Questions To Ask Yourself Before Entering Couples Therapy
Have we always fought?
Have you been fighting from day one? Here’s a bit of a jolting concept: relationships should be overwhelmingly easy for at least the first TWO YEARS! Some people are addicted to drama or just can’t find the right person and so they start fighting in their relationships from month one, or day one. If your relationship wasn’t able to be peaceful and happy for at least two years—fine, we’ll be generous and say one year—then you’re just with the wrong person. And you may need to do some personal work yourself in therapy alone.