Biological Dad of Steve Jobs Regrets Not Meeting Him

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October 10, 2011 ‐ By madamenoire
"John Jandali"

"John" Jandali, Steve Jobs's biological father

So I was perusing The Wall Street Journal today and came across a story on Steve Jobs that was a very rare feature; it was not on his legacy as a tech genius, his beginnings or how his company will hold up in the wake of his death. This time around, it was about Jobs’s alleged biological father, a man by the name of Abdulfattah “John” Jandali. Jandali was born in Syria and now, at the age of 80, resides in Reno, Nev., and is the general manager of a casino called Boomtown. If you didn’t know before, the Jobs was given up for adoption, and later adopted by Paul and Clara Jobs. Why? Well, Jandali was allegedly in a relationship with Jobs’s biological mother, Joanne Schieble, back while studying at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Her father didn’t approve of their relationship, and an already pregnant and stressed out Schieble went to California for a while to “get away.” While there, she gave birth to Jobs and gave him up for adoption.

Jandali says he found out in 2005 that Jobs was his biological son, but only during this year he says, did he start reaching out to Jobs when he found out that his health was failing. He says the most he got back from Jobs was a “thanks” from birthday greetings and get well messages sent via the Internet. His e-mails seem to be the only connection–if that’s what you want to call it–he has to Jobs. In an interview with The Sun in August after Jobs resigned from his post at Apple, Jandali said the following:

“If I could live my life again I would do things entirely differently. And even more so in recent years when I have heard that my son is gravely ill. It makes me feel like time is running out and that I am totally helpless.”

Now, when I read stories like this, I definitely feel somewhat sad for the parent, but of course, I always feel worse for the child. When you really want to have a meeting or a relationship with the children you never got to know or turned your back on, why go to the tabloids first? Scenarios like this remind me of the countless other celebrities who’ve had their parent–folks who seemed to have no interest in them for years–go to the public before going to them about reconnecting. It makes the circumstances look very sketch. Are you reaching out so late because you really care? Or because you want to profit in some way from a relationship with your child in the future?

Jandali did have another child with Schieble: the author, Mona Simpson. After Jobs was given up for adoption, Schieble returned to the University of Wisconsin, and after her father passed, she married Jandali and gave birth to Simpson (who takes the surname of her stepfather). The couple would later divorce. However, Simpson remains estranged to her father, and his attempts to reach out to her, he says, have been unsuccessful. She did, however, write a book in 1993 called The Lost Father. It was a fiction novel about a woman looking for the father she had no knowledge of. Janali believes the book is based on him, and in response to it, he says the following: “She’s entitled to that. It’s the price to pay for not being there for your child when you’re a father. Even though I don’t see her, I love her dearly.” Jandali says he has no plans nor does he want to try and take any credit for his children’s success (his words: “I can’t take credit for my children’s success.”), he just wishes he could have connected with him before it was too late, even if it was just through e-mail:

“I don’t know why I emailed,” Mr. Jandali said. “I guess because I felt bad when I heard about the health situation. He had his life and I had my life, and we were not in contact. If I talked to him, I don’t know what I would have said to him.”

To read more on Jandali, head over to The Wall Street Journal.

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  • Marybelle

    Gave up for adoption-later adopted–Boy what writers- My neighbor's 6 year can do better

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  • JOJO TAYLOR

    DAD IS A TOTAL LOSER

  • http://google SMH

    Steve had a great life path without john, and this proves a person can succeed regardless, he probably would have ended up on a lower level with no money and bad credit if the s o b was in his life. RIP

  • http://google SMH

    Wow! Hwood producers are going to love this!
    Next time a story about black men being deadbeat dads pops up, let’s use this for comparison. Its only fair

  • GAPEACH1

    Wow, this reminds me so much of my husbands situation. The parents that give these children up and never even maybe attempt to reconnect or answer questions that their biological kids might what to know is very sad and selfish to me! Steve did well for himself and will be missed.

  • GorgeousSmile

    This is a tear jerker on sooooooo many levels but I am not going to cry. smh Damn!

  • whr

    This prove to me that no matter how much money you have, FAMILY is what is the most important thing in life. REAL TALK!!

    LOVE YOUR LOVED ONES

  • gina

    Selfish parents…..anything the accomplished they could have done and raise their child. Thank goodness Mr.&Mrs Jobs Sr loved him and nurtured his Genius ….God gave him the right parents.

  • pat

    hate parent like him who always come after the fact he had a chance he want to reach out now its too late

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1371160615 Uc Oh

    I love that example…sometimes it's easier for people to make excuses than take responsibilities!
    Oh well may Steve's beautiful soul rest in peace and may God be with his family and loves ones, amen!

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  • Prissy

    I say BLAME THE MOTHER. I HATE with an utter passion when some women put children up for adoption without the father knowing, only to not find out about the child later on??? That's craziness. It's not fair to the man nor to the child. Men have rights just as much as mothers do. Makes me sick to hear about this. And now folk are just gonna probably bash the biological father like it was his fault … smh

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1371160615 Uc Oh

      If he wanted to be part of his life, he could have done more, hello!!!? If a one parent wants to give a child up for adoption and the other parent is still alive (with no court case pending or criminal history) 1. the court needs written consent from both parents or 2. if 2nd parent doesn't come forward after a period of time, the adoption is granted. Did you read the part where it states that Jandali and Scheible got married (even after she gave him up for adoption)…so he can keep w/e he's selling cuz no one with an atom of sense will buy it. It's not hard to see what's going on here, if he cared or really wanted the baby, he would have done more to keep him or find out. But to talk this yang after 50 something years is baloney especially since he married the same woman! He also stated that he wasn't there for the child so that means he acknowledges he could have and should have done more as a father. PS: Am not attacking your input, but you need to read beyond his BS!

    • GorgeousSmile

      Maybe it was for the best! We probably wouldn't have the iPhone or macs if Steve Jobs's mother hadn't gave him up for adoption.

  • Kelly

    He wants a piece of Mr. S. Jobs money now. I assume he had a will done and good lawyers to ensure his last wishes are carried out.

  • http://www.facebook.com/Tiffinypie Tiffiny Alford

    Steve looked like his biological dad . Spitting image!

    • Honut Sinti

      Exactly! No Maury needed.