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Yes, you’ve read the title right I’m a black women with problems that don’t include finding and/or keeping a man. You see I have a man, and while my relationship is not perfect it’s not a problem. And guess what else, I’m not alone.
The media has made it so hard to believe that women, especially black women have other life issues besides hoping to find a decent man and possibly getting married. What about our career struggles, gaining financially stability, dealing with our own personal issues and other life-related things? Aren’t they just as important as a man? I get the fact that topics about men and relationships are popular content angles and generate the most engagement and point of views but this should not be our be all and end all.
First dates can be fun; but they can also be awkward. It’s that preliminary meeting used to get to know a person and figure out if there’s a potential connection. You can learn a lot about a man during a first date, if you choose to talk and ask questions. Of course you don’t want to scare him away with a First 48 interrogation, but you should ask vital questions that allow you (or him) to decide if a second date should even be an option.
Save yourself time and a second date by ensuring that you know these 6 things before the end of your date. They’re normal conversation starters that won’t freak out your date, but provide you with a glimpse into what kind of person he is.