I really need your advice. An old girlfriend of mine recently invited me to an “All Girls Night” at her home. We were close about 7 years ago and had a falling out over a man (of course). A few years ago we “found” each other again after we both started working at the Post Office. We kinda just spoke in passing, nothing serious. She got married last year. I was NOT invited, it’s ok. We then friended each other on Facebook. So for the past six months or so I have gotten no response on FB from her. I even invited her to my birthday party, nothing. I had planned on unfriending her AND some others anyway but NOW she invites me to her home. I really dont wanna go. Number 1 being I dont consider her a friend anymore. Number 2 being I dont care for the other ladies she acquaints herself with. And number 3 being, I think she is just inviting me so it will look like she has lots of “girlfriends” (I know that’s an ugly thought.) I have a problem holding grudges and I just dont want anything to do with her.

But, what if she is really reaching out?

Sincerely,

Should I Stay Or Should I Go

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