Author Archives: Kendia

How I Learned That You Can’t Judge Your New Man Based On The Mistakes Made By Your Ex-Man

My ex was a cheater, but I’m not going to take away trust from all men in the future unless they give me reason to.

Is It Weird That At 31, I’m Not Worried About Marriage Or Having Children Anytime Soon?

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to get married and having children, there’s nothing wrong with setting a timeline for yourself, but sometimes you have to fall back and let life happen.

Love Lost: How Do You Deal When You’ve Fallen Out Of Love With Your Career?

This love wasn’t beating me down, this love wasn’t cursing me out, but I wasn’t in love anymore. My once exciting career that I’d spent eight years on had officially burned me out.

When You’re Taught To Hide Your Feelings, How Do You Open Up In a Relationship?

I’ve gone out of my way to make others comfortable by not expressing my feelings, and with the exception of work, I have nothing to show for it, personally.

The Point Of No Return: Why Do My Exes Keep Coming Back?

How do I avoid ex week 2013?

One is the Loveliest Number: Why Being Single Isn’t So Bad After All

The single stage might just be the time you need.

Looking For Trouble: The Day I Hurt Myself By Snooping on My Man…

Why my first time snooping will be my last.

Break Up to Make Up: Why Is It So Hard To Leave and NOT Go Back?

Have you ever hooked up with an ex from a long-term relationship, but you knew they were no good for you?

Allow Me To Vent: Why I Can’t Take The Black Salon Culture

If I make an appointment for 10am, shouldn’t your doors should be open at 10am? and other questions…

The Frazzled Day When My New Man Almost Met My Ex Man

It was supposed to be a day that my new boyfriend met my family; instead, it was a day that I was forced to confront the role of an ex-boyfriend.