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The entire concept of cold feet is dangerous because it normalizes feeling terrified before your wedding. You really shouldn’t feel terrified about marrying the person you’re marrying. You might feel some anxiety around the fact that you love them so much, and marrying them only bonds you more, which would make losing them even harder if anything ever happened. You may feel some anxiety around your ability to be the partner that your spouse deserves. But your “cold feet” shouldn’t be related to the person you have chosen to spend your life with. If it’s about time to start shelling money out to a wedding planner and sending out invitations, but you’re feeling a strange sensation in your gut, make sure you’re making the right decision. Here are signs it’s more than just cold feet, and you’re actually marrying the wrong person.
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You can picture your life without them
Not only can you picture your life without them, but there is something liberating and exciting about the concept. It seems like there would be some relief in it.
