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10 Celebrities With Adoptive Parents

May 9th, 2014 - By Zainab Karim
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Not being born into a loving or financially stable family is a reality no child should have to experience, but thankfuly there are families out there willing to take a child in and show them unconditional love. Adoptive parents have taken the in many a child and given them a foundation that will carry them through life. These celebrities were raised by adoptive parents that gave them love, encouragement and a place to call home.

Kristin Chenoweth

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Kristin Chenoweth was adopted soon after she was born in July 1968 in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. She shared with Rosie O’Donnell her fear of finding her birth mother, “I was afraid that someone might come forward and that it either wouldn’t be true because it was a closed adoption, or it would be a door that I wanted to shut and couldn’t.” Being a Tony Award winning actress and singer, she does however want to know where she got her distinctive voice.

Hmm… V. Stiviano Is A New Foster Mother

May 7th, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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AP Photo/Danny Moloshok

V. Stiviano is…a character. I can’t lie after watching snippets of her interview with Barbara Walters, where she denied being his mistress, but claimed he called her his “silly rabbit,” I find her odd… to say the least. But apparently, someone at the L.A. County Department of Children and Family Services thinks she’s a suitable foster mother.

The agency agreed that Stiviano could serve as the temporary guardian for two boys, 12 and 14. A social worker signed off on the guardianship after visiting the $1.8 million home Clippers owner, Donald Sterling bought for her last year. The social worker’s visit, ironically came hours before the Barbara Walters interview, where she also denied that Sterling was a racist.

Stiviano’s lawyer, Mac Nehoray said the approval happened “in the middle of all the craziness.” He also noted that the reports that the boys are African American is false. One boy is of “Cambodian Mexican descent and one is of Mexican and Native American descent.”

I won’t say too much on this because when people, with good intentions, take children into their home it can be a beautiful thing, I just sincerely hope that she treats these boys well, that they find a good home with her and she allows them to live a normal life, not plagued by her newfound fame.

What do you think about V. Stiviano the foster mother?

Twitter Helps Adopted Iowa Teen Find Birth Mother

April 22nd, 2014 - By Madame Noire
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From The Grio 

A 19-year-old Iowa woman is meeting her birth mother for the first time thanks to a photo she posted online.

Hannah Stouffer of Urbandale posted a photo asking for information on her birth mother earlier this week.

Three days and 53,000 re-tweets later, she got a hold of her mother. It turns out her mother still lives in Des Moines. They’ve been texting back and forth for days.

Stouffer says she needed some time to prepare for meeting her mother in person.

“’I’m as ready as I’m going to be. I’m nervous. I`m scared. Every time I think about it I just want to cry. I just can`t believe it`s happening already. I’ve waited so long and it`s finally happening,” Stouffer says.

Growing up all Stouffer knew about her birth mother was that she gave birth to Stouffer when she was 15-years-old. “I was just so angry that she would give me up.”

It wasn’t until Stouffer became a teenage mother herself that she had a better understanding of what her mother went through. “As soon as I got pregnant I knew how hard it was. I knew that decision wasn’t easy and I knew she did it with love.”

Stouffer kept her daughter and shares her story with other teen moms. Stouffer plans on meeting up with her mother Saturday afternoon at a coffee shop.

Read more about this reunion at TheGrio.com 

Family Flow: 15 Celebrities Who Adopted Children

March 22nd, 2014 - By Rich
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I personally think that one of the most selfless things that someone can do is adopt another child. It’s part maternal/paternal instinct and another part philanthropy. No child can help the circumstances that created them, but they are here. Many times parents know that they cannot care for the child in the manner that they deserve and make a decision that they feel is best for the child and give them to someone who can do so.

Celebrities have been adopting children for some time. Check out the celebrities who adopted, opening their hearts (and wallets) to become parents to children that were not biologically their own.

Family Flow: 15 Celebrities Who Adopted Children

Mommy Mash Up: On “Raising Whitley” Kym Discovers Her Guardian Angel

February 28th, 2014 - By Kweli Wright
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Get your tissues ready…

If you’ve never watched Kym Whitley’s show on OWN, “Raising Whitley,” this clip will have you going back to the first episode just to soak up all the heart-touching (and funny and relatable) moments you may have missed.

Just to catch you up, when single mom Kym adopted her son, Joshua, she wasn’t alone. Her group of friends, or as she calls them “The Village,” stepped up to help her, especially Rodney, who became Joshua’s father figure.

After a blowout fight with Rodney, Kym has a talk with Joshua to explain why Rodney won’t be around as much.

“You have so many people that love you,” Kym says in the above clip from the episode. She continues to rattle off the names and then Joshua adds another surprising name to the list. “And KK,” he says.

You can just see Kym’s world being rocked. KK is Kym’s mother, who passed away. “KK was my mother’s nickname,” Kym reveals. “I don’t use my mother’s nickname around Joshua, I never have.”

“How do you even know that name? Do you know KK?” Kym asks.

Joshua nods: “She’s up in the air. You can’t see her.”

Can you take it!? It’s funny how sometimes our little ones know so much more than we give them credit for possessing. In those little bodies are new hearts and minds, but if we pay close attention, it’s like they’ve been here before…and that everything is going to be alright.

Kym is shocked. “I’ve always heard of situations like this, but I’ve never experienced it,” she says. “It feels good to know, after this tough week, that Joshua has a guardian angel — and her name is KK.”

“Raising Whitley” airs Saturdays at 9 p.m. ET on OWN.

Have you ever felt the spirit of a guardian angel? Has your child?

“Newborn Baby? That’ll Be $30,000 Please!”: The Bank-Breaking Business Of Adoption

February 21st, 2014 - By Kimberly Gedeon
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The notion of adopting a child truly tugs at our heartstrings, but let’s keep it real: the twist and turns that precede a successful adoption can be a nightmare! And to top it all off, your bank account will look damn-near empty after the process.

“I would like to adopt, but can’t afford the agency fees. It’s soooooo expensive.” a MadameNoire reader recently commented. She’s right. Between the legal fees, medical costs, travel expenses and possible failed adoption matches, this method of bringing a child into your family costs Americans between $10,000 to $40,000! But compare that to the average cost of a natural birth — $30,000 — and it isn’t too harrowing.

Now since there are several different methods to acquiring an adopted bundle of joy, let’s break down the numbers for each, shall we?

International Adoption

Maybe you’ll want to extend your motherly love to a precious child overseas?  The latest figures show international adoption has plummeted to only 20,000 children from 45,000 in 2004. Despite the drop, international adoption costs have climbed —  adoptive parents have put down as much as $50,000!

The price tag varies depending on which country you choose. One adoption agency — Bethany Christian Services — give us a pretty good picture of how much you’ll spend for international adoption. Taking in a Haitian child, for instance, will set you back between $35,149 and $42,129. What does this include?

Agency fees (paid to the social workers, the home study fees, and more) — $ 12,950

Country fees (funds the nation’s orphanage system) — between $13,810 and $ 14,650

“Third-party fees” (whatever that is) $ 2,864 — $ 3,404

Travel fees (don’t forget important documents like medical exams, proof of marriage, financial statements etc.) —  $ 4,825 — $ 10,125

Post-adoption fees  (agency needs to keep an eye on you as a caregiver) — $ 700 — $ 1,000.

The great thing about adopting internationally is that you don’t have to cover an expectant mother’s expenses or worry about her changing her mind. The downside? All that travelling can be a pain in the rear; be willing to visit the host country twice. Also, tough luck if you want a newborn! In most countries, children are orphaned and older before they’re permitted to be sent overseas, GlobalPost reports.

For a newborn, perhaps you’ll consider domestic adoption?

Domestic Adoption

Newborn American baby? That’ll be $33,793, please! This average figure can climb or drop even depending on the child’s race. According to NPR, a Caucasian baby costs $35,000, a bi-racial baby costs between $24,000 and $26,000 and a Black baby can cost about $18,000. But where, according to Adoptive Families, does all the money go?

Home study Fee (agency determines if you’re fit for parenthood through interviews, background checks and references) — $1,912

Agency application & program fee (y’know, adoption centers got bills to pay & profits to make) —  $14,161

Attorney fees (with all the legal mumbo jumbo, you might need one) — $3,548

Document preparation/Authorization — $1,114

Advertising (agencies need to retain their relationships with hospitals/clinics to find mothers willing to give up their child) — $2,017

Birth family counseling (sometimes offered to birth mothers for free, at your expense) — $1,085

Birth mother expenses (OB-Gyn, hospital stay, etc. One article calls this expense a “fraud” because taxpayers pay this fee, not you) — $3,076

Travel expenses (varies depending how far or near the birth mother is) — $2,198

All other expenses — $4,682

Whew! That’s a lot, but the good thing is that there’s a shorter wait time compared to international adoption and certainly less traveling. However, adoptive parents run the risk of the dreaded “false start” — expectant mothers fall in love with their baby and refuse to give it up. Thirty-five percent of adoptive parents have experienced this and lose out on an average of $5,000.

Foster Home

If you’re willing to forgo the fantasy of raising a child from birth, adopting from a foster home is the cheapest option — a relatively low price tag of only $2,744. As reported by Adoptive Families, let me give you a full picture of the expenses:

Home study fee – $231

Attorney fees – $1,573

Travel expenses – $342

Other expenses – $598

You pay absolutely nothing for agency fees, document preparation, advertising, and birth mother expenses. In fact, foster homes will give you a monthly stipend for food, medical insurance, school supplies, and clothes. On average, adoptive parents receive $607 a month. The downside is that many of the toddlers have developmental delays. “There’s usually a long line of potential parents waiting for an infant in good health,” ABC News says.

Surrogacy

For women who cannot or choose not to give birth to children, another woman can carry and delivery the baby for them, which is what Melissa Harris-Perry did to add a baby girl to her family. If you thought domestic and international adoption was expensive, you’ll be shocked to hear that gestational surrogacy costs a whopping $80,000 to $100,000! Where did we come up with that number? Here’s the breakdown:

In vitro fertilization transfer fee – $1,000 

Cycling process – $400

Pregnancy allowance (8 months at $200 per month) – $1,600 

Maternity clothing allowance – $500

Life insurance – $500-$600

Health insurance – $1,000 – $25,000

Meeting allowance (5 meetings at $100 per meeting) – $500

Childcare – $1,200 

Housekeeping – $400

Surrogate’s lost wages –$2,500

Travel to IVF doctor –$1,000

Program fee – $22,500

Attorney/court fees – $10,250 – $16,760

If you can supply your own egg, a baby of your own genetic line will be born. The downsides are obviously the costs and the surrogate can, again, change her mind and keep the baby.

Parents who choose any of these methods must be prepared mentally for the unforeseen circumstances can take you on an emotional roller coaster as well as the fiscal challenges that come up.

But you know what? It’s all worth it in the end when you have your new angel-faced tyke to call your “son” or “daughter.”

Congratulations! Melissa Harris Perry And Husband Adopt A Baby Girl

February 17th, 2014 - By Veronica Wells
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While many of us were celebrating or lamenting our Valentine’s Day gifts–or lack thereof– MSNBC host Melissa Harris Perry and her husband, James Perry, received a different kind of gift. They welcomed a new daughter into the world. What better way to celebrate a day devoted to love?

The couple’s adopted daughter was born on February 14 and her new parents are thrilled. The Perrys, who have been married since 2010 and co-parent Melissa’s daughter Parker from a previous relationship, tweeted about their new bundle.

Melissa shared this picture:

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And her husband shared the image above and captioned it:

Here’s the wonderful Valentine’s day gift that @MHarrisPerry & I received yesterday! A beautiful baby girl.

So precious!

The Perrys join a short-ish list of black celebrities who’ve adopted including Al Roker and Deborah Roberts, Magic and Cookie Johnson, Alfre Woodard and her husband Roderick Spencer, Viola Davis and husband Julius Tennon and “Scandal” and “Greys Anatomy” creator and writer Shonda Rhimes, who has adopted twice.

Melissa also twit-pic-ed this image early this morning of her fourth day with her new daughter.

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Congratulations to Melissa Harris Perry and her newly expanded family!

 

They Found Love In A Better Place: Celebrities Who Were Adopted

January 14th, 2014 - By Ashley Page
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We’ve all heard and read about the number of celebrities who have adopted their children from across the United States and beyond, including Viola Davis, Sandra Bullock, Angelina Jolie, and Charlize Theron, but what about celebrities who themselves were adopted? Here are 14 celebrities who were adopted and have gone on to find plenty of success and love.

Davion Only, 15-Year-Old Who Made Plea To Be Adopted, Will Spend Christmas With Prospective Foster Family

December 13th, 2013 - By Victoria Uwumarogie
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We told you in October about 15-year-old Davion Only. The young man had been in the foster care system his entire life, born while his mother (who had abused drugs for years) was in jail. He was most recently residing in a group home for teenage boys with 12 other young men. He was a frustrated youth for a time, short-tempered and getting bad grades. He also was reportedly packing on the pounds. But things in Only’s life changed big time after he learned about his birth mother. After making a search for her and finding out that she had actually passed on weeks before he sought her out, Only cleaned up his act, lost weight, and worked on his grades. He also pushed his search for a family in high gear and made a plea at a local church in St. Petersburg, Fl. for someone to adopt him, saying:

“My name is Davion and I’ve been in foster care since I was born… I know God hasn’t given up on me. So I’m not giving up either. I’ll take anyone. Old or young, dad or mom, black, white, purple. I don’t care. And I would be really appreciative. The best I could be.”

And that’s where we met the young man. Well good news! According to the Daily Mail, Only is now staying with his new prospective adoptive family for the holidays so he can get to know them better before he’s permanently adopted. This was reportedly confirmed by Eckerd, the adoption agency working with the teen, as a spokesperson told the Mail the following:

“Davion has moved from his group home placement at Carlton Manor to a foster home where he is enjoying getting to know the family. Davion is excited to be spending the holidays with a perspective adoptive family.”

This was also confirmed by Only’s biological aunt, Doris Barnes, who is the sister of his late mother. As a reminder, family members did inquire about adopting him, but past criminal records and other issues blocked the ability for some of them to take him in. They met Only a few months before he spoke out at the church about his search to find a family.

“I know he is going out of town with a family for Christmas. I wanted to buy him a present and maybe see him, but I can’t because he’s not going to be around.

I just want him to be happy and loved and to be with someone who is going to do the best for his future.”

And it looks like he’s getting the chance to have that. This is an amazing thing, considering that after his search for a “forever family” hit the media, families from around the world, including Australia, Great Britain and more contacted his agency about his case. Hopefully the permanent adoption will happen very soon and Only can spend many more holidays with a family that will love, be there for him, and be good to him.

The Wedding Bells Are Ringing: La Toya Jackson Married In A Secret Ceremony

December 7th, 2013 - By Drenna Armstrong
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Well would you look at that!  After discussing that she’s ready to find love and settle down again, the word on the e-streets is that La Toya Jackson married her long time business partner/friend/whatever he is to her, Jeffre Phillips.

According to RadarOnline, Jackson and Phillips were married in a ceremony in Los Angeles on Friday afternoon.  The couple were joined by Jackson’s mom Katherine as well as one of her nephews.  It sounds like they could have been two of the witnesses.

On La Toya’s show on OWN, Life With La Toya, Phillips made a bold move an proposed to her on the show after he was tired of seeing her being “wooed” by other men.  It seemed a little odd but many of her friends considered them to be in some sort of situation because he was always around and always seemed to have a say in how she acts in her relationships.

One can only wonder if the couple will now take the idea of adoption more seriously.  Jackson said many times on her show that she had a desire to have her own family by adopting a child.  There’s not much information about Phillips but if he has children, it’s highly likely that they are adults.

We haven’t heard any official word from La Toya or Jeffre but this sounds like pretty solid information.

Congratulations to the happy couple!