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Sometimes I worry that we are too hard on men who are out there, casually dating, raging until 3 am on weeknights, and taking impromptu trips to Vegas where they blow half of their rent money. I don’t think this type of behavior should go on forever—or even for very long—but I do think there is a time and place for it. In fact, some may even say that men who don’t have their wild days are more prone to cheat later. Men who don’t let their freak flags fly may be forever curious about what could have been. And you don’t want to be married to someone who believes the grass could be greener on the other side. You want to be with someone who has been to the other side, and realized there are a lot or STD scares and expensive bar bills on that grass. And that grass is yellowed from everyone who pees on it. Alright, you get the idea. Here is why you should only date a man after he’s spread his wild oats.
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He’ll appreciate a stable woman
If you are sane, stable, not at all jealous, and glad to just watch Netlfix on a Friday night, your partner won’t think you’re boring or not exciting enough. He will have already dealt with the crazy passionate but also insanely jealous women. He will have already tried to keep up with the hard partiers. He knows that that is exhausting. He’ll love how stable and calm you are.
