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The Case For Keeping Your Unborn Baby’s Name A Secret

October 18th, 2016 - By Alyssa Rachelle
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Choosing a name for your unborn child is one of the most exciting things to check off of your to-do list when you’re expecting. You scour the Internet for the most popular baby name or search the family tree for a unique name owned by a relative. Either way, naming a person is an incredibly important decision and one in which everyone wants dibs.

Immediately after finding out the sex of our child the very next question from family, friends and even strangers is almost always, “Have you chosen a name?” To which I reply, “Yes, but we’re not telling people until she’s born.” Interestingly enough, most parents applaud us as they revealed their child’s name and endured heavy criticism or unsolicited name alternatives.

I even had a friend who changed the name of her unborn daughter after she received severe judgment from relatives.

Our main reason for not sharing our unborn daughter’s name isn’t fear of starting over, we don’t want to hear comments, concerns, or see that disappointing half-smile of approval.

Also, it took us 10 weeks to come up with our child’s name (a record since it only took seven weeks to make a decision on our first daughter’s name) so additional input would have made things unnecessarily hectic.

Be honest, how many times have you heard a child’s name and thought, “Who named you that and why?” We’ve all done it, and while it’s okay to keep those thoughts inside of our heads, we really don’t have the right to share our opinion on the matter since it’s not our kid.

There are additional benefits of staying mum about your unborn child’s name other than avoiding shade, like:

The surprise

After sharing main details of my pregnancy (the gender, the due date, etc.), I figured the name would be an element that my husband and I could keep to ourselves. It’s fun keeping people guessing, and the anticipation of the name is heightened.

The possible name amendment

What if you change your mind? Even though we’ve determined the first and middle name, there’s still a small chance we could go back to our short list and rethink our decision. The kid isn’t here yet so there’s time and of course we could fall in love with a name that we randomly come across.

It’s your right

It’s your kid so if you don’t want to divulge the name of your unborn child (or any other information for that matter), don’t! Never feel pressured to give up any information or feel like you have to explain your decision. It’s that simple.

After all, it’s a lot easier for a critic to voice their opinion, at least to you, when the child isn’t yet born. Who has the heart to tell the parents that their newborn’s name reminds them of a bully who tormented them during childhood or all of the stupid nicknames that come with the chosen name.

I believe that keeping this major choice a secret until absolutely necessary is a must and one that will ensure not to impose any additional stress on your pregnancy.

Fresh Prince: Tatyana Ali Shares The Name Of Her Newborn Son

September 28th, 2016 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
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My baby likes bass #bumplife #thebay

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We told you last week that Tatyana Ali and her husband, Dr. Vaughn Rasberry, welcomed a baby boy into the world. Her rep shared the new with E! News saying, “Tatyana gave birth to a beautiful baby boy on Friday, Sept. 16. Tatyana is home resting comfortably with her newborn.” The little one was born at Cedar-Sinai in Los Angeles.

Ali, 37, is now sharing the name of her first child with PEOPLE, and it’s Edward Aszard Rasberry.

According to, Edward means “wealthy guardian,” and while there’s no straightforward definition for the name Aszard, in numerology, it’s connected to the number six and its “meaning is connected to acceptance of reality, self-confidence and excellence.”

According to PEOPLE, Ali and Rasberry waited until she gave birth to find out what the sex of their child would be. Now that they’re both the proud parents of a baby boy, Ali told the publication that he’s already changed the way that she sees the world.

“Becoming a mother has opened my heart to a bottomless depth of feeling,” Ali told PEOPLE. “Through our son, I see the world with new eyes. We’ve completely fallen in love.”

Congratulations again to the happy newlyweds on their newborn and all of their many blessings this year!

Honestly, Truly: 5 Facts We Can’t Believe About Joanne The Scammer’s Creator Branden Miller

August 22nd, 2016 - By Lauren R.D. Fox
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Finally, you get to see how I live Like a Caucasian! Full link in bio.

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Many of us can honestly admit that we cruise the Internet in search of a laugh, a petty post or some combination of both. And when the latter is needed, we usually find ourselves on Joanne The Scammer’s popular Instagram page. The blonde wig-donning, chinchilla-wearing character gives us life as he causally scams people or verbally rips his past lovers a new one with his high sadity “better-than-you” accent.

And while we find Joanne hilarious, it has crossed our mind: Who’s the man behind the laid bob wigs?

Well, The Fader but an end to our curiosity with an in-depth interview with 25-year-old Branden Miller, the creator who plays the beloved internet sensation. During their conversation, Branden opened up about his personal life and, if we’re being honest, he’s way more interesting than Joanne.

Here’s what we learned:

For The Majority Of His Life, Branden Believed He Was White

Adopted by white parents, Branden Miller grew up believing he was Caucasian by default. It wasn’t until he was 17 that a family friend told him he was adopted. Then he learned that his mother was Puerto Rican and his father, Black. Unfortunately, Branden doesn’t know any more information about his parents.

He Used To Be An Adult Film Star

Before the birth of Joanne The Scammer, Branden used to pay his bills by doing adult movies. Once people started to make requests for Joanne to appear at parties and photo shoots, Branden decided to let go of the sex industry.

He Nearly Overdosed On Ecstasy

Two years ago, a friend gave Branden a crystal of ecstasy and because he didn’t want the “unselfconscious high” to end, he kept swallowing more of it until he had a frightening, near-death reaction. Although he survived the incident, Branden suffered from bouts of depression and anxiety afterward.

He’s Not Really A People Person

Branden told The Fader’s Patrick D. McDermott that he finds people to be “really cheesy” and he doesn’t get along with them.

Branden Has Been Scammed In Real Life

This past May, a person posing as a Twitter employee swindled Branden out of his account information, stating that it was needed in order to get him verified. The scammer got his account info but wanted more. After the scammer asked Branden for $500, Branden told the scammer, “I’m busy with wine forgery right now babe. Can we chat later?” This apparently made the scammer upset and all of Branden’s tweets were deleted. After the incident, Branden got his account verified by Twitter.

To read Branden’s entire interview with The Fader, click here.

“Simone Baby Names” Searches Jump 230 Percent In August Thanks To Simone Biles, Manuel

August 19th, 2016 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
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According to NBC News, there are about to be a lot of babies named Simone out here thanks to recent Olympic gold medalists Simone Biles and Simone Manuel.

“Simone baby name” searches have reportedly jumped up by a whopping 230 percent in August alone, this according to Google Trends. It’s the first time since 2010 that there has been such an immense interest in the name. According to People, Simone means “one who hears,” or in the French translation, “to be heard.” And as Laura Wattenberg, the author of Baby Name Wizard told USA Today, “In recent times parents have liked to search for a meaning, or something inspirational in the names they give their children. They want to be able to tell their children a story and not just give them a name that’s nothing more than a collection of letters.”

And as Wattenberg also pointed out, with the multiple films put out recently about Nina Simone (born Eunice Kathleen Waymon), the name makes people think of “a strong African-American woman.”

When asked by the publication what he thought about the idea of complete strangers giving their children the name Simone, Ron Biles said, “It would make me smile.”

And with such noble namesakes, we’re sure that being named Simone would make a lot of people proud. Biles did just win four gold medals and a bronze in Rio, while Manuel took home two gold and two silver. And Nina Simone is, c’mon, she’s Nina Simone. She was a dedicated civil rights activist and acclaimed musician.

Clearly the name has some special power (dare I say Black girl magic?) connected to it that allows those with it to be history-making individuals of amazing talent.

15 Baby Names For Boys And Girls That Mean Wise

July 28th, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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Yes, Mommy, we know the baby naming journey can be challenging. but we are thankful for the many naming guides and resources out there that exist. “The Best Baby Names Treasury: Your Ultimate Naming Resource” is a popular book and we’ve gleaned 15 names from it with the meaning ‘wise.’

The name Monique is a name usually used for girls which mean one who provides wise counsel.

African Baby Names For Each Day Of The Week

July 13th, 2016 - By MommyNoire Editor
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Thinking of a meaningful yet unique name for your new baby can be a difficult task. We love being helpful for the moms-to-be who may need help conjuring up some ideas and ways to get creative for a name. Consider naming your child according to the day of the week they were born? There are a lot of baby names with African origins that you can choose from for each day of the week. Did you know that Kofi is an African name usually used for baby boys which means to be born on a Friday? Click continue to learn more African baby names for each day of the week.


Ekua is an African baby name usually used for baby girls which means to be born on Wednesday.

Kojo is an African baby name usually used for baby boys which means to be born on Monday.

Kwame is an African baby name usually used for baby boys which means to be born on Saturday.


Adwoa is an African baby name usually used for baby girls which means to be born on Monday.

Bosede is an African baby name usually used for baby boys which means to be born on Sunday.


Akosua is an African baby name usually used for baby girls which means to be born on Sunday.

Afua is an African baby name usually used for baby girls which means to be born on Friday.

Top Baby Names of 2016 (So Far)

June 24th, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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Soon-to-be parents everywhere are furiously searching the web for the coolest baby names—some predictable favorites, and some newer picks growing in popularity. Looking for more baby names options? Check out our list of top New York baby names, names that are inspired by spring and summer and the top names of 2015.

2016’s top baby name picks for girls are:

1. Emma

2. Olivia

3. Ava

4. Sophia.

5. Isabella

6. Mia

7. Charlotte

8. Harper

9. Amelia

10. Abigail

2016’s top baby name picks for boys are:

1. Liam

2. Noah

3. Ethan

4. Lucas

5. Mason

6. Oliver

7. Aiden

8. Elijah

9. Logan

10. Benjamin

The Obama Effect: Ethnic Names Are Trending

June 23rd, 2016 - By Clarissa Joan
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Image Source: Pete Souza/White House

Image Source: Pete Souza/White House

Whether you watched the original 1977 miniseries, Roots, or the 2016 remake, you remember when the beaten and bloody Kunta Kinte, a strong Mandinka warrior, finally succumbed to his American slave name, “Toby.” For African Americans, the pressure to assimilate to European culture and to subjugate African American culture is a struggle as old as “The Middle Passage.” What some call “Black Pride” has had sporadic mainstream relevance via Africana movements and organizations like The Black Panther Party, The Move People, and The Nation of Islam.

Now we have The Obama Effect!

A Texas A&M University study published in the Ethnics and Racial Studies journal discovered that post the 2008 election of President Barack Obama, culturally relevant names have been trending amongst African Americans parents.

According to Anderson-Clark and Green, the election of the first African American President was ‘likely to have positively affected the self-perceptions of African Americans regarding personal and collective feelings about being African American’. It would only follow, then, that African American parents might choose to reinforce their pride in their group identity through the names they chose for their children — a process called “basking in reflected glory.”

An article by Science Daily reports:

To find out if this was indeed the case, Anderson-Clark and Green analyzed the names of hundreds of African American babies born both before and after Obama’s election. They also measured their mothers’ personal and collective self-esteem with the help of questionnaires.

While naming a child according to one’s own racial or ethnic pride is a great thing, the Texas A&M researchers remind parents to be wary of the “unintended consequences” of giving their child such unique names.

“The ethnic sound of a child’s name may affect how the child is treated by others, such as teachers,” Anderson-Clark and Green wrote. “In reality then, the issue becomes a balancing act of choosing to affirm one’s racial identity through the expression of names while attempting to avoid the prejudice and discrimination that might be elicited through those names.”

There is a famous quote by Shakespeare that poetically reflects on the power of a name.

“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose. By any other name would smell as sweet.”

Is a Black man named Barack more proud of his ethnicity than a Black man named Michael? In the realm of credibility, is the boy named Joseph a better student than the boy named Nasir? Is there any way to actually prevent discrimination against ethnic names?

The study, “Basking In Reflected Glory: The Election of President Obama and Naming Behaviour,” was able to track a trend in what names parents chose for their children before and after The Obama Effect. It implies that a Black man with an ethnic name in position as the President of The United States of America boosts the confidence of other Black persons to take pride in their heritage. It also refers to the names of the newborns as means of identification and celebration of the African American culture.

What’s in your name? Does it give you pride? How much does your name matter in the scope of your cultural identity? We want to know!


Clarissa Joan is a spiritual life coach and editor-in-chief of The Clarissa Joan Experience, a multi-media inspirational platform. She resides in Philadelphia with her husband, their two girls, and a yorkie named Ace.

Big Apple Baby: Popular Baby Names In New York For Boys And Girls

June 22nd, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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For most moms-to-be the baby-naming-journey can be both exciting yet challenging. Most times, it’s important to select a unique name with meaning and family significance, but it’s not always easy to do so. If you’re looking to be inspired by other mommies or curious about popular baby names in New York, click continue.

Emma – the name Emma is a name used for baby girls which means “whole” or “universal.”

Madison – the name Madison is a name usually used for baby girls which means “daughter of a mighty warrior.”

Ava – the name Ava is usually used for baby girls which means a birdlike woman / from the water.

Leah – the name Leah is usually used for baby girls which means one who is weary; in the Bible, Jacob’s first wife.

ChloeChloe is a name used for baby girls which means a flourishing woman.

Joshua – is a name used for baby boys which means God is Salvation.

David – the name David is usually used for baby boys which means the beloved one.

Justin – the name Justin is usually used for baby boys which means one who is just and upright.

Ryan – the name Ryan is a name usually used for boys which means little ruler; little king.

Matthew – the name Matthew is a name usually used for baby boys which means a gift from God.

17 Spring and Summer Inspired Baby Names For Boys And Girls

April 22nd, 2016 - By Kweli Wright
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As an expectant mommy-to-be searching for the perfect baby name could be tricky. But no worries, there are many creative ways to get unique ideas for a baby name. If you’re like us and you love the spring and summer seasons, perhaps this time of the year could be your number one source for inspiration. We looked to the Baby Names Treasury for spring and summer inspired baby names and we love what we found.




Maia is a popular baby name for girls which means the great one. In mythology; the goddess of spring/a brave warrior.



Season is a unique baby name which means a fertile woman; one who embraces change.



June means one who is youthful and born during the month of June.



Kelby is such a cute name for a baby boy which means from the farm near the spring.


Leland is a unique name for a baby boy which means from the meadowland.



Mayer is a name usually used for baby boys which means a large man/ farmer / one who is shining bright.


Eartha is a name used for baby girls which means woman of the earth.



Lily is a name for a baby girl which means, resembling the flower; one who is innocent and beautiful.



Rose is a popular baby name which means resembling the beautiful and meaningful flower.


Meadow is a name used for girls which means from the beautiful field.