The Anatomy of a Mean Girl: Part Good & Part Bad

October 29, 2011  |  

Last week we discussed the definition of a mean girl, which basically means loving yourself first before any relationship. Being a ‘Mean Girl’ is not to be taken literally; a ‘Mean Girl’ is a mindset and lifestyle. The moment we start recognizing what’s acceptable, what makes US happy in a relationship and start acting on it in an assertive way, people misconstrue it as being “mean” or “playing games. Why would putting your happiness above all else be “playing games” with anyone?  Don’t YOU deserve to be number one? Don’t Y-O-U deserve to be catered to?

If you think this way of behaving is just too mean for you to operate in, so be it. Live your life and operate in the manner in which you’ve been doing for so long if it works for you. But if you’re still single, maybe there’s some truth to this…There are some women who handle their business in the relationship department come hell or high water, whether you call it mean, bitchy or callous.  It gets the point across to the world and those therein that they come first!

These women remain happily dating, in-love, married and doing so without letting the men in their lives walk over them or anyone dictate them. Do what works for Y-O-U, but these are the makings of a Mean Girl….

In this column we will break down the anatomy of a mean girl based on their characteristics as it relates to Celebrity Women…

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