Caught Cheating? How to Move Forward After Being Unfaithful

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5.  It’s not about you

Ask yourself, what are you doing to help your partner get past the affair?  Be mature enough to recognize that life is not always all about you and what feels good for you in the moment. If you are married and have children, you have an obligation and a commitment that exceeds what feels good. You must do whatever it takes until your partner finds emotional closure. Additionally, acknowledge how much you hurt your man, how difficult it must be for them to get over the pain, and vow to do whatever necessary to make things better…forever. Acknowledging the degree of pain you put your spouse or boyfriend through, and expressing appreciation for another chance, gives him the impression that you not only are mindful of their pain, but you will be less likely to make such awful choices again in the future.

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