How He Knows You’re Not Ready For Something Serious

November 11th, 2011 - By jaustin

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You don’t want to sleep around. You’re not accepting dates with other guys. You’re seeing just one guy, almost every day. But, that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ready for something serious. There is a difference between dating someone and completely melding your life with his. And when a man is thinking about marriage, or moving in together, or just making decisions with your relationship in mind, there are a few signs that tell him you’re not.

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  • Annoyed

    This entire article is garbage. The only person who isn’t ready for a relationship is the author of all this foolishness. Bettering yourself means you aren’t “whole?” Sleeping in your own bed is a bad sign? Why does the author assume the only people uncomfortable with excessive PDA are “singles?” Newsflash, most people with a sense of propriety don’t want to see folks making out in public, and if a couple has any sense of decorum, they’ll be discreet.
    Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you dump your single friends! You can’t control the relationship status of your friends, and you certainly don’t get rid of them once yours changes, especially considering there’s a good chance your own will be changing at some point in the future. Jaustin, do us all a favor and stop writing about relationships!

  • Nellie3169

    This is crazy. ok so u like to b at home so u like to b with ur friends. So like to me u want us to think bout wut he want and not wut we want. If u we dont listwn then talk bout something interesting thats gone keep my attention. I have ADD so u need to stimulate me.

  • Queenp

    Well isnt that something I had to deal with for moment

    • Queenp

      The x wife but he got his act.together real dear

  • Ragas Lekita

    Well what if he is still talking to his x wife but he says its only about there son which is a grown man

  • Curious Bri

    I wonder if the person who wrote this has a successful marriage…

  • Luvredone

    I call BS on this entire article. Whoever wrote this needs their head examined! Us women are “not a whole person” because we’re trying to better ourselves by evolving and making changes? Ridiculous!!!

  • Naomisoyummi

    So if you’re reading self help books, this says you are not ready for commitment? That’s complete and utter bs. I think it’s admirable to constantly try to improve one’s self and hope my mate would be constantly evolving. Not striving to be perfect or changing into a different person but just becoming a more educated evolved person. Yeah. This article sucks.

    • Luvredone

      Amen! Thank God the readers are at least talking sense.

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  • reese

    There are no easy answers.  They makes relationships between people so easy by just giving you a list to know if he is into, a good guy, cheating or whatever.   None of these are absolute and most of themare quite silly.

  • Dyshiki18

    This article is dumb

    • Bobo

      That’s the writer’s opinion and u either take it or not but to say its dumb just shows how close minded u are. Most of the things the writer wrote are logical in a  healthy relationship.

  • Who wrote this article?!?

     *But if you’re in your own relationship, and you don’t want to hear about the relationships of others, this says to your man that subconsciously you see yourself as single.*
    How about this says that I want to mind our business and not anyone else’s?!?

  • L-Boogie

    Um, just because you do not look into someone’s eyes does not mean you do not like them. That means you are nervous!  Get out of here!