Toni Braxton Tells Anderson Cooper She’s Dating White Men… And Calls It…

November 10th, 2011 - By Brande Victorian

Toni Braxton will appear on the “Anderson” show today as part of her talk show circuit promoting “Braxton Family Values” Season 2, which premiers tonight (yay!). When Anderson asked about Toni’s move to L.A. and whether she’s dating, she told him she’s been trying interracial dating and “playing in the snow.”

She says:  “I’m beginning to play in the snow a bit. [...] Play in the snow? You’ve never heard of that? It means he’s Caucasian. [...]

Anderson: “And this is new for you?”

Toni: “I’ve never played in the snow before.”

Anderson: “How is the snow?”

Toni: “This is a lovely snowflake.”

Anderson: “Well, every snowflake is different.”

Their interaction is hilarious. Check it out below.

I wonder who the snowman is. What white celeb could you see Toni hooking up with?

Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.

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  • MissDee08

    Well, I’m happy for Toni and all, if she’s in this stage of her life…however, before she jumps all in the snow…please get those finances together, boo! that BK filing twice…just ain’t a good look! *keepingitreal* and YES I am a BW.

  • Torontochick

    Sooo stupid. I can’t believe she said that. smfh

  • Darkesthourglass

    I think some of you sistas have chased the black men away with your posts. I think that deep down they don’t have an issue with black women dating white men just don’t talk or brag about it. Sometimes we do get carried away and it’s like a slap in the face. They can’t take it, obviously.

    • Msddre

      …they can dish the shtt out, but they can’t take it when the tables are turned…typical…

    • Anonymous

      The point is that we can talk…brag…mediate…write and do whatever we feel because we are talking amongst ourselves..AND  as far as chasing Black Men away…They are not the ones being sought after to begin with so who really cares?

  • http://twitter.com/MOTRenaissance Adonis

    LOVE IT!!! We need more BW like her… 

  • reese

    I see this differently.  She said playing in the snow and said she wasn’t really dating.  So it sounded to me like she doesn’t see this white guy as anything more than fun or experiment  

  • NessT

    Although I do agree that she shouldn’t have said the whole snowflake thing. It’s degrading and makes it look like she just experimenting…. And not seriously looking for love…

    • Love_Sexy

      Yeah I agree with that…she should have played down the “snowflake”

  • NessT

    I just don’t understand why BM hate BW so much. What did we ever do to them to create such deep seated hatred…

    you talk about BW who have a lot of baby daddies… But I for 1 don’t have kids…

    too bad the love and respect BW have for BM is not recipocated… :(

    • Love_Sexy

      Yes it is very hurtful and I like you have no kids. .But like someone said on here we have to focus on doing our thang….No tears here…lol

    • aqquippless2000

      I guess you`ve missed out on the overt misandry against the blackman blackwomen have spearheaded in the media for the last 40 years.

  • http://twitter.com/DTFunkyChocolat Dannie

    Does anyone here actually have a brain? I don’t get this arguing. It just sounds petty and stupid.

  • Girliusmaximus

    Lol. This is a funny discussion…

  • Kaishandra

    I am looking at these comments and I am like wow. Why is there so much hate towards black women???? Can someone explain that to me, please !

    • Love_Sexy

      Same question I have asked myself……It has really been an eye opener for me regarding how a portion of BM view BW. Amazing!

    • IrishLad

      Because black men are pathetic……I appreciate black women like no other!

  • Bren82

    I thought it was stupid of her to call it “playing in the snow”. Someone asked the question of how she would feel if her current boyfriend said that he was “dipping in chocolate”. I concur. So what now, Toni, once the snow melts, and you finish “playing” (experimenting, because he’s a guinea pig), will you go back to being a boring nobody?

  • JustAshley

    LOL  @ some of these comments. Why is interracial dating such a touchy topic with some of ya’ll- especially the men? But you same dudes will be the first to laugh in a black womans face when a black man is dating a white chick. Such hypocrisy is laughable. Do your OWN thing Toni and sing to the world about it if you want too. I know I will. ;) #NotMadAtTheSwirl
    *

  • Joseph

     Its about time Black women started dating white men. I get tired of angry black women always angry at life and having issues when I go to work. If more black women date out maybe black women would lose the chip on their shoulder and start being less cold and have more fun in life because black women today are like grave sites, many of them are just miserable.

    • Darkesthourglass

      So you’re saying dating out mellows a sista out? I can dig it but we’re not all miserable. Too blessed to be stressed.

    • Anonymous

      We may be like grave sites but at least we’re not IN those graves like BM…say what you want but we ain’t slaughtering each other like ya’ll! Now that’s true misery LOL!

      • Darkesthourglass

        OUCH!

  • QueenBee

    Big Deal, So What, Who Cares… This is what u call TMI, too much information….. he just asked her was she dating and she didn’t have to mention what color they were…. dumb, dumb, dumb…….

  • L-Boogie

    Okay.  Interesting comments. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Goldie-Treasure/100001545308532 Goldie Treasure

    Some of ya’ll are haters, black men love to talk about how they love white girls or badmouth black women, but when it’s the other way around it’s a problem. Get your acts together black men and women like me and Toni wouldn’t be going for non black men.

    • UnitedFront

      Right on Sista!  I’m getting ready to play in the snow and sand my da_m self!  Congrats, Toni!

      • Guess

        I did it and never went back (got a ring on it, actually).  BW/WM marriages out last BM/WW and BM/BW. That says alot.  
        Have fun, girl. 

    • Msddre

      They’re just mad because black women are moving on…

      • Ray

        ??? Oh please, cut it out, 

        The only thing black women are moving on to is food stamps and having alot of kids out of wedlock. F out of here.

        • Msddre

          Actually, that would be white women, since they’re hooking up black men more than ever, and they’re the main recipients of welfare assistance…

          Too bad that black males are leaving them with OOW just like they did with black women.

          Notice the common denominator…

          • Ray

            Of course the out of wedlock children factory that are black women is because of black men and not infantile and irresponsible black women coupled with bad choices in men. Of course black women are mindless females with no cogent thought that having kids out of wedlock might ruin their chances at success further down in life.

            Black women and their need to blame others for their promiscuity and irresponsible behavior with our 75% illegitimacy rate in the black community. Some of those same women have more than one kid by different men and expect another outcome while others abuse welfare with 5 kids.  Fool me once shame on you. fool me twice and three times shame me.

            STFU and Kick rocks, if you have a kid out of wedlock and are not married and have not signed that life contract with a man than you are playing with fire. I dont care who you are, having kids out of wedlock is risky for any race and it is higher for the black AA race.

            Take responsibility for yourselves

            • Msddre

              …i have nothing to be responsible for, except for myself…you need to STFU and deal with the fact that lotsa black women have moved on from sorry azz black males…

        • Anonymous

          And the only thing Black Men are moving onto is prison cells and homosexuality and killing each other off like flies!
          You’re pathetic to begin with for trolling on a website for Black Women anyway!

          • Msddre

            …he’s one sad, sorry mfker…oh well, not my problem…

    • Julezx

      Shut up and get back in the kitchen and cook food you idiot. Women, especially black women should be seen and not heard.

      Black men need to retrain their women, dating a white man is fine but being a minstrel show should be outlawed. 

      • Anonymous

        What needs to be outlawed are you jealous bitter Black male hens that come on here crying and whining when a sista doesn’t want your loser a**es!
        Why are you here anyway?

      • Msddre

        Shut up and take care of your gawdamn kids! Stay outta jail!! Get a phukkin’ job!

        BE A MAN!!!

        No wonder a lotta black women are moving on to IR…good for them…

    • Love_Sexy

      Right!……..Seem like when the tables are turn BM become bitter and angry like the posters on here….Its to the point of being down right derogatory with all the name calling….This is very sad that BM degrade BW in front of the world to see which only  show their ignorance, childish behavior  and disrepect for women…Have you ever considered that non-black people come on to these websites and probably get a good laugh from the disrepect that goes on?….This type of behavior only continue to aid with the destruction of the black community…..Very sad!

      • Darkesthourglass

        Sad but true. But could it be because they’re just frustrated? Confused maybe?

        • Love_Sexy

          Good question. Maybe so.

    • Anonymous

      They fall to pieces when they know we aren’t looking at just Black Men..it’s like dealing with jealous spiteful little boys. Black Men can dish it out but definitley can’t take it back!

      • Love_Sexy

        Thank you sister!

        • Anonymous

          No problem sis…just speaking the cold hard truth!

  • mike jones

    You have never seen a Black man get on t.v.and play into white folks agenda so effortlessly. She was practically shoehorning a swirling into the conversation. And why isn’t Joy Behar and Anderson Cooper asking white women about the color of men they date?

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Goldie-Treasure/100001545308532 Goldie Treasure

      Did not like this dumb comment, not sure why it is showing up that way.

      • mike jones

        what was dumb exactly ? Please give me a link with a Black male celebrity injecting the fact that they are dating pink toes as overtly as Toni Braxton. 

        • JustAshley

          Jamie Fox, Isaiah Mustafa, Wesley Snipes….. Need I go on?

          • mike jones

            All you did was list a bunch of names. Where are the links? Or the quotes at least?

            • JustAshley

              Scared to look for the quotes yourself?
              *
              Jamie Fox said about Black history month “Alot of white women want to go out with me, but I said “Listen, for 28 days I can’t. I have to schedule them for March.” *
              Isaiah Mustafa – Do I really need to pull his quote about good hair?
              *
              Wesley Snipes “Primarily I’ve dated black women all my life. But it just so happens that right now I am dating an Asian woman. Its different. Different energy, different spirit, but a nice person.”
              *
              Now what was your point again? Cause it looks like all three men have OVERTLY mentioned their interracial  romantic prospects. 

              • Jeroge

                How does snipes very polite argument and comment mean black woman bashing. Give me a break

                • JustAshley

                  First of all you needed to read Mikes post before you jump in the convo. The POINT is Toni DIDN’T OVERTLY allude to the fact that she’s dating a white guy. Snipes made the exact kind of statement in the interview he gave in the late 90′s. It was the EXACT SAME kind of statement period. 

                • JustAshley

                  And where did I say it was black women bashing? Me and Mike’s convo didn’t even allude to that. You really need to READ the convo before you jump in.
                  *
                  Sidenote: The fact that YOU made that connection speaks volumes. LOL!!

            • reese

              You didn’t see the article from Taye Diggs that his mother always new he would marry a ww.

              • Love_Sexy

                Yep I seen that.

  • DAYWALKER (THE DAYDREAM!!!!)

    Who cares WHO the hell it is that you sleep with, TONI?? Not me, but I will say that you have SPECIAL NEEDS KIDS, you’re over 40, and your career is in the toilet at this point….So what IDIOT is going to WIFE you up????

  • DAYWALKER (THE DAYDREAM!!!!)

    Mayne, EFF this SELLOUT HEFFA!!! I don’t think she could be any more stupid if she tried….So you’re dating a WHITE man, Toni…..What do you want, a COOKIE, heffa????

    • Jermaine

      Why do black women act like dating a white man is a life altering experience and epiphany moment. If you are dating a white man fine but some black women make it out to be heaven on earth as if they have never dated before. 

      • No Disrespect

        I think she is just excited to share her new experience. She did not make any statements about this being the happiest she’s ever been or anything like that. She is trying something new and it is clear that she was just excited to be trying something new and to be in a new relationship. Back off and deal with your own insecurities. Let her enjoy playing in the snow. Lol. 

      • Anonymous

        The manners, the compliments, not being called vile names, not dealing with a terrible attitude, no baby mama drama, employed, no criminal record…………….actually…it IS a life altering experience for some of us! We didn’t know men like this existed on this planet!

        • Guess

          Agree!

          Toni Braxton, SMART GIRL

        • IrishLad

          lmao….*opens arms* come experience your life changing experience!

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Shariese-Hurd/100001852350588 Shariese Hurd

        I don’t think she meant it that way. She did acknowledge that he specifically was special and of them are different like everyone else.

      • Laura

        Exactly some black women are a mess. You could say I’m married to the first black president of the United States and some delusional black woman would say, well my bf has blue eyes.  So you think having blue eyes makes him equal to the president of the united states? Wow.

    • Anonymous

      You’re really bitter and pathetic..just so that you know!

  • Love_Sexy

    What do you mean by ” blanketed statement like that is ridiculous” ?….I understand the remaining point you made. Everyone have a right to their opinion but its all in the way you go about presenting yourself. There is nothing wrong with having a healthy yet positive debate but the bottom line is the attacks are sad, disrepectful, and don’t look good at all……So on that note I am SIGNING OFF!

  • Tayvon

    I mean blanketed statement because you made a blanketed statement about black men when you have about 3 black male posters insulting black women. It is 3 rabble-rousers who usually sling jokes at black women anyway on these boards who seem to be acting up. 

    The attacks are sad on both sides not just on the black male side because i see some instigation on both sides on the isle.

    Also, you and the other black females were not debating anything or having a healthy debate, you were throwing out innuendos and a few cheap shots at a large percentage of black men who really dont care about this issue at all.

    Most of us black men aint even on here, cut it out

  • Love_Sexy

    If that is the way you view it so be it.

  • Anonymous

    Then if yao”ain’t even on here” why don’t you collect up the ones that are here and get ta steppin cuz this reall isn’t your business and your precsnce here only shows your jealousy and insecurity..this site is for BLACK WOMEN’S issues..there are plenty of Black Men’s sites for you to go to. CIAO!

  • reese

    I agree.  Why even debate with some of these men on here who only come here to put down bw.   It is like debating with white supremist, but they are even more ignorant to think that only the women of the race are inferior not realizing that if we are do to our skin color they are too because they share our skin color.

  • JustAshley

    Look up top and at the quotes I posted of black male celebrities who OVERTLY mentioned their interracial romance prospects. Now go search out old threads about black male celebrities dating interracially and you will notice how these very same posters are NOWHERE to be found. And if you do find them there look at their comments. They will suddenly be supportive of interracial dating and they will put down black women everywhere. These very same male posters will turn around and laugh in black woman’s faces and put us (black women) down about it.  Its hypocrisy plain and simple. *shrugs*

  • Darkesthourglass

    Who said anything about dirt and mud?
    I thought we were chocolate or caramel.
    Snow bunny, Chocolate bunny.

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