Author Archives: Erica R. Williams

About Those #RelationshipGoals: Are You Too Fascinated With Other People’s Relationships?

Are your expectations for a relationship based on what other people are doing?

Settling For A Situationship: Why I Spent Two Years Of My Life With An In-The-Meantime Man

I have a habit of keeping some people around longer than I should.

When A Woman Initiates A Sexual Relationship: Is It Still Taboo?

in an era where women are adopting more feminist values and overtly asserting their sexuality on public platforms (think Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé), is it taboo for a woman to tell a man that she just wants him for his goods?

When Your Friends Are Boring, Do You Need To Find New Ones?

My friends and I are now 30 and older, and very busy. When we do get together, they don’t want to do very much anymore.

Why Being Forced To Start Over Was One Of The Best Things That Happened To Me

I couldn’t keep replaying who I was or what I did in my head. Instead, I had to begin creating new situations and opportunities.

How I Realized It Wasn’t My Job That Was The Problem…It Was Me

I realized that most times we need to change our attitude and not our jobs for us to excel.

In Life And Love, Is It True That You Attract What You Fear? It Was For Me.

The idea of attracting what I was scared of sounded ridiculous to me, until I heard more.

I Like You But Not Your Financial Situation: Why Being Financially Compatible Is Important

Understanding his views surrounding money is important WAY before you begin combining incomes.

If The Sex Is Bad, Is It A Deal Breaker?

If a man doesn’t know how to please you in bed, is it a deal breaker that can result in your withdrawal from the relationship?

I Thought I’d Found A Husband–Until I Realized We Were Better Off As Friends

How do you know when what you have shouldn’t go any further than the friend zone?