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Let’s Talk About (Married) Sex After Celibacy

What I wish I’d known sooner is that the horror stories of marriage after celibacy are meant to frighten people and not based in reality at all.

Pretty Girls Need Not Apply: Why I Would Never Hire An Attractive Nanny

It’s not that I don’t trust my husband because I definitely do, but I wouldn’t put our marriage in that predicament.

Stuff You Almost Never See: Black Women On The Cover Of Fitness Magazines. But Why?

These publications already have diverse readership and it’s about time their pages reflected that.

Don’t Believe The Lie! Men Want to Get Married Too

If men don’t want to get married then who is the handsome guy in the tux standing next to me at the altar in my wedding photos?

Doesn’t Being An Adult Mean Your Parents Are No Longer The Boss Of You?

There is a difference between obeying your parents commands and honoring their opinion.

Til Income Disparity Do Us Part? It’s Really Okay To Marry A Guy Who Makes Less Money Than You

Instead of looking at someone’s pay stub to determine if he is eligible for a lifetime commitment, it’s better to look at those things about him that won’t change should his company fire him tomorrow.

Where’s The Dislike Button? Why I Don’t Support Children Using Facebook

Crammed in with my fear of him being the victim of an attempted crime or be traumatized for life by soft Adult Videos, is my fear that he won’t excel in life because he’s being denied basic technology as a child.

What’s In A Name? The Dating Dealbreaker I Decided To Move Past

I considered my reason for not giving this man a chance and decided it wasn’t worth potentially passing up the love of my life.

Do You Rely On Your Man To Stroke Your Ego?

As great as it is to hear your man shower you with praise on a regular basis, relying on him to build or maintain your confidence is dangerous.

Case Of The Ex: Should You Tell Your Friend What Her Old Boyfriend Is Up To?

This is when friendships can get tricky.