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Meet The Black Men: Chef Ron Leger

May 1st, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Ask A Black Man

Episode: Sex

Occupation: Private Chef

Twitter: ChefLeger

IG: Chef_leger

Relationship Status: In a Relationship

Chidren: 1

My definition of a man: A man is someone who can let go of his ego, be confident, take care of home and responsibilities and is not scared to face fear.

Good sex is… when you both get off together.

The one thing I know to be true about women: Make them happy because if they’re not, the house aint happy.

Three things every relationship should have are loyalty, honesty, and respect

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to make my woman happy; happy wife happy home

Any woman I’m involved with must connect with me, not only on a physical level but also spirtual.

Sext/Text/Call? Call, Im old school

I want my legacy to be…that I was great man and a great father to my son.

 

Meet The Black Men: Murad Ferguson

April 30th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Occupation: Graphic Artist/Entrepreneur

Twitter: @CrookBladez

IG: @CrookBladez

Relationship Status: Single

Children: Three daughters

My definition of a man: One who protects, provides and leads. One who handles his responsibilities and gives his all. One who honors his word.

Good sex is… Euphoric and addictive.

The one thing I know to be true about women: They are beautiful when they allow themselves to be.

Three things every relationship should have are love, loyalty, and communication.

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to: To keep my woman happy at all times. To support her and protect her. Give her toe-curling orgasmic sex.

Any woman I’m involved with must: Be loyal and able to communicate about anything. A lady in the street a freak in the sheets. Adventurous and ambitious.

Sext/Text/Call? Call – talking is so much better but I dont mind texting or sexting.

I want my legacy to be… I want to positively affect the world somehow. I want to be known for being an entrepreneurial genius and a philanthropist

 

True Or False? Men Control Sex, Women Control Relationships

April 29th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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In this bonus Ask A Black Man clip, we decided to play a quick game of true or false with the fellas of the sex segment and throw out a few of the suspect statements they made in their casting interviews to the group. Here’s what we asked:

1. True or False? Just because a man isn’t sleeping with you doesn’t mean he’s not sleeping with someone else.

2. True or False? When it comes to dating, men control the sex; women control the relationship.

Watch the video above to see their answers and weigh in with your own thoughts in the comments section.

For all footage from season 2 of Ask a Black Man, click here.

Meet The Black Men: Chase Smith

April 29th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Meet The Black Men: Chase Smith

Ask A Black Man

Occupation: Comedian / Actor / Radio Personality

Twitter: @chase_comedian

IG: @chase_comedian

Relationship Status: Single

Children: 3

My definition of a man: Someone who provides, teaches, protects and create structure for himself, his family and his community.

Good sex is… the answer to all relationship problems and the cause of all relationship problems (lol). Good sex is something that can be both emotional and physical, based on the male/female expectations. In my my opinion, good sex creates kids, good compatibility creates relationships.

The one thing I know to be true about women: They are emotional creatures. They love hard and their truths are based on their expectations.

Three things every relationship should have are… Spontaneity, trust, and communication

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to be a provider, comforter, friend and be consistent; to understand and accept differences and put the woman first (or make her feel as if she’s first).

Any woman I’m involved with must be understanding, trustworthy and believe in me and my abilities to achieve in life.

Sext/Text/Call? I think my passive ways push me to be more text-based than anything. I’m working on it though.

I want my legacy to be… known as a “Man’s Man;” someone who’s kind, caring, compassionate and always looking to create positivity and growth. Someone who’s committed to greatness, not only in myself, but to inspire those around me.

Meet The Black Men: Chris Parnell

April 28th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Chris Parnell

Ask A Black Man

Occupation: Advertising Professional

Twitter Handle: @ChrisParnell_

IG Handle: @ChrisParnell_

Relationship Status: In a Relationship

Children: None

My definition of a man: Chris Parnell

Good sex is: 1 minute and 6 seconds

The one thing I know to be true about women: She’s always right

Three things every relationship should have are sex, compatibility, and communication

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to: Provide and Protect

Any woman I’m involved with must have morals and values

I want my legacy to be… I’m too young to know right now

 

Meet The Black Men: Darik Bernard

April 27th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Darik Bernard

Ask A Black Man

Episode: Sex

Occupation: Actor/Writer

Twitter: @darikbernard

IG: @iamdarikbernard

Relationship Status: Married

Children: One

My definition of a man: A guy who understands how to separate his wants from his needs, Someone who can lead but knows when and how to humble himself to follow. Someone who takes care of his responsibilities. A man is aware of himself and the power/strength he possesses. A man knows when, where, and how to use said power/strength. A man never grows tired of learning and growing because with each new revelation, he adds another weapon in the arsenal of his manhood.

Good sex is… ADDICTIVE! It can take you on a psychedelic trip that is better than any chemical high could ever produce. I believe good sex is the first drug known to man. Good sex will have you doing things that are so unorthodox you don’t recognize yourself at times. Good sex can cure any arguments, fights, or misunderstanding (sometimes,lol!) Good sex even transcends the word “good” because we us a generic word such as “good” to downplay it so nobody can take away!

Good sex can put a pause on all the bullsh!t you may have going on in your life. When you lock all the doors, close the blinds and turn out all the lights good sex becomes an escape! The cheapest getaway you can find is good sex!!!

The one thing I know to be true about women: They are the best thing to happen to men and we would be lost without them!

Three things every relationship should have are fun, good communication, and trust.

My job as a husband is to be the best other half I can be. To lead/guide us in the way that God would approve. To try to always keep us on task and help us move forward to fulfilling all the goals/dreams we talked about! To love you when you feel the world doesn’t, to tell you that you’rr beautiful even when you don’t always feel it. My job is to cover you when you’re feeling delicate and support you when you’re strong.

Any woman I’m involved with must be loving, ambitious, creative, understanding, trust-worthy, selfless, nurturing, soft, FREAKY, discreet, down to earth, passionate, wise, and BEAUTIFUL (to me!)

Sext/Text/Call? ALL OF THE ABOVE PLEASE!!!!

I want my legacy to be… a creative one. As an artist I want to produce work with my acting and tv/film making, that even when I’m gone people will still enjoy and find some way to apply it to their everyday lives. I want it to be a legacy filled with triumphs and celebrations! I want to leave behind things that will make my great great grandchildren proud. To paraphase my fellow Gemini brother Tupac, “I’m not saying I’m gonna change the word but I want to be the spark in someone’s brain that will!”

Ask A Black Man Episode 3: Sex (Performance Anxiety, Fellatio, And Hitting It From The Back)

April 27th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Warning: This episode is anything but safe for work.

If you ever wanted to know how men really feel about us in bed, you will find all the answers right here. From critiques on not knowing how to stay in the moment to how — and why — they love hitting it from the back, we found out some very interesting things about Black men and their bedroom behaviors in this third episode of Ask a Black Man. There’s also the fact that fellas tend to feel more anxiety about putting it down when it comes to us as opposed to sisters on the other end of the color spectrum, if you know what we mean, despite the fact that they claim we have too many sexual hangups. Hmmmm. We don’t want to taint your opinion too much so watch and weigh in for yourself — and share with your girlfriends!

For all footage from season 2 of Ask a Black Man click here.

Meet The Black Men: Darren Thom

April 26th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Occupation: Former cable technician

IG: Kuya_D

Relationship Status: In a serious relationship

Children: None

My definition of a man: “A real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection” — Thomas Paine

The one thing I know to be true about women: Once they’ve been hurt they have a huge wall up.

Three things every relationship should have are Trust, respect,and stability.

My job as a boyfriend/husband is to: Love my woman and always do my best to show her love, support, and keep her safe through all obstacles.

Any woman I’m involved with must be strong, passionate, and spiritual.

Sext/Text/Call? Call. I’m old school and enjoy phone convos way more than text

On a first date, I pay/she pays/we go dutch: I pay

When dating, I approach first/wait for her to approach me: I approach first

I want my legacy to be… the gratitude I have experienced in my life with all those who I’ve encountered. All negative and positive influences have enriched my life and I want that to be an example that lives on even when I’m no longer around.

Meet The Black Men: Alvin Blanco

April 24th, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Ask A Black Man

Occupation: Writer/Editor/Sneaker Connoisseur

Twitter: @aqua174

IG: @alvinblanco

Relationship Status: Married

Children: None yet.

My definition of a man: A man is dependable and his word is his bond. And he has a job.

The one thing I know to be true about women: They are all crazy. There are just different levels to the crazy.

Three things every relationship should have are trust, caring and comedy.

My job as husband is to hold my wife down, period. Obviously, I mean that figuratively and not literally.

Any woman I’m involved with must Be me wife. Also, a beautiful human being on all levels.

Sext/Text/Call? Call

On a first date, I pay/she pays/we go dutch Dutch. This ain’t a charity.

When dating, I approach first/wait for her to approach me Depended on the circumstances.

I want my legacy to be… He lived, he loved, he avoided the struggle.

Meet The Black Men: Benjamin Johnson

April 23rd, 2015 - By Madame Noire
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Ask A Black Man

Episode: Dating

Occupation: International DJ/Host Of @FanBrosShow/Children’s Book Author/Renaissance Man

Twitter: @DJBenhameen

IG: @DJBenhameen

Relationship Status: Happy

Children: None

My definition of a man: A man is someone who is true to his word.

The one thing I know to be true about women: They are the greatest thing in the world.

Three things every relationship should have are Honesty, Trust, Good Sex.

My job as a boyfriend/husband is not very easily defined. Includes lots of overtime.

Any woman I’m involved with must: Be Amazing.

Sext/Text/Call? All of the above.

On a first date, I pay/she pays/we go dutch: Dutch but I’ve been known to bend. A lot.

When dating, I approach first/wait for her to approach me: Approach first but I play shy.

I want my legacy to be… Love. For life for everything. I just hope people remember to love and smile more often.