goodell. Five years ago, he set a goal to grow the league into a $25 billion business by 2025. To do that, it would have to court the millions of women the league says are fans. Now, The New York Times says, the league is struggling to continue a convincing pitch to women.
“I urge them to seize this moment,” said PepsiCo CEO Indra Nooyi, a major NFL sponsor. “How they handle these cases going forward can help shape how we as a nation, as a society and as individuals treat domestic violence and child abuse.”
Last month, Columbus Short decided to take a no-jail plea deal in the spousal battery case involving his estranged wige Tanee. He pleaded no contest to misdemeanor spousal battery in exchange for a 3-year probation sentence, 45 days of community labor, a 52-week domestic violence program and 26 AA meetings. Now, the former “Scandal” actor has plans to file an appeal in the case.
“I’ll probably file an appeal in the case because I don’t want it on my record since I didn’t do it,” he told the Daily News.
As for why he accepted the deal, Short claims things were very “rushed” and he didn’t realize what was going on.
“I took a deal when I didn’t really know what was going on. It was so rushed. I was in custody, and I was trying to make it to (another) courthouse (for another case),” he explained.
Speaking of domestic violence, the troubled star also addressed his recent social media commentary on Ray Rice where he blasted the athlete for abusing his wife.
Of course, folks felt like it was a “pot calling the kettle black” type situation, but Columbus insists that his estranged wife is lying about him being violent with her.
“I’ve never touched a woman, never touched a woman like that in my life,” he argued. “She’s just upset, a woman scorned.”
As previously reported, Tanee accused Columbus of hitting her and pulling out a knife.