Whether it’s infidelity of the emotional kind or a full-on sexual involvement, infidelity is one of those things that can easily kill a relationship. People cheat for a variety of reasons that don’t always include being attracted or interested in someone else and sometimes, depending on the circumstances, there are relationships that can withstand the occasional wandering eye (or lower organs). Cheating is at times a response to something that is lacking within the relationship, more than it is about greed, convenience or indecision. But cheating is often more work than it’s worth. If you are unhappy in the relationship you’re in, just leave. It’s easier said than done most times, but it really is just that simple.
Too often, there are women who stay in relationships where they are repeatedly cheated on and try to convince themselves that all is forgiven, but will use the incident as ammo every time a disagreement occurs. If you say you’re over it, be over it. If you can’t get past it, move on to the next.