He Cheated..Now What? Learn How To Move On After Betrayal

December 3, 2011 ‐ By Kschlicher

"dealing with a cheater"

Being cheated on is one of the most terrifying and painful experiences you can have in a relationship.  Feelings of doubt and extremely low self-esteem can surface, along with anger, confusion, sadness, and overall depression.  Being cheated on can make a woman question themselves and look inward, when the real healing comes from realizing and accepting that it was their man’s choice that ruined the trust and has nothing to do with them.  Feeling blame can be a harmful and counterproductive feeling when trying to heal.

Take a look at these 7 steps that might help you through this tough time…

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  • plagiarism

    a lot of this is stolen from a dr. phil article..

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  • Samantha

    This article is completely plagiarized off of Dr. Phil’s website. You didn’t even try to put some of these things into your own words.

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  • Great information! I’ve been looking for something like this for a while now. Thanks!

  • Mia

    Like I said before. After cheating a relationship is pretty much a wrap because things will never be the same. I’ve heard some couples say that it can make a relationship stronger but I honestly think those couple are just putting up a front. Most couples have a false recovery by throwing the third party (the mistress,other man) under the bus! Most cheaters when they find out that their spouse will forgive them just up the stakes for their next affair. If a person can CHEAT ON YOU, leave! Its not worth the headache and they obviously don’t give a damn about you.

  • Mia

    I swear that cheating pic never gets old! lol, Brother was about to get it cracking with an ugly white woman! lol

  • Tracy

    The best way to get over a guy cheating on you is to find another. Nothing beats old d–k than new d–k!

  • Sorry. I cant deal with cheating. I leave as soon as there is concrete evidence or a confession. Putting up with it would be like a doormat 

  • Getit!

    If he keeps cheating he will need continuous healing. If he’s a cheat why would you continuously put up with it?

  • IllyPhilly

    D@mn how many of these can y’all write about!?

    • Sugar_Spice

      I was thinking the exact same thing

    • Girliusmaximus

      Lol. I guess we’re going to have to write some.