0 Effs Given: 5 Ways To Be Impervious To Insults

1. Know Your Worth So That No One Can Define You

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Having a well-defined character is crucial to being invincible to vicious verbal attacks.

Think about it this way: A clump of clay doesn’t have a solidified shape, right? Anyone can mold it into whatever he or she wants.

But when an object has a defined sense of being, like a laptop for example, there’s no way in hell it’s going to let you transform it into whatever you want. It’s a f***ing laptop, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

In the same way, you need to crystallize your character – you are stunningly gorgeous, you are incredibly intelligent.

So if someone says you’re frightfully ugly or dumb as rocks, it will bounce off your strong, solidified self like a ping pong ball. You know who you are – you’re f***ing amazing, and there’s nothing they can do about it. But if you waver in knowing your worth, unfortunately, you will find yourself like putty in the hands of those who would love to manipulate your mind into mush.