5 Rules for Dating as a Single Mom

September 12th, 2011 - By madamenoire

If you’ve recently split with your husband or significant other how long should you wait before you hit the dating scene again? Does that number change when you add children to the mix?

Dating after the end of one relationship is tricky enough but when children are involved it becomes even more complex? When do you introduce your new beau to the kids? What do I tell my kids to call the new man?

These are a legit questions that Your Tango.com answers. There are even some additional ones I’m sure you’ve been wondering. Check them out over at Your Tango.com.

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  • chocolate drop

    yeah come on puss puss what you got to say now!

  • selfishmensuck

    by the way smack head, a bastard is the child of a dead father, not one is simply not there. just fyi.

    • guest

      Actually, a bastard is a child whose parents aren't married when he/she is born.

      • selfishmensuck

        @guest, not true. read the bible.

        • Jey H.

          Gurl..youre funny! Got the last word on that too!

  • selfishmensuck

    big head smakerlicious has issues!

  • selfishmensuck

    You should also think about this, how many of these child free people had abortions so that they could live their selfish lives. Alot more people would have kids if it were not for that. alot of women have abortions and walk around like they are perfect . So before you think child free mate is a good catch, ask them if they ever murdered a baby, or paid for it.

    • HeadSmackeroni

      Not everyone is against abortion.
      I for one am not, so I could care less – their body, their choice.

    • guest

      You are def right about that. Just because you have no kids doesn't mean you didn't stop a life via abortion.

    • letsbehonest

      why is it that you babymamas want to hate on women who had abortions?

      and fyi not all women who are childless have had abortions, some of us are abstinent and some actually use birth-control correctly and consistently thank you very much!

      and even if those women had abortions, they managed to keep their business off the streets didn't they?

      and this.

      "You should also think about this, how many of these child free people had abortions so that they could live their selfish lives."

      really? what about the countless ignorant baby mamas who just bust out a kid without being able to personally support it but will do so because they also benefit from welfare , section 8, etc?

      what about the baby mommas who will use a child as an anchor to try and keep a man ?

      what about the baby mommas who know that they are mentally and emotionally unequipped to deal with a child but will have it anyway (because of whatever benefit to them)and abuse and neglect that child ?

      what about the baby mommas who will not wait till they can tick off as many as the child's needs before having a kid , and when that kid struggles or becomes a delinquent they then blame the rest of the world?

      what about their selfishness?

      and if you don't have a kid why so mad ?

  • Big Mike

    Good attitude, Tamar. Just find one of the MANY men who will date single moms. Don't vilify those men/women who chose not to enter that situation…..very mature.

    • Tamar

      Who am I vilifying? The article was about rules for dating for single parents not who wants to date a single parent. We all have standards and I can care less if a man with no kids dont want to date me. What am I supposed to do beg a man who dont want to date a single mother to date me? Or list my credentials so that he can see that im worthy of his afffection? I dont kiss ass. Never had to and never will. GTFOH

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