6 Lies Women Tell To Make A Man Like Them

November 14, 2011 ‐ By Julia Austin

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The most common reason anyone will give you if asked why their relationship didn’t work out is that the other person changed. What is the most common way a man changes? It turns out he is not as sensitive has he played himself off to be in the beginning. What is the most common way a woman changes? It turns out she is a lot more sensitive than she played herself off to be. And suddenly, you have two people who pretended for a while to meet at a middle ground—at a this is exactly how sensitive I am ground. But you begin to drift away from that middle ground, in opposite directions, when you both realize you are not satisfied. You are not getting what you want. And you get a breakup. Here’s what women say to seem less sensitive in the beginning (even though it all falls apart in the end):

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  • http://twitter.com/1aintscared Mango Mozzarella

    OMG Nelly look so good. im going to TAKE him from Ashanti!!!! haha. sooo serious tho.

  • dondiva

    Yo, who wrote this bullsh*t?

  • Marsha S C

    I find this to be pretty much accurate. In hearing what my male best friend tells me and from experience of my girlfriends tell me, this article hit it on the nose. Funny, but true!

  • Girliusmaximus

    F’d up. If you have to tell a guy lies like this to get/keep his attention, 2 things are going to come of this. Either you will get with the guy but then be busted for lying later on when the real you comes out, or you will get a guy who is also lying and on some BS because you misrepresented yourself. Adults don’t need to lie, this sounds like some childish high school sh*t in my opinion. Why would you put all the effort into keeping a ruse when you could be using it to find the guy that is going to accept you for who you are? Questing, questing, questing, never resting….

  • IllyPhilly

    This is all true for me. I don’t lie when I say these things. Now if ya had “but I don’t usually” on this list then…

  • YokoDMV

    I guess…. I would say the biggest lie I hear most women act like they don’t want a relationship or are cool with situations that aren’t committed and don’t mean it


  • Business406

    Whoever wrote this ridiculous article is most likely a bitter male. It’s nothing more comical than when people take their bad experiences and try to generalize it for everyone. Im lucky to have my man, he accepts me for nor being sensitive and needing space. And yes I do have a crazy ex! What beautiful woman doesn’t?

  • JustSaying

    So this is probably why when I’m in a relationship dudes actually are the ones changing up because I’m being honest about what I want from the jump! They expect me to slide back on my rules. 2. Personal Space, Naw Boo Thang U put it down *clap it up* now take yo behind home. This ain’t love jones, You are not Larenz Tate… boo boo, I don’t need u to cook me an omelet, I got my leftovers from last night dinners in the fridge.

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