“Let’s Get Married If We’re Still Single at 30” And Other Silly Pacts People Make
Why it doesn’t work
So here’s what happens when you use your friend’s sperm and have a child through in vitro fertilization: you wind up meeting a man you actually want to be with, later, and it gets really complicated. Now you just have a kid with some other man? What if your new romantic partner wants to get married and have kids? Is he co-parenting with your best friend (aka the sperm donor?) You suddenly have a weird throuple situation on your hands.