The Most Toxic Fighting Techniques
Projecting/turning around the blame
Admitting you messed up is uncomfortable and painful. It’s so uncomfortable that you may avoid doing so and, instead, start digging up things your partner has done wrong. So, if your partner is accusing you of doing something wrong (and he is correct), rather than apologize, you may start listing off the times he did a similar thing. Do we really have to remind you that two wrong’s don’t make a right?