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There was sort of a window of time for a woman to learn how to be good at using her digits to please her partner. Depending on how early or late of a bloomer you were, maybe that window happened in the late high school years when everybody was still free to admit, “I’m new to this stuff and I have no idea what I’m doing.” Back then, it was okay to ask questions and get a little direction. But if you missed that window to get some instruction, you may find yourself a fully-grown woman, completely baffled as to what to do when you put your hand on your man. The mouth stuff you have on lockdown, but the hand stuff is an enigma (and you’re embarrassed to admit it). Here are questions most women still have about hand jobs (and don’t want to admit).
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Do you wait until it’s up?
If he’s completely flaccid, do you even put your hand down there? Or wait until it’s up? Typically, men don’t feel confident about having a woman grip their totally asleep member, and you can count on it getting up on its own with some kissing.
