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(As relayed by Lauren R.D. Fox based on a culmination of experiences)

I met Johan three weeks ago on Match. Although he seems like a great guy, I feel like my new boo has become extremely comfortable with me, a little too fast.

In less than a month I’ve alread met Johan’s mother, sister and slew of best friends. To be clear, there’s nothing wrong with meeting a potential love interest’s family or friends, but Johan’s nice actions and behavior seemed a bit forced.

Yesterday, he asked me when my birthday is and whether I had plans. Unfortunately, I didn’t make any. Despite wanting to take a trip outside of the country, I offered to be in two weddings this Spring and my funds were quite low. After hearing this, Johan offered to pay for us to go to Antigua, Guatemala as a birthday surprise.

I’ve wanted to visit the city known for romantic getaways, amazing cuisine, and historic volcanoes for some time, but my mother doesn’t like the idea of Johan paying for the trip — mostly because he pays for everything. He won’t even allow me to get him a cup of coffee.

Aside from appearing financially controlling, my sister pointed out that I don’t know Johan well enough to travel with and I somewhat agree. But my birthday is still two months away so if he doesn’t exhibit any questionable qualities before that time, I actually think I’m up for the trip. Is it too soon?

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