Do You Wear the Pants? 7 Signs That Say Yes!

7. He asks for permission

If your man constantly confides in you about where he should go to meet up with buddies, or what he should do with a free afternoon, you might be wearing the pants more often than you think.  Men are typically independent and confident in making their own decisions.  When this power is passed to you, it indicates that your man actually values your opinion more than his, and needs you to help him.  It’s a vulnerable move to ask for help or suggestions, and most men are very opposed to it. (Have you ever seen a man ask for directions?).  If you are open to dictating his life and explaining his every move to him, then go for it!  But if this kind of behavior grows tiresome and you want an independent dude, try to build up his confidence and approve any ideas he comes up with on his own.  It might be time to ween your man off of you and watch him fly on his own. Whoever wears the pants, what is most important is the love between you — and if you are comfortable in the leading role. Are you?

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