The Luv Coach: How Can I Get Over the Memories?

October 17th, 2011 - By Alexis Garrett Stodghill

By Rebecca Brody, The Luv Coach

Mixed Couple: Black Love Advice

This week, The Luv Coach teaches a Madame Noire reader how to regain her self-esteem in her search for love. Read on and weigh in.

Dear Love Coach,

I find myself giving advice to my friends about their relationships. Problem is — I’m not in one.

My last boyfriend, who was white, made me leave and hide when his parents came over. His dad paid for his condo and both are teachers at Notre Dame. He also graduated from Notre Dame and became a lawyer. I know because he’s told me this, everyday.

So I’m finding it difficult trying to get back to the dating scene when I have memories of my ex, and how I had to hide when his parents would come over. I mean how do you get over this? How can I get over this?

Thanks,

Stephanie

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  • Guest

    "why aren't people on this board bashing ALL white men because of this jerk? Sounds like many readers here share Madame Noire's white boy fetish. "

    So judging an individual by his actions rather than his race means someone has a "white boy fetish?" What kind of bizarro world do you live in?