Ask the Luv Coach: “He is Not Interested in Sex With Me Anymore”

November 14th, 2011 - By Alexis Garrett Stodghill

Black Love & Relationship Advice

This week on the Luv Coach on Madame Noire, Rebecca Brody helps a reader find herself again. Read on and weigh in.

Dear Luv Coach,

I have been married a little over a year to this man who I love deeply. The problem is that he is not interested in sex with me anymore since he came back from downrange. He doesn’t want to get help and he thinks everything is OK. I have done and changed any and everything he asked of me to maybe get him to want me, but now I have lost myself. I do not know where to begin to find ME because I am afraid that it will turn him away even more. What do I do?

-Candice

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  • Cspiercey626

    thank you so much for this.

  • http://kiki072895.tripod.com/blog BrooklynShoeBabe

    I think this wife might want to start seeing a therapist that deals with military spouses, because her husband might be suffering from some type of PTSD or depression and it is killing his sex drive. I’m wondering if he has lost interest in anything else he used to love. However, you’re right on point, should stop blaming herself and trying to change herself. Her husband is probably saying it is something to do with her as a deflection.