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If you want to get plastic surgery, this could bring up some confusing feelings for your partner. I know—you’re thinking, “What’s he got to do with this? It’s my body! (and my money).” Yes, it is. But don’t you sometimes have thoughts and feelings about what your partner does to his body? Don’t you become angry if he skips a checkup or if he doesn’t eat vegetables for an entire week? Didn’t you feel a little left out when he came back from Vegas with a tattoo that he never spoke to you about? When you love someone, you feel like you’re a part of them and they’re a part of you. It’s only natural that your partner would have a strong reaction to you wanting to alter your body—the body he’s loved, as is, for a long time. Here is what it’s like for your partner when you get plastic surgery.
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He wonders if he unintentionally caused this
Your partner may feel a little guilty, wondering if he somehow drove you to plastic surgery. He might look back on conversations you’ve had about your appearance, analyzing his every word to see if he ever made you insecure. Most good partners hope they make you feel so beautiful that you’d never dream of getting plastic surgery. Your partner could wonder if he didn’t do a good enough job of letting you know you’re perfect as you are.
