Having Sex with Your Ex
Most men feel that if his baby comes out of your vagina, he has first right of refusal. Not too many women are looking to jump right back in the sack after becoming a mom, but it makes sense with the child’s father. Right of vaginal passage sex, without a clear commitment to being a family unit only leads to the dramazone. One day, you him and the baby are looking like a young Bill and Claire Huxtable and the next day he’s loving on some other chic. He’s already gotten his fair share of free goodies and then some. If he’s not even trying to make you feel like his wife, you have to resign to being his child’s mother and move on. If you need a little time with baby daddy before you can get that intimate with someone else, by all means, do you. But don’t get it twisted.