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This strange thing keeps happening to you. You meet guys who are so charming, so charismatic, so witty, so sociable, and so confident…They truly seem like catches! But, after a date or two, you find out they’re between jobs. They’re “funemployed.” They’re “figuring things out.” They’re “Helping their mom out by living at home with her for now.” You get it: these men do not have jobs. While each one has had some excuse, the reality is that these are the only men you attract, so you can’t deny there is some pattern happening. You don’t judge, but you wouldn’t mind attracting just a few employed men. Is that too much to ask? Well, no, but simply asking for it may not be enough. You could be putting out a vibe or displaying some behavior that tells these men to talk to you. Here is why you keep attracting “funemployed” men.
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You’re funemployed
Water seeks its own level. If you’re unemployed, you might just scare of employed men. They don’t want you mooching off of them, and they’re mostly attracted to women who have their lives together and have some drive. That means, you’re just left with the funemployed pool. Maybe it’s time to find a job before finding a boyfriend, and the boyfriends who come your way will change.
