8 Dating Truths That Women Refuse To Accept

October 18th, 2011 - By madamenoire

Sometimes we women make things much harder on ourselves. Why can’t we just take the basic lessons of relationships and life and accept them for what they are? Even though it’s clear someone is not interested in us, why do we continue to make excuses for that person? It’s a wonder, really. Maybe if we just accepted things that men and therapists have told us, we’d have no drama. And with no drama, what would we commiserate with our girlfriends about? Ahhh…I’m onto something here. But before we go into some deep sociological interpretations, let’s review just some of the truths about dating that many women still refuse to accept.

"couple"He’s just not that into you

Doesn’t it seem like all your friends just missed the whole “He Just Not That Into You” craze that sprung out from Sex and The City and went on to mark a heightened time of awareness about dating patterns? Why are women still wandering if a guy has some interest in ‘em when he hasn’t called in a week? Ladies, if he hasn’t asked you out, taken you out on a date, or asked you to be his girlfriend after months of dating, HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.

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  • Analyst

    I still guffaw at the fact that women seem to think that there is ‘THE ONE’ for you…maaan when we getting our heads out of fairytale land?!

  • Trust me, I know

    This whole article is asinine. There are maybe 2 points that are right on, including guys that talk marriage too soon, and that self-confidence is more important than looks. I’m a guy, and the other 6 points are total myths. Any chick that makes me wait 3 months is going to 1) be cheated on, and 2) disappoint the guy she’s with with all the build-up and the let-down at the end. A 3-month prude is only going to get me to the bragging point that I tapped that and then split. Nothing is more attractive and helpful in a relationship than one that just runs it’s course naturally and honestly. If you’re having issues with losing guys after sleeping with them “too soon” (whatever that means), it’s because you gave into your natural temptations before he realized that you’re a creep. Don’t cry because it didn’t work out, be happy that you had great sex. Move on. 

  • Socaldano

    Off base on a few things..if you want to meet a guy who is hungry, go where they hang out. They cannot compete with the PLAyas at the club. Go do what the other guys do…
    When the girl spurns the advances, he thinks she is just not into him, call him, call him back, touch him,
    Half the non PLAyaa’s love the girl who gets a little or a lot physical the first night – shows interest, whether some french kissing with passionate hugging or passionate lovemaking…
    Go where the guys go, softball, watch the game on TV with the guys, man events like gun show and 4wd show
    Go alone or with a non threatening girl friend…the groups of girls kill a meeting.

    There are a lot of medium to very successful good guys who are available because they are not experts at the art of dating…..help him cross that boundary.

  • http://www.benefits-of-cloud-computing.com Alan

    “What can we say, men are animals and..” yeah thanks for that. And people like you wonder why you’re single huh?